Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[Allie84]

Hi Dawny, welcome! :wave:

Hearty, oh that sounds wonderful; have a great time with your family!

 

[Razcox]

Morning all! I do love my morning catch up with you lot and a cuppa (decaf now).

Vicky - Good luck at the scan today i am sure everything is going to be fine. Oh and get some piccys so we can see bubs xxx

Lucy - Will be sending you a bizzillion cycber hugs today for your scan no matter what happens xxxxx

CJS - Sending lots of your way and hoping you get a soon so i dont have to go it alone in the scary world of 1st tri. I had a dip at 4DPO which was the first hint this was going to be a good cycle as i had the same dip at the same time with my last

Megg - Wow thats one full calander! You are going to be a very busy bunnie the next few weeks!

AFM - Did another IC and the line was darker and thicker which is great news and i am now classing it as my

Here it is:

https://i288.photobucket.com/albums/ll182/razcox/DSC_0004.jpg

And inverted:

https://i288.photobucket.com/albums/ll182/razcox/DSC_0004-1.jpg

My temps are nice and stable at 37.08 so just got to wait and see what happend now. If all is going well next week i will ring the doctors and sort out my early scan.

 

[NatoPMT]

Just popped in to send my love to Luce, she's an hour off the scan uk time - thinking of you bebe xxx

Hi Dawny, i am standing up straight and not slouching in the presence of elite - welcome to the disco corner. You have to dance dance dance as you post. Them's the rules.

 

[NatoPMT]

fuck!!!!!!

Raz, congratulations

BFFFFPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!

 

[Razcox]

Thanks Nato! DH still doesnt know . . . He wants to wait until sat to test well he can bloody well wait until sat then cant he!!

BTW - How are things with you?

 

[NatoPMT]

your oh is a mentaller. wont get you frer's, wont look at ics

well we know

Im all good, think im 2dpo but FF not playing and my temps stayed the same as yesterday, so panicking im not oving this month - all depends on tomorrows temp. The whole temping thing has just given me something else to panic about.

if i have oved, its my month too <nods>

gotta go to work, have a good day y'all x

 

[vickyd]

Hey girls!

I decided to skip the scan...I thought i felt something last night and to be honest Alex sat me down and sort of set me straight. He said that we have another 20 weeks of this, am i gonna rush to get a scan everytime i dont feel bubs move? The doc said that its too early for everyday movement right? So i decided to try and be less mental, after all in 2 weeks its the dreaded 22 week US which is my greatest fear but will be the decider.... Arent you all proud of me????

Luce hun thinking of you and hoping for some great results!!

Nato this is your month! dont start testing at 5dpo though ok??

Hearty enjoy your time with mum, wow i cant beleive you only see her a couple times a year! That is totally unheard of in Greek Culture! When i lived in the UK i still saw my mom once a month lol!!! She would freak otherwise!

 

[Sparkly]

vic << See that?? That's my very proud of you face xxx

Loving the darker line Raz...you are sooo up the duff

Nato It IS your time hun x

Lucy thinking of you

 

[prgirl_cesca]

Vicky I'm really proud of you, and also of Alex for sitting you down and telling you straight how he's feeling. I'm sure everything will be fine in two weeks and then you can relax.

Raz - OMG BFP!!! YAY Welcome!

Welcome dawny.

Good luck today lucy xxx

Have a good time with your mum hearty. I see my mum every couple of months since I moved here and it's so difficult. I miss her loads! Don't know what i'll do once the baby is here.

 

[MinnieMone]

Raz - that is so a BFP, congratulations hun, what dpo are you, that's pretty dark for so early!

Dawny, welcome to the thread, BB Elite, blimey, feel like we're in the presence of royalty!

Lucy - I've been thinking of you since I woke up, praying that all will be well. Big hug.

Megg - Holy Moly, I thought all my steroids, aspirin, prenatals, progresterone blah blah was confusing.... you are one organised lady!

Hearty - oooh I love family visits, enjoy sweetie.

Vicky - I think you have done the right thing re the scan, you have to trust your own instincts. I wouldn't get a doppler for exactly the same reason, I know I would have the thing permanently strapped to me panicing if I didn't hear anything. BTW my specialist told me not to get my bloods done again (and the reason I didn't get them done between 72 hours is because my bloody stupid doctor only thought I had to have them done once!) grrrr. My specialist said he doesn't take a lot of stock by them, but he said I shouldn't worry. As all you lovely ladies did!

I'm sitting here now waiting for the nurse to arrive to administer my IV intralipids, I am shitting myself. It takes 2 1/2 hours and then she has to sit with me for an hour in case I go into anaphalatic shock.... I'm going to just think good thoughts though and imagine it bopping on the nose all those nasty killer cells, and baby bean snuggling in for the duration. It's got to work this time.

Nato - even if you did ov early, the beauty of SMEP is that you should have caught it with one of the 'sesh's'.... everything crossed this is your month.

Have a good day everyone, catch up later x

 

[vickyd]

Mone sounds like a scary procedure...The things we go through eh???

Thanks guys for making me feel good about my decision, i just think i have to relax a bit...try and remember how i was the first time around or else these 20 weeks will never pass. Hearty you are right that the fact that my 22 week scan is around the corner is making me a bundle of nerves! I have recurrent flashbacks from that day that i find very difficult to deal with...

 

[NatoPMT]

Well done Vickers, you are a tower of zen inner peace. Really glad you felt the movement though, nothing like a flutter and a good talking to to bring you in off the ledge. <proudface>

Have a lovely time with your family hearty

Mone - Woo hoo a specialist has told you not to worry too (not that we aren&#8217;t specialists like) &#8211; that&#8217;s brilliant, I really hope that&#8217;s given you something to aim for now rather than the limbo you&#8217;ve been in before. I think its your time too, you are really in a very good position, arses to scary IV&#8217;s though. Hope you have a pile of Grazia&#8217;s and a remote control to hand. This is the start of it for you now.

If I did ov yesterday, I will find out tomorrow but think its likely as my temps are going up slightly. Anyways, if I did, I defo got the timing right, I got it on -3ov, -1ov, ov and +1ov &#8211; just missed -2ov as per the SMEP

If my temps do show another rise tomorrow and I ov&#8217;d on CD13, tomorrow will be 3dpo and am due a BD tonight, and then on CD17, I don&#8217;t still have to keep bding do I? Am going to tonight as ov isn&#8217;t confirmed, but 4 dpo seems a bit hardcore. SMEP says I have to BD on 3 consec nights starting from +, so that would be 13,14,15, then miss one, then do CD17.

CD17 should = 4dpo.

Im exhausted.


Luce should be out by now. I hope she's ok.

 

[vickyd]

Nato my doc had recommended to me to BD CD 18 which for me would be 2 DPO. I think that should cover all your bases really..

 

[Razcox]

Vicky - Well done you for trying to relax, i cant imagine how hard it must be for you so i am hugly proud xxx oh and Yeah for movement xxx

Mone - Ouchy about the IV, i hate needles but when needs must. I agree with Nato though this is your turn now xx

Hope lucy is ok

 

[LucyJ]

hey girls,

well its bad news no growth no heartbeat its another missed miscarriage we are just heartbroken I cann't even explain how I feel. I managed to keep it together while we were told our options then we were put in a room to discuss things and to have some time then I just collapsed into steves arm I cant believe we are going through this again I just dont understand why why couldnt I keep my babies save? We've decided to have the erpc dont want the medical management and cant put steve through a natural miscarriage if its like it was in may and they said it could take up to 6 weeks for it to happen naturally which I cant cope with my body is giving no signs of letting go of this little one. They will send the baby (they kept refering to it as tissue but I just cant its my baby) for testing and we've got an appointment on the 1st Dec for further testing blood tests I think.

I have to pack a bag to take with me theres a chance they wont get round to me today so it will be tomorrow but we've got to be back at the hospital for half 12 today.

 

[vickyd]

Oh Luce im so very sorry......I cant beleive this has happened again ITS SO FUCKING UNFAIR!!!!!! I really hope this is the last lost angel you and Steve have to mourn.....
We are here for you honey

 

[prgirl_cesca]

Fuck lucy. What an awful thing. My heart goes out to you, corny as it sounds. Glad you're opting for the ERPC - it really does help speed up the process and helps you feel normal quicker.

 

[Razcox]

Awww FUCKING HELL, so sorry hun its just not fair that such nice people are going through this. Good luck with the ERPC, i hope they can fit you in today huge to you both xxx

 

[Sparkly]

Aww fuck it!! Lucy honey I'm so very sorry for your loss, this stinks like shit!! I hate the way they refer to the baby as 'tissue'...morons!! good luck with the erpc honey, we're here for you and thinking of you xxx

 

[NatoPMT]

Oh Lucy, I&#8217;m heartbroken for you. I&#8217;m so glad Steve is by your side

I&#8217;m disgusted at their terminology too, it&#8217;s absolutely your baby, and I&#8217;m just devastated for you that you have to say goodbye. I will light a candle for your angel later this evening. And one for hope.

xx