'Fab'ulous testers and supporters; 58 bfps

[FLArmyWife]

Aww flarmy I'm so I know that feeling ugh!!! I always had saltiness and cheese ready beside the bed for every 4 hour eating lol, I didn't care if it went stale or not at that point. Well girl I hope this passes for u quick I'm sorry for u!! But all for good cause of coarse ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

Thanks. I ran out of crackers so have to wait until pay day on the 1st to go get some more but will definitely be putting them beside when I do get them.
but yes all for a good cause

 

[TheTiebreaker]

I am sorry you have been so sick Flarmy! Hopefully it will pass soon. I feel nervous, even after my scan, every day that I don't have very many symptoms. With my miscarriage, I had symptoms one day and the next they were completely gone. So when I don't have morning sickness, I get really nervous. I really just need to relax and trust, but it's been pretty hard. I am sure I sound dumb to someone that just wants to feel better. 😕

 

[FLArmyWife]

tie- the important thing to remember is that every pregnancy is different. I could have sworn I wasn't really pregnant up until last week because I had no symptoms. I wanted symptoms (which now I kinda regret lol) but I now 'feel' pregnant so that helps with my anxiety. so I can understand your worry. I hope you get some slight symptoms to give you reassurance but not full blown terrible ms or headaches

 

[pinkpassion]

Tie, it could be your body adjusting to the hormones before the next increase, the way it was explained to me was that since the hormones double every 48-96 hours (when you get a bit further) when they increase you feel bad, then your body adjusts and you may feel much better for a day or two until a significant increase again and then you feel worse again .... could be a bunch of malarkey but it made me feel better

 

[muffinbabes4]

Yes tie every pregnancy is different tie just try to relax !! I know easier said then done, but Just try to not think about the bad and have fun growing a baby!!

 

[TheTiebreaker]

Thanks guys!!! You guys are so awesome. I will probably regret complaining if I get super sick too, Flarmy! Yeah it seems like that's what's happening Pink! I will feel horrible for two days and then good for a couple, then it starts over again! Thanks Muffin! I am really trying to just relax and enjoy this, especially since this will probably be our last baby. You guys really make me feel better. What would I do without you?!?!? 😘

 

[muffinbabes4]

5stars did you test this afternoon yet? xxxxx

 

[5starsplus1]

5stars did you test this afternoon yet? xxxxx

Hey hunny no Im going to wait until either tomorrow morning or Sunday morning...AF is due tomorrow so we shall see!

 

[muffinbabes4]

That's right flarmy get you a cracker stash goin , hehehe, don't forget about those wrist bands I told u about to, I slept in them , those things are life savors for nausea!! ♡♡

 

[muffinbabes4]

Ok 5stars I'll be unpatiently waiting lol gl I'll be praying for bfp for u!!

 

[muffinbabes4]

Ugh cd 14 still no + opk I'd love to see a + well before cd17 this month...PLEASE lol... like even 15 or 16 would be wonderful... come on body work with me here ..

 

[5starsplus1]

Ok 5stars I'll be unpatiently waiting lol gl I'll be praying for bfp for u!!

lol thanks

 

[ashleyg]

Hopeful - omg yay!! I am so so so happy for you girly!

 

[.hopeful.one.]

So I just changed my stuff to say pregnant and it still doesn't seem real! I'm trying to stay calm and not stress but after my last mmc I'm sure it's going to be tough for me. I know it's all out of my control but it's still scary. It's SOO early and so much could go wrong. Any ideas how to stay as stress free as possible for this little one?

 

[ashleyg]

hopeful - when I was pregnant with my daughter I was such a nervous wreck. When I had my first scan and I could see the heartbeat I felt so much better. You are always going to be worried that everything is normal in your pregnancy...but I found that just enjoying it and doing someone online browsing ( ) for baby stuff really helped me just to focus on the positive that there is a healthy growing baby in there.

 

[Disneymom1129]

It might be too early! I got really faint lines with my son on the day AF was due! There is no way I would have gotten a positive before then. You're not out till AF shows! FX!

Disney- what is your due date?

February 18th

Wow, lots to catch up on again!!

5stars - keep up the positive thoughts if you can!! You're not out yet!!
Tie - that scan is awesome!! Bet you are feeling fab now! So reassuring when you get a heartbeat as well
Congrats Ashley - now the wait begins!!
Muffin - thanks for the heads up with taking a screen shot, I will have to try that next time.
Annie - Amazing numbers!!

So because I am so out of sync with the rest of you time wise, I'm just going to quickly up date you and what's been happening with me:
Got a positive frer on Fri last week (12dpo), then continued to test over next 4 days and second line wasn't getting much darker. Today I started bleeding, so officially having a mc. Not surprised, and to be honest I'm glad I was somewhat prepared for it with the tests not getting darker. I am gutted because I was sick with really high temps around 3-6dpo, so maybe that upset the cell division that was happening.
At least I can have a wine with husband tonight!! He is off overseas for next three weeks so I won't be ttc until August
GL everyone!!

I am so sorry . Enjoy your wine and know we'll be here for you come August!

No more squinting to see that line!

Yay!! Congrats!!

So I just changed my stuff to say pregnant and it still doesn't seem real! I'm trying to stay calm and not stress but after my last mmc I'm sure it's going to be tough for me. I know it's all out of my control but it's still scary. It's SOO early and so much could go wrong. Any ideas how to stay as stress free as possible for this little one?

It is incredibly nerve wracking in the beginning. Every day I wake up and I am still pregnant I give a big thanks to the big guy up above. All you can do it try and live your life as normal as possible so that you are not too wrapped up in the thoughts that can sometimes turn negative!

FLArmy- sorry you're so sick, hun . No actual nausea for me yet, but definitely food aversion and the "bottomless pit" sensation. If I don't eat or drink something right then I feel totally crummy. I am trying not to gain so much weight with this pregnancy... I gained almost 70 lbs with my daughter sheerly because of that "bottomless pit" feeling. From what I've read online I should only gain around 15-20lbs, which is ok with me.

But I digress.

 

[Disneymom1129]

5stars did you test this afternoon yet? xxxxx

Hey hunny no Im going to wait until either tomorrow morning or Sunday morning...AF is due tomorrow so we shall see!

I've got everything crossed for you!!

 

[FLArmyWife]

Hey hunny no Im going to wait until either tomorrow morning or Sunday morning...AF is due tomorrow so we shall see!

That's right flarmy get you a cracker stash goin , hehehe, don't forget about those wrist bands I told u about to, I slept in them , those things are life savors for nausea!! ♡♡

Well see I've been taking the motion sickness pills and they're not helping. I worry about spending $15 on the bands and them not working. I'm gonna call the Drs office when they get back from break

Ugh cd 14 still no + opk I'd love to see a + well before cd17 this month...PLEASE lol... like even 15 or 16 would be wonderful... come on body work with me here ..

FX you O soon!

So I just changed my stuff to say pregnant and it still doesn't seem real! I'm trying to stay calm and not stress but after my last mmc I'm sure it's going to be tough for me. I know it's all out of my control but it's still scary. It's SOO early and so much could go wrong. Any ideas how to stay as stress free as possible for this little one?

It's hard. I don't think anyone after a miscarriage can go through an entire pregnancy worry free. Heck my mc was 10 years ago and I still worry I'll wake up one morning to a pool of blood. the best you can do is take each day one at a time. if you have to live in denial for a little, then by all means do it. I lived in denial even after my u/s until the MS hit and then it was a little hard to deny. do something that is relaxing to you. things will be ok

FLArmy- sorry you're so sick, hun . No actual nausea for me yet, but definitely food aversion and the "bottomless pit" sensation. If I don't eat or drink something right then I feel totally crummy. I am trying not to gain so much weight with this pregnancy... I gained almost 70 lbs with my daughter sheerly because of that "bottomless pit" feeling. From what I've read online I should only gain around 15-20lbs, which is ok with me.

But I digress.

Yeah I'm worried I'll gain lots of weight too. When I had the mirena in from 2012-2013 I gained 40lbs! was nuts. I looked 5 months pregnant... and with having a low thyroid weight gain is a big issue. but I am trying to remind myself I have to gain for babies sake. Though the 2lbs I've put on already in 4 weeks is bugging me.
I hope you are able to gain an amount you are comfortable with.

 

[.hopeful.one.]

Thanks so much ladies! It's nice to know I'm not the only not feeling like this. I guess day by day is the only way to go

 

[TheTiebreaker]

That is awesome Disney! Bump buddies! According to my dates I am due feb 14! According to my ultrasound feb 17. She said she will probably not change my due date though. Can't wait for my valentines baby!!!