rhys never had a dummy because he never needed one, he was never a 'sucky' baby and when he cried he was comforted really easily.
ffion on the other hand was using me as a human dummy and with a toddler running around it just wasnt possible to let her comfort suck for hours on end. we tried not comfort feeding and trying to soothe in other ways but in the end only the sucking motion would calm her, so we gave her a dummy. she was 10months on good friday and we started weaning her off it on monday. we're on day 3 and shes only had it for her nap and bedtime.