Bad news for me
Doctor just called and said I have adenomyosis. Similar to endometriosis. It is a ball of tissue that is in my uterine wall that is causing the abnormal shape. I could try surgery, but he said there are no clear definitions of the ball and so they could keep cutting and never find the beginning or end. They might cut so much that it compromises my uterine cavity, bearing me infertile. They also might cut too much and I'd have to have a hysterectomy. Even if they did get it out, they aren't sure that it would increase my chances of carrying a baby to term. In the future, my periods might get more heavy and painful. The only way to truly treat it is a hysterectomy.
He told me that I seem to have it where embryos tend to implant which is probably why I keep having mcs. He said it is possible for an embryo to implant in a different spot and I could carry a baby to term. Apparently a lot of women do. He said that if it were a patient who hadn't had my history, he wouldn't even offer surgery. But since I've had 3 mcs, he's offering it, without a promise of very good results.
He said the only real way around this is to use my eggs and Tim's sperm and have a surrogate.
He said if I opt to try again without surgery, the progesterone might give the embryo the extra kick it needs to implant and stay there.
I'm devastated. I can hardly breathe. AND, I have to go meet a client right now. I'll be back in a few hours. Just wanted to give you the update. FUCK!