Dealing with azoospermia?
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Deb111 - i have just been lerking about just haven't been writing just reading. I am sorry about your BFN i still wouldn't take that answer the first time wait and test again it's worth the try *HUGS* my heart aches for you's it's devastating getting BFN normally on your test trying naturally but when you have been through your journey, It's even worse. I hope you's are ok considering the news xxx
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Deb-So so sorry. Hugs to you! Read your journal too, and I know how easy it is to think its your fault but you didn't do anything wrong. Take time to grieve and to get back on track and then remember that little one you have frozen. It really could have been anything, but it definitely was not your fault! I'll be thinking of you, and As missAma said don't give up all hope until AF shows.
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Deb I am so, so so, sorry for you and really do not know what to say other than that my thoughts are with you.
Everyone is here for you. Take your time to deal with this and in the mean time I sending you the biggest hug I can
Everyone is here for you. Take your time to deal with this and in the mean time I sending you the biggest hug I can
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Hi girls,
I havent been on here for ages. Im unhappy to see some new faces, i feel horrid that there are more people going through this.
Debs I am so sorry, Ive just read back a couple of pages and Im heartbroken for you.
Me, I think I have fallen into a slight depression and I am usually so good at picking myself up out of it, but its so hard at the moment. Everywhere I turn I am reminded that we are so so unlucky to be going through this. I am really mad, but I dont know at who I am mad at???? With Christmas coming up I think that is depressing me as it is the 3rd Xmas without a baby, every Christmas, we have said, hopefully by the next one. I think i need to stop focussing on that.
We have our next app in 3 weeks (finally after waiting months) + we will basically find out if they want to operate to try to un block OH's tubes.
Has anyone any tips on how to lift their mood. I think my problem is, I have tried for so long to stay positive, the sadness was always pushed away, but i just cant do that anymore
I hope the rest of you are all doing ok.
sending you hugs and support Debs.
I havent been on here for ages. Im unhappy to see some new faces, i feel horrid that there are more people going through this.
Debs I am so sorry, Ive just read back a couple of pages and Im heartbroken for you.
Me, I think I have fallen into a slight depression and I am usually so good at picking myself up out of it, but its so hard at the moment. Everywhere I turn I am reminded that we are so so unlucky to be going through this. I am really mad, but I dont know at who I am mad at???? With Christmas coming up I think that is depressing me as it is the 3rd Xmas without a baby, every Christmas, we have said, hopefully by the next one. I think i need to stop focussing on that.
We have our next app in 3 weeks (finally after waiting months) + we will basically find out if they want to operate to try to un block OH's tubes.
Has anyone any tips on how to lift their mood. I think my problem is, I have tried for so long to stay positive, the sadness was always pushed away, but i just cant do that anymore
I hope the rest of you are all doing ok.
sending you hugs and support Debs.
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Oh, Deb, I'm so sorry
Is there any chance you could've tested too early? The World can be a very cruel place at times. I'm going to hope little 'freezie' will bring you the joy you so richly deserve.
AFM, we're back to see the consultant tomorrow to get DH's results (CF carrier and Karyotype). I'm not really sure what to expect and how the outcome will affect the next step. During our last appointment, the Dr originally said DH would have an ultrasound, he then proceeded to have a 'fumble' and said DH didn't need one (??). He did mention that they'd be going in to see if they can find any and freeze them... but he wanted to wait for these blood results before booking it. So, I'm quite apprehensive about tomorrow, if the result aren't 'good', is that the end?
I must apologise for not popping on more often. I've felt in 'limbo' these last couple of months.. when it's out of your hands, you just don't know what to do, do you? I know you ladies understand these feelings better than anyone else. On top of that, I've had to put up with baby after baby at work. It's not like we're even a big company! But again, you can all relate to this.
For now, I'm going to keep you all in my thoughts and hope with all the hope I can muster that good things come your way.
to all,
C xx
Is there any chance you could've tested too early? The World can be a very cruel place at times. I'm going to hope little 'freezie' will bring you the joy you so richly deserve.
AFM, we're back to see the consultant tomorrow to get DH's results (CF carrier and Karyotype). I'm not really sure what to expect and how the outcome will affect the next step. During our last appointment, the Dr originally said DH would have an ultrasound, he then proceeded to have a 'fumble' and said DH didn't need one (??). He did mention that they'd be going in to see if they can find any and freeze them... but he wanted to wait for these blood results before booking it. So, I'm quite apprehensive about tomorrow, if the result aren't 'good', is that the end?
I must apologise for not popping on more often. I've felt in 'limbo' these last couple of months.. when it's out of your hands, you just don't know what to do, do you? I know you ladies understand these feelings better than anyone else. On top of that, I've had to put up with baby after baby at work. It's not like we're even a big company! But again, you can all relate to this.
For now, I'm going to keep you all in my thoughts and hope with all the hope I can muster that good things come your way.
to all, C xx
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Oh, Deb, I'm so sorry
Is there any chance you could've tested too early? The World can be a very cruel place at times. I'm going to hope little 'freezie' will bring you the joy you so richly deserve.
AFM, we're back to see the consultant tomorrow to get DH's results (CF carrier and Karyotype). I'm not really sure what to expect and how the outcome will affect the next step. During our last appointment, the Dr originally said DH would have an ultrasound, he then proceeded to have a 'fumble' and said DH didn't need one (??). He did mention that they'd be going in to see if they can find any and freeze them... but he wanted to wait for these blood results before booking it. So, I'm quite apprehensive about tomorrow, if the result aren't 'good', is that the end?
I must apologise for not popping on more often. I've felt in 'limbo' these last couple of months.. when it's out of your hands, you just don't know what to do, do you? I know you ladies understand these feelings better than anyone else. On top of that, I've had to put up with baby after baby at work. It's not like we're even a big company! But again, you can all relate to this.
For now, I'm going to keep you all in my thoughts and hope with all the hope I can muster that good things come your way.
C xx
Thanks Tiger - it was the date the clinic gave me to test. They have said that if I want I can keep taking the pessaries and test again on Saturday but they think the result is very unlikely to change, especially as this was an FRER test and there wan't even a hint of a line
I hope you have positive news tomorrow xx
Sar187
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wanbmum-I try and focus on the good things in my life and the things I enjoy doing. It is hard when I am at work though, that is when I tend to get down. I think too much at work. Hope your appt. coming up goes well.
Tiger-Good luck tomorrow! My DH never had an ultrasound done I think it all depends on the dr.
Deb-I am a little surprised that they don't do a blood test over there. Here in the US as far as I know a blood pregnancy test is required at the End of an IVF cycle to determine the results. I'll be praying something changes by saturday!
Tiger-Good luck tomorrow! My DH never had an ultrasound done I think it all depends on the dr.
Deb-I am a little surprised that they don't do a blood test over there. Here in the US as far as I know a blood pregnancy test is required at the End of an IVF cycle to determine the results. I'll be praying something changes by saturday!
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Our clinic in Chelsea don't REQUIRE a blood test, but will do one if you want - only thing is our clinic is 3 hours drive away. I may phone local clinic where I had my scans and see if they will do one just so we know for definite.
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Deb-That makes sense. If I was you I would probably see if the local clinic would do one, but then I am an incredibly impatient person. It may make you feel a bit better to know for sure though. I took a HPT the morning of my blood test(11dp3dt) but the results of the blood test were what really made me believe the fact that mine hadn't worked.
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Deb, sweetie, I am SOOO sorry! Hoping you aren't out of the woods yet though... Don't count yourself out til the witch shows up!!! Fingers crossed real tight for you! We are all still routing for you!!! Great BIG !!!!
Tiger, I understand COMPLETELY what you are talking about! At work is when my minds wonders 90 to nothing, and I seem to put my "wall" up and start to doubt everything all over again! It's like you have had so many disappointments and are scared of another one, so you automatically put this shield up to prevent getting hurt again, well for me at least anyway. So I take my frustrations out in the gym. Although I have been crying once or twice while on the eliptical... that had to be funny to see! Hoping it gets better.
Hope everyone else out there is doing well! to each of you too!
!!!!Tiger, I understand COMPLETELY what you are talking about! At work is when my minds wonders 90 to nothing, and I seem to put my "wall" up and start to doubt everything all over again! It's like you have had so many disappointments and are scared of another one, so you automatically put this shield up to prevent getting hurt again, well for me at least anyway. So I take my frustrations out in the gym. Although I have been crying once or twice while on the eliptical... that had to be funny to see! Hoping it gets better.
Hope everyone else out there is doing well!
to each of you too!wibble wobble
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sorry to hear you got bfn deb thinking of you xx
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I'm still ever so livid for you Deb...
Hope everyone else is doing ok.
We got the order for this blood tests through the mail today so that made it 100% more real, we are really doing this :O
When we are doing it may be in balance though, we were meant to do the TESE late this month, early the next but they want payment for it immediately I would suppose and that's an issue for it as he's just changed jobs and while the new employer agreed to help they won't start paying him till Feb... so unless they are going to be ok with us paying later then we would have to wait with the TESE itself....
Hope everyone else is doing ok.
We got the order for this blood tests through the mail today so that made it 100% more real, we are really doing this :O
When we are doing it may be in balance though, we were meant to do the TESE late this month, early the next but they want payment for it immediately I would suppose and that's an issue for it as he's just changed jobs and while the new employer agreed to help they won't start paying him till Feb... so unless they are going to be ok with us paying later then we would have to wait with the TESE itself....
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