***December Testing thread - hoping for a Christmas Miracle***

[GemmaG]

Glad hubby too it okay. Why would it mean putting your career on hold? And hopefully you get your answer over the next few days - when did you get BFP with the others? When is your AF due?

My mum has always been my childcare as I work shifts and with her illness and prognosis I have to now look elsewhere, I’m in the emergency services. I’ve worked it out with just the three kids Theia full time and the twins after school and I’m sitting around £1500 a month childcare costs. Financially it’s barely worth it now. But add another baby into the mix I would be well over the £2000 mark for childcare so I’d have to give up work. AF should be due in 9 days time but il be testing early. Probably start in 3-4 days time x

 

[Reiko_ctu]

Ladies my November BFP didn’t stick around... so assuming my cycle isn’t too messed up I’ll be testing Dec 30...

 

[MadamRose]

@GemmaG I totally understand childcare is very expensive. It’s why I waited so long for #3

@Reiko_ctu I’m so so sorry

 

[Suggerhoney]

Keep positive, Keep going lovely, you are definitely not out, I have faith it’ll happen for you

Awww thank you so much hon I really hope ure right.
We been trying for almost 10 months now and I just hope this will be my month. If not this month then Jan at the latest.
Feb will mark one year ttc

Yes just once a day - I did it more the first month I used it and got peak about 5 days before the real thing. I think because it measures 2 hormones it needs to be the morning. I totally get it good luck hopefully you see some flashing faces soon!

I will do it again with FMU u then hon. I got my positive OPK on cd14 last cycle but sometimes I get my positive on day12.
But been taking macca root and thinking it was that that made me ovulate on day 15 last cycle.
I've now upped the dosage again today to 1500mg. Really hope they work and if we do fall this cycle it sticks and is healthy.

When does everyone start using opks? I only have 10, cd7 just now. Normally got a 28 day cycle but last months was 32 days and I had a chemical the month before that so I really don’t know.

Hello hon i start around cd6 only because when we first started trying back in Feb I had 2 cycles where I ovulated ridiculously early on cd 8.
Thankfully my ovulation is on day 13 to 15 now but I still start the OPKs on day 6.
Good luck.

Ladies my November BFP didn’t stick around... so assuming my cycle isn’t too messed up I’ll be testing Dec 30...

Oh nooo hon im so sorry.
Sending u big hugs.


Sooo I've upped the macca root again to 1500mg. Really hope they work and if we do catch this cycle it sticks and is viable and healthy.
I just don't want any more losses. Having 4 is enough and just hope there will be no more

 

[MadamRose]

Awww thank you so much hon I really hope ure right.
We been trying for almost 10 months now and I just hope this will be my month. If not this month then Jan at the latest.
Feb will mark one year ttc



I will do it again with FMU u then hon. I got my positive OPK on cd14 last cycle but sometimes I get my positive on day12.
But been taking macca root and thinking it was that that made me ovulate on day 15 last cycle.
I've now upped the dosage again today to 1500mg. Really hope they work and if we do fall this cycle it sticks and is healthy.




Hello hon i start around cd6 only because when we first started trying back in Feb I had 2 cycles where I ovulated ridiculously early on cd 8.
Thankfully my ovulation is on day 13 to 15 now but I still start the OPKs on day 6.
Good luck.




Oh nooo hon im so sorry.
Sending u big hugs.


Sooo I've upped the macca root again to 1500mg. Really hope they work and if we do catch this cycle it sticks and is viable and healthy.
I just don't want any more losses. Having 4 is enough and just hope there will be no more

Good luck hope it helps

 

[babybears25]

Oh I’m so sorry @Reiko_ctu

Good luck to everyone starting to test next week!

 

[GemmaG]

Awww thank you so much hon I really hope ure right.
We been trying for almost 10 months now and I just hope this will be my month. If not this month then Jan at the latest.
Feb will mark one year ttc



I will do it again with FMU u then hon. I got my positive OPK on cd14 last cycle but sometimes I get my positive on day12.
But been taking macca root and thinking it was that that made me ovulate on day 15 last cycle.
I've now upped the dosage again today to 1500mg. Really hope they work and if we do fall this cycle it sticks and is healthy.




Hello hon i start around cd6 only because when we first started trying back in Feb I had 2 cycles where I ovulated ridiculously early on cd 8.
Thankfully my ovulation is on day 13 to 15 now but I still start the OPKs on day 6.
Good luck.




Oh nooo hon im so sorry.
Sending u big hugs.


Sooo I've upped the macca root again to 1500mg. Really hope they work and if we do catch this cycle it sticks and is viable and healthy.
I just don't want any more losses. Having 4 is enough and just hope there will be no more

Please don’t give up hope Sugger. I truly know how hard it is and how all consuming it is but you have a such good shot. It’s not easy at all TTC, I tried for 7 years and each month your heart sinks but you have everything going for you to hopefully get you over the finishing line for one last little miracle x

 

[GemmaG]

Ladies my November BFP didn’t stick around... so assuming my cycle isn’t too messed up I’ll be testing Dec 30...

So sorry @Reiko_ctu

 

[GemmaG]

@GemmaG I totally understand childcare is very expensive. It’s why I waited so long for #3

@Reiko_ctu I’m so so sorry

It’s a killer. I’m still figuring out what I’m supposed to do for returning in January. Officially finish my maternity today but start annual leave tomorrow until January. Need to get a plan in place

 

[ciz]

Ladies my November BFP didn’t stick around... so assuming my cycle isn’t too messed up I’ll be testing Dec 30...

I’m sorry lovely. Lots of luck for this cycle

 

[Rach87]

Ohhh no @Reiko_ctu Im so sorry. I hope that maybe primed your body for a sticky bfp at the end of the month. *hugs*

 

[loeylo]

Ladies my November BFP didn’t stick around... so assuming my cycle isn’t too messed up I’ll be testing Dec 30...

I’m so sorry. I think I’ll be testing around the 30th too. Good luck for December.

 

[Suggerhoney]

Please don’t give up hope Sugger. I truly know how hard it is and how all consuming it is but you have a such good shot. It’s not easy at all TTC, I tried for 7 years and each month your heart sinks but you have everything going for you to hopefully get you over the finishing line for one last little miracle x

Awww thanks hon. I'm gonna try not to think about what that doctor said.
Ovulation shud be by Friday latest so just gonna give it a really good shot.

 

[GemmaG]

Awww thanks hon. I'm gonna try not to think about what that doctor said.
Ovulation shud be by Friday latest so just gonna give it a really good shot.

That’s all anyone can do you have to keep your spirits up and keep going. Each time your knocked down get up and go again. Don’t listen to anyone. It’s all statistics. My husband and I were told we would never conceive naturally and yes it took nearly 12 years for it to happen but we did! And back to back pregnancy’s at that. So have trust and hope and see each month as an opportunity. You just have to fight for it xx

 

[MadamRose]

@Suggerhoney definitely keep going - all of us here are rooting for you.

@Reiko_ctu I’ve added you to the thread Hun. Good luck and hopefully you get a BFP and a nice sticky bean.

Very excited to get a definite 100% confirmed BFP very excited to see who it will be! I’ve changed my test date to the 14, still think I’m going to struggle to hold off that long!

 

[Suggerhoney]

That’s all anyone can do you have to keep your spirits up and keep going. Each time your knocked down get up and go again. Don’t listen to anyone. It’s all statistics. My husband and I were told we would never conceive naturally and yes it took nearly 12 years for it to happen but we did! And back to back pregnancy’s at that. So have trust and hope and see each month as an opportunity. You just have to fight for it xx

Thank you hon. I turn 41 on the 17th December so time isn't on my side. I just really hope it happens soon.
We have been trying for almost 10 months and 4 very early miscarriages since April.
I'm taking Macca root as advised on here when I had my 4th loss.
Praying it works and the next one sticks and is viable and healthy.

Thank you for all the support.
All the ladies on here have been my rock these past 10 months.

I've never ever had to try try B4. I always fell pregnant first try apart from with our 9 year old son, I had a chemical pregnancy and then it took 3 months to fall with him.
And with my youngest son I fell first try strait after having the implant out.
He's 15 months old now.

I really have so much respect now for womon that try for a very long time.
It really is a emotional roller coaster.

 

[Suggerhoney]

@Suggerhoney definitely keep going - all of us here are rooting for you.

@Reiko_ctu I’ve added you to the thread Hun. Good luck and hopefully you get a BFP and a nice sticky bean.

Very excited to get a definite 100% confirmed BFP very excited to see who it will be! I’ve changed my test date to the 14, still think I’m going to struggle to hold off that long!

Awwww thanks hon.

 

[MadamRose]

@Suggerhoney i know it’s not the nicest thing but at least the CP show you definitely can get pregnant - what you need is a nice sticky bean - have you had any blood tests etc done to check hormones do what they should after implantation?

 

[Bevziibubble]

Ladies my November BFP didn’t stick around... so assuming my cycle isn’t too messed up I’ll be testing Dec 30...

I'm so sorry

 

[Bevziibubble]

@Suggerhoney I've got everything crossed for you that this will be your month