i smoke but not in the house, only outside. my house is smoke free since my son was born 12 yrs ago. my sis smokes heavily in every room of her house and i wont bring nicole over to her house. dh doesnt smoke. have tried to quit but fail miserably every time. what annoys me is if its too cold or wet outside i wont bother, if im watching a long movie i wont bother, if im in someones house for a few hrs (like in my mums today for over 4 hrs) i wont bother either, if im out with non smokers i wont smoke around them.