Cesca i thought of buying a doppler, but honestly i would freak out more everytime i wouldnt be able to find the heartbeat. The stress doesnt go away, now i have the daily stress of feeling her move. If she has a quiet day im on the brink of depression....Im constantly with one foot out the door to get an emergency scan. But then i think, ok so i have the scan and there is something wrong...what could the doctors do? Shes only 22 weeks.... I guess what im trying to say (maybe more to myself than to you) is that its out of our hands now! Well be lucky if we have our sanity at the end of this lol!
Hearty I do exactly the same thing when someone asks me how im doing! I have never hid any of my my losses or now my constant stress over my pregnancy. Im tired of people hiding something so common like its some sort of dirty secret. There will be no awareness until we start talking about what has happened to us.
Last year one of our close friends fell pregnant, she didnt tell us herself but her husband who is Alex's best friend told him right before her NT scan. He said that if all goes well they would announce that weekend. At their NT scan there were strong indications of abnormalities which they would confirm with CVS. The CVS indeed showed that the baby had Turners syndrome. Her husband told Alex who thought it would be a good idea if i called her and gave her some support or some info on the D&C she would be having.
I call her up and was like "im so sorry about the baby", she responds "what baby?" At this point i think shes in denial or in shock but as the conversation progresses she denies ever being pregnant, laughs at my assumption that she was, and is more worried about how i thought this than anything else!!!!!! I hung up and almost 5 minutes later her husband calls Alex and wants to know why i called her as she doesnt want anyone to know that she was pregnant and that the baby had a problem. Alex was like,whatthe hell
is wrong with her? She knows what Vicky has been through and even so she was willing to relive the experience so she could help a friend... This girl was more worried about what people would say than getting some support through this ordeal. This made me want to talk about what i went through even more! I thought it was totally outrageous!
Megg you go on talking and posting on facebook all about your journey!people need to know thats its not the easiest thing to have a baby, that the woman next to you might be going through hell to be called mom!
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Megg - What a selfish woman she sounds like, sorry she was so disinterested and negative to you hun. IVF is an amazing process and not the tool of the devil. If its going to give you want you really want then go for it, life's too short to mess about.
Nato - Glad your back chicken and love the photos, bet you are the cool auntie and uncle that let them eat ice cream for breakfast and stuff. Update us on the Sandra reading
Cazz - Good luck at the scan hun I am sure its going to be fine and you will get to see a fat little bubba in there. Maybe you are going to have a little girl a sassy a boy. How cool would that be?
Lucy - Lovely reading hun and I hope it comes true for you both x
Cesca - Agree with the others and maybe ring the MW to have a chat if you are worried. I am sure everything is fine though and you are just having a bit of a wobble which is understandable after a loss. Cant believe your friend though, sticking your head in the sand and pretending everything is ok is not dealing with things and one days its going to come back and bite her in the ass.
CJ - Wow things really are moving for you hun and its going to be really exciting with all this going on. Hoping you get that too and can pull off the triple x
Vicky - Sorry you feel ill, there are some nasty bugs going around at the min. Get yourself to bed and stay wrapped up for a few days xxx
AFM - I felt really blocked up this morning and had a pain in my tummy but i am happy to say i pooped for the 1st time since sunday and everything is much better now! It was a work (oh the shame!) but needs must when up the duff. POAS with an IC as well and it was really dark which made me happy
Hi girls, sorry I was so quiet last night. I was licking my wounds
Megg, thanks for the info re sperm analysis. I'm trying to stay positive, but if the result is the same next time, I will be gutted! I did get the following off the internet:
The morphology of the sperm is also evaluated. With WHO criteria as described in 2010, a sample is normal if 4% or more of the observed sperm have normal morphology
I'm confused! I will ask Doctor to explain more when I see her this afternoon for results of my blood test
I'm sorry your friend is being weird with you at the moment. Maybe you should send her an email or ring her to say that you were hurt by her behaviour?
Cazza, good luck for you scan today can't wait to hear how you got on
Lucy, great reading!
CJ Woof at the pic of the bloke! Hope you're not feeling as weepy today. You're going through some massive changes at the mo hunni.
Allie, not sure about the CBFM. I'm still getting used to it myself, but Hearty's explanation made sense. Not many get implantation bleeding, so fingers crossed with the cramps!
Hearty, you are one hot lady! Hope the bitch has arrived!
Nato, fab pics! Your hubby looks well fit! Any news on the blood yet? Let me know and we can compare results. I get mine back at 5.10. Don't forget to tell your hubby to use the pink sock for the sample
Sassy, fab news about your scan and great pic!
Cesca, hope you're feeling better today sweetie
Rax, congrats on pooping. Bet tha feel better!
Amy,
Think that's me just about caught up. If I've missed anyone out, I'm sorry! I had to make notes that time!
Have a good day
x
I haven’t had time to google these yet and im posting and running, but my results are:
FSH – 5.5
Prolactin – 295 mu/L
LH – 5.2 iu/L
Oestradiol – 211 pmol/L
B12 – 499 ng/l
Serum folate - >20.0 ug/l
I know the FSH looks ok, that was the one I was most scared of, and the LH is almost 1:1, but apart from that, I don’t really know what they mean at the mo.
Off to spend the next 24 hours on a google frenzy (with intermittment visits to BnB to look for scan pics off cazza)
Sugar, spotted your reply, get in here with your results - husband dropped his deposit off at the bank today but will be 2 weeks before that comes back
Girls I'm am too excited for words baby pip is doing perfect little heartbeat was pumping away and he/she is measuring 4 days ahead so I'm 8w 4d, 20mm now with tiny arms n legs lol such a little cutie. Me & Lee are amazed I really can't believe it's finally happening for us.
Thank you all for your lovely messages I'll b on later with a piccy of pip Lov Caz xxx
Cazza, great news!!! congratsahoosive to you and pip x
Luce - flying??? wowee, you can evacuate us all when the meteor hits. They didnt tell me anything, i strong armed the receptionist into giving me the results without an app as i just wanted them today
Sugar - yes, i know all about them now - sort of, good luck with yours, its pretty scary getting them back
well there's a possibility i spoke too soon as my E2 oestradiol might be slightly too high. Im finding different ranges of course, so need to properly look into it tonight - but what its saying is its at the top end of the range - at 211mpol / 57
The high E2 might be artifically lowering my FSH - however, i am in the 'excellent' bracket at below 6 with the FSH, so im not overly worried, i will settle for a 'good' score on FSH
I wouldnt have thought at 39 it was likely that i got an excellent score, but i know its possible. The E2 being elevated can indicate diminished ovarian reserves, so i think i need a disco bumper to tell me whats happening and book an appointment with my dr to discuss
The other thing is that the E2 will be higher cos i was on day 5, but that also might mean my FSH has come out lower than it would if id tested day 3 - not worked that out yet
Yogi, sorry about the BFN babe. Did you stop putting your temps into FF? I'd love to see the whole chart if you have time.
ahh Yogi Bear, have a free hug. Not a bear one, a free one. Its only showing 9dpo on your chart for some reason. That time of the month is so difficult, come and talk to us if you need us xx
Luce gonna check my email in a min and see if psychic sandra has replied
i was surprised at my B12 results, the range on my print off is 170-900 so 499 is great, and i dont eat meat at all. Note how high my folic acid ones are due to forcing the dr to prescribe me 5mg. Ahem. Do you not absorb B12 then? why do you have the injections? Madonna has B12 injections. You are like a pop star. Thanks for that link Luce, that puts me at the lower end of the E2 scale, weirdly. I dont think i have anything to worry about - your post was reassuring. Also, from the bottom ranges shown on that link, looks like i worked it out right at 57 - thank yoooou