Dealing with azoospermia?
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Hopefulcat, my heart goes out to you. None of this is fair. Same thing happened to me...didnt even make it to Beta. In a way, I found it somewhat easier than hearing it from the doctor though. I know first hand theres not much any of us can say to help. Give yourself time to feel whatever it is you need to feel. Just know we are here for you if you need to vent.
When I started thinking of donor after this round failed, part of me was gutted, while the other part thought, this will bring me my family. I hope you find peace in whatever decision you make. I have been thinking of you all day.
When I started thinking of donor after this round failed, part of me was gutted, while the other part thought, this will bring me my family. I hope you find peace in whatever decision you make. I have been thinking of you all day.
Hopeful cat , feeling very bad for you. I can imagine how difficult this time is for you. Some times in your life you just go through a rough patch. Just hope you have seen the last of it. And things start being positive from now on.
Hi ladies
So my cramping has def become a bit stronger and and frequent over the past 3 days; however it is quite intermittent and feels a bit different more like poking and really low and almost further back towards my spine
Does any-of this make sense
I am 5 DP5 day- beta on monday
So my cramping has def become a bit stronger and and frequent over the past 3 days; however it is quite intermittent and feels a bit different more like poking and really low and almost further back towards my spine
Does any-of this make sense
I am 5 DP5 day- beta on monday
Hi GEM
Doing ok over here- cramping has stopped and not feeling a thing- actually feeling good and not tired at all.. Aka/ not feeling pregnant
I have been trying to remind myself that we have gotten SO far, from DH surgery to this and have had all positive feedback and results (which is so much more than I expected) ; so even if this doesn't work... I am super grateful and won't give up!
Beta is on Monday- decided not to test b4- don't want to be sad all
weekend!
How are you Gem? Have you and hubby looked into donor any further?
Doing ok over here- cramping has stopped and not feeling a thing- actually feeling good and not tired at all.. Aka/ not feeling pregnant
I have been trying to remind myself that we have gotten SO far, from DH surgery to this and have had all positive feedback and results (which is so much more than I expected) ; so even if this doesn't work... I am super grateful and won't give up!
Beta is on Monday- decided not to test b4- don't want to be sad all
weekend!
How are you Gem? Have you and hubby looked into donor any further?
So sorry M. But it aint over yet!! Its great that you have such a positive attitude. Thats what I told my DH. We didnt get pregnant, but we still had a miracle happen when they found sperm when we thought it was impossible.
Right now we are taking a little break and getting back to us. This TTC really takes over your life. We are gonna work on getting him healthy them try again this summer when I am off from work, and he has recovered a bit. Still trying to get some money together for herbs, accupuncture and vitamins. Its just so expensive and we still owe for our last cycle. I am really just starting to be myself again, took about a month, but I have finally stopped crying when people ask how I am doing. So I guess thats progress!
Right now we are taking a little break and getting back to us. This TTC really takes over your life. We are gonna work on getting him healthy them try again this summer when I am off from work, and he has recovered a bit. Still trying to get some money together for herbs, accupuncture and vitamins. Its just so expensive and we still owe for our last cycle. I am really just starting to be myself again, took about a month, but I have finally stopped crying when people ask how I am doing. So I guess thats progress!
It ain't over till the fat lady sings...on Monday....lol
Glad that you are taking a break, and doing 'you'
Do you want the list of supplements our accupuncturist put my hubby on? It might be a good place to start while you guys get everything situated
Let me know and I'll message you the list
As for me- feeling the same, had #2 lutual blood work today- but won't get feedback. Feeling good- some on/off cramping feel like P could come any minute, but then it doesn't..,
Did all of the BFN ladies make it to Beta? I wonder if I make it to Monday if it is a good sign...
Glad that you are taking a break, and doing 'you'
Do you want the list of supplements our accupuncturist put my hubby on? It might be a good place to start while you guys get everything situated
Let me know and I'll message you the list
As for me- feeling the same, had #2 lutual blood work today- but won't get feedback. Feeling good- some on/off cramping feel like P could come any minute, but then it doesn't..,
Did all of the BFN ladies make it to Beta? I wonder if I make it to Monday if it is a good sign...
Sure, that would be great! Thanks, I appreciate that!
Glad you are staying positive. My first BFN I made it to Beta. Period came two days after I stopped meds. This BFN I did not make it to Beta, so its tough to call. But its always a good sign that AF hasnt showed! I hate her. Lol.
Glad you are staying positive. My first BFN I made it to Beta. Period came two days after I stopped meds. This BFN I did not make it to Beta, so its tough to call. But its always a good sign that AF hasnt showed! I hate her. Lol.
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I'm afraid I can't help you with the BFN before Beta - because I never tested. But my blood tests were always so early, that it was pretty pointless to do an HPT. But all the times I had a BFN, I never got AF until a few days after I stopped the progesterone. 
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I did 3 Clomid/progesterone cycles, all those cycles I never got AF until I tested BFN, stopped progesterone and 3 days later AF showed.
My IVF cycle on progesterone, I started spotting quite heavy 3 days before beta, and got my period in full force one day before beta. I think it's cause my E2 levels were sky-high and my body was not accepting of an embryo.
My IVF cycle on progesterone, I started spotting quite heavy 3 days before beta, and got my period in full force one day before beta. I think it's cause my E2 levels were sky-high and my body was not accepting of an embryo.
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Hopefulcat, I'm so, so sorry. You've had to go through so much in such a short period of time. Sending you healing vibes.
Mbaby, thinking of you! You're not nuts- having to use the bathroom during the TWW would set my heart pounding too! Maybe this won't work for you, but last time I refused to look after I wiped (TMI). It stopped the heart palpitations, and I felt a sort of strange glee at tricking myself! Seriously, I turned into a crazy person. Wishing you lots of luck on Monday!
Gem, I agree- breaks can be so good for your mental health. We took several months "off" just to think things through, and I hadn't felt that calm and balanced for like, the previous year.
Mbaby, thinking of you! You're not nuts- having to use the bathroom during the TWW would set my heart pounding too! Maybe this won't work for you, but last time I refused to look after I wiped (TMI). It stopped the heart palpitations, and I felt a sort of strange glee at tricking myself! Seriously, I turned into a crazy person. Wishing you lots of luck on Monday!
Gem, I agree- breaks can be so good for your mental health. We took several months "off" just to think things through, and I hadn't felt that calm and balanced for like, the previous year.
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Hopeful- my heart goes out to u.
Mb- hang in there. Hope the beta gives u good news to look forward to.
Sorry if I haven't been around much, been hard lately so been not checking in much as I struggle to cope at times. Thinking of maybe following up with counselor soon, even if she only validates my feelings as normal for this type of journey.
Mb- hang in there. Hope the beta gives u good news to look forward to.
Sorry if I haven't been around much, been hard lately so been not checking in much as I struggle to cope at times. Thinking of maybe following up with counselor soon, even if she only validates my feelings as normal for this type of journey.
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