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Dealing with azoospermia?

Clomiphere Citrate is the name of the med they're trying him on. :shrug: Anyone have any experience with their hubby using it?

Sorry to hear your result wasn't good, but its good that you sound hopeful & so great that the Drs are moving quickly. My DH was never offered any kind of medication as his testosterone levels were within the norm. Good luck xx
 
There seem to be several of us trying to lose weight at the moment so let's get cheering each other on :happydance: Maybe we should get some tickers up and weekly updates? I know I have found you all incredibly supportive with the azoo, so why would it be any different with losing weight - it's all part of this journey and I think the 'depression' that goes with this azoo journey at many stages is different to many other people's journeys.

I joined the ww thread on here, but don't find it anywhere near as supportive as this group (although I have to admit I am just very comfortable here so maybe didn't give it a fair go :blush:)

Off to weigh myself after my first week back on ww since christmas (when I put on 5 of the 6 lbs I'd just lost!) :dohh:

Great idea Deb, I know I need all the support I can get. I have no idea how to do a ticker though, I only just learned that you can thank people for their posts. I'm such a technical luddite lol.
 
Hi there girls :flower:,
Sperm donor is too hard in Aus (we have to have a 'known donor')

MJ, not sure which State you're in but have you spoken to any other clinics?

We don't have a known donor and so we will be using an "unknown" donor. We have all the paperwork to get going if we decide to go that way...

Thanks for that KB. We're in NSW; going through Genea (used to be Sydney IVF). They don't do unknown donor there & I understand that the wait time at other clinics for unkown donor sperm can be really long. Which state are you in & which clinic are you at? Since reading your post I've done some research & found that there is one clinic in Bondi who use unknown donors. DH has finally started being open to the idea that DS may be a path to parenthood for us.
 
Thanks for that KB. We're in NSW; going through Genea (used to be Sydney IVF). They don't do unknown donor there & I understand that the wait time at other clinics for unkown donor sperm can be really long. Which state are you in & which clinic are you at? Since reading your post I've done some research & found that there is one clinic in Bondi who use unknown donors. DH has finally started being open to the idea that DS may be a path to parenthood for us.

Hi MJ - We are with QFG. I understand that the wait time for Australian donors is quite long because there are so few people prepared to do it for free as you can't trade in gametes but that it is still possible to import relatively easily. I haven't looked into the cost too much yet and I'm am sure it is really expensive but it is an option if you don't want to wait.

Anyway, I've just googled 'donor sperm and NSW' and came up with a couple of links to try:

* https://www.fertilityeast.com.au/donor_sperm.html (this might be the place you'd found)
*https://www.ivf.com.au/ivf-donor-program/sperm-donation.aspx (I think this place is affiliated with our clinic...).

There are heaps of others. Make sure you ask your clinic for copies of all of your test results and DH's test results so that you don't have to redo them all at the new clinic. It gets expensive as a lot of them aren't Medicare rebatable.

I've found that most of the IVF clinics in Australia don't really know a lot about male factor infertility so you have to be really persistent (DH calls it pushy) to get what you want.

Good luck :flower:

PS please let me know what you find out. Two heads doing this research are bound to be better than one (especially my very tired and over it one) :wacko:
 
Back on page 169- MJ mentions extreme anger... :dohh: it hit me like a train wreck yesterday. After a depressing sermon about cheating in church yesterday, for no reason at all I just got very very very pissed off at the world and at everything. Pretty ugly and I asked dh if I was allowed to be that angry. He said it was fine as long I did not take it out on him. I'm in a better mood today but I guess that angry feeling will come and go.
 
RE: Weight Loss

I have decided to try doing "the Special K Challenge" starting today... suppost to loose 6 lbs. in 2 weeks if you do the following:

B'fast- A bowl of Special K (any flavor- I chose the Chocolate Delight=YUMMY!)
Morning Snack- either a Special K Protein Snack Bar or their Cracker Chips
Lunch- Special K Protein Shake
Afternoon Snack- same choices as morning snack
Supper- a regular meal

We shall see how it works! Hopefully good! I forgot to pick up some of the snacks they say to have, so I and going to eat fruit until I can pick some up.

I weighed at the gym again yesterday and am back up those 2 lbs. I supposedly lost... who knows! I have been doing 2-3 miles on the treadmill/eliptical 5 days a week. Going to switch up my routine this week to 1 mile and then weight training... Something has got to give!!! In a year I have only lost 30 lbs total and have been working my butt off in the gym up until Nov, but have been back at it for about 3 weeks now... any other suggestions?

Hope everyone has a great day! :hugs:
 
Oh, here is a funny for ya'll... Yesterday my SIL told me "Nikki, you already have that pregnant look, all glowing and shit", to which I replied "It's just cause I'm fat and don't have on any makeup today!" :rofl: Her husband busted out laughing! She knows we are going for IUI in May (but thinks it will be w/ hubby's sperm), so maybe she was just trying to be nice. :awww: Still thought it was funny! She ain't got no sense!
 
Can't catch up right now, ladies, but just posting to say we were given the results of DH's microTESE a couple of hours ago ...

Unfortunately he has zero sperm. :cry:
 
Oh Silverbells :hugs: That's the worst news possible. :cry:

SND- thanks for sharing that laugh today. Good luck with losing 6 pounds over the next 2 weeks. Maybe I'll do that eventually... Right now I just reduce the amount of food I eat.
 
SB - I'm so so sorry :hugs: there are no words xx

Deafgal - that med is basically clomid - we were intially told it was one of the eds we could try hubby on, but the blood test results steered him towards the tamoxifen -goo luck xx
 
Oh FFS what is it with all the horrid news?! Wannabe and dea - sorry to hear it, ladies...

SB - oh no....:( l am ever so sorry... Have you given next steps any thought?

Thank you for the kind words everyone...

MJ, KB - l will be in Sydney sometime in March, fancy an azoo-meet? Deb, SB - in London in two weeks, anyone close?

We've been alternating between mourning and planning. Our next step is to email Ramsey and ask what hos thoughts are, the Viking really want to try hormonal treatment before slashing anything again and we'd like to know if he would let us take the sperm if he found any with mTESE case in whic we'd save for him which would give me some more months to shift the tens of pounds l still have to lose...
 
We're about 3 hours away from london so not particularly close, but alot closer than you are now! :winkwink:

What dates are you here?
 
SB, so sorry to hear that hun. Strength & peace to you & DH to get through this time:hugs:

MissAma, I know what you mean about all the bad news. I think we all deserve a bloody medal :thumbup: for facing things with grace & dignity. Although what other choice do we have? I would love to try to organise a get together with you, I think that KB may live in Queensland though, so that may be a bit tricky. What dates are you here, I'm away from the 3rd to 10th March.

KB, thanks for that, I love having another Aussie on this journey. It seems that our govt has done their darndest to make it as difficult as possible to access donor eggs & sperm. It sounds so much easier in the UK & US. I'll let you know anything I find out.

SND, sending loads of strength with your Special K challenge:wave: Sometimes with weightloss it feels like we're ](*,) banging our head against a brick wall. Today is the 1st day for me to get serious again. Back to walking, back to the gym & just generally eating better.

AFM, I'm off to the my Endo appt this afternoon. She may put me on metformin, we'll see what she has to say...
 
I saw this on an IVF blog the other day & it made me giggle, you know those stickers you see on the back of cars that say 'my other car is a porsche...' (or some other type of expensive car). Well here's one for us...

My other car is my reproductive doctor's yacht... :fool:
 
5th to the 10th of Feb, Deb, with 5th evening still open for now.

18th to the 27th, MJ - l'll probably do Perth, Melbourne and Sydney. Not yet sure on Brisbane.

We're sadly in the hospital with Dara who managed to ride her tiny body with pneumonia... For how precious your azoo-babies will be to you, the worry and the heartbreak will be proportional but you WILL get them, you're all beautiful -irrelevant but true- and strong -relevant!- future mommies.
 

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