'Fab'ulous testers and supporters; 58 bfps

[ashleyg]

It was positive before the opk touched it

 

[pinkpassion]

Ooooooooooo YAY do a frer girl!!!!

 

[ashleyg]

I don't have anymore! I am going to go shopping later and will pick some up. I will test tomorrow!

 

[FLArmyWife]

... I'm sad to read that... I'm probably one of those that are freaking out.... I guess when you've had losses it really changes you.... .. it brings forth a lot of irrational fears and some rational fears that may not be warranted for the current pregnancy ... I think {most} of those people are looking for reassurance or someone else going through the same thing , as the first trimester is just a really hard time!!!! I'm sorry....... I just don't really know what else to say

Pink, I do understand. I had a mc at 8 weeks 10 years ago. it has made ttcing a very touchy subject for me.

I just wish there was maybe just 1 thread of the girls talking about it so my entire news feed isn't filled... like how we have the files for ramzi, baby names, etc.. Maybe one for support for those worried.. idk maybe I'm just being a b

 

[ashleyg]

Laura - I am so so so sorry you had to go through that

Disney - I am sure you and your little one are fine! Stay positive!

Hopeful - We love you!

 

[ashleyg]

FLArmy - I know what you mean about those threads. When I was pregnant with my daughter I actually stopped coming on here in the first trimester because all of those posts were making me so nervous.

 

[.hopeful.one.]

I'm hoping there'll be more BFPs or maybe some familiar names soon. This time around I have decided that I am going to be happy and thankful each and every day that I get to carry this beautiful child. I get that things come up, I do, and I have nothing but sympathy and worry when that happens. It's seeing the "if this one sticks" or "when it's safe" after everything that just breaks my heart. All babies deserve love each and every day they are with us. Even if you chose not to bond with your child right away it's still going to hurt like hell if god forbid he/she gets taken from you. So why not love the heck out if them and be happy for the blessings of the day

Pink I know you've had some things going on with little bean. I don't think you've been very negative about it at all. Sharing what your going through and wanting support is completely normal. These other ladies have taken things further than that in my opinion and it's just hard for me when I'm trying to stay positive. You ladies have been fabulous!

 

[Cornfieldland]

Pink it's totally understandable. First trimester is a scary time when u have had a loss. We all need reassurance. I never thought about it when was younger much and didn't have any problems. I'm so glad you are doing well so far. I'm excited for your next scan pink : ) we are all here to support you.

 

[pinkpassion]

... I'm sad to read that... I'm probably one of those that are freaking out.... I guess when you've had losses it really changes you.... .. it brings forth a lot of irrational fears and some rational fears that may not be warranted for the current pregnancy ... I think {most} of those people are looking for reassurance or someone else going through the same thing , as the first trimester is just a really hard time!!!! I'm sorry....... I just don't really know what else to say

Pink, I do understand. I had a mc at 8 weeks years ago. it has made ttcing a very touchy subject for me.

I just wish there was maybe just 1 thread of the girls talking about it so my entire news feed isn't filled... like how we have the files for ramzi, baby names, etc.. Maybe one for support for those worried.. idk maybe I'm just being a b

No you're not... I totally get it, it's hard to feel positive when someone says they feel/don't feel this and then go on to miscarry or have issues... I don't like that about the first tri board and can't speak of the fb page because I don't have fb... to me it bothers me MUCH worse when I see threads that say "I'm not happy about this baby" on the first/second/third tri boards... that really burns me up especially when on the second tri board right now theres one titled that and one right under it of a girl that just had preterm labor and lost her 21+ week old baby (after already loosing her son to preterm labor last year)... it infuriates me .... I feel it's just so incredibly insensitive !!!!!

 

[.hopeful.one.]

Ahhh!!! Ashley!! definitely get a frer for the am, that's an order!

 

[FLArmyWife]

FX for you Ashley


Yes that is definitely something that is a pet peeve of mine pink. Granted at 15 I wasn't looking to have a baby, and it happened the 1 time we didn't use protection... and I didn't even know about little bean until it was gone.. but I can't imagine Not taking any precautions and then being unhappy. If you're unhappy find a family whom can't have kids who would DIE for that child. Babies are easy to find homes as everyone wants a baby.

 

[ashleyg]

Hopeful & FLarmy - Thank you!

I will take a test in the morning. Hopefully something shows up darker!

Also...do they still sell the OLD FRER? I absolutely hate the new curved one. Ugh. Its so much harder to see the faint line :/

 

[pinkpassion]

The new frer are so awful!!!!! I've seen so many "faint lines" for ladies and they end up being negatives... it's frustrating ...
If you can't find an old frer get some answer brands (they look like frer, they are just called answer, even made by the same company as frer)

 

[ashleyg]

Are those the ones sold at Walmart? I am going to Target so I was hoping to just stop once.

Yeah, they are so terrible. Last cycle I had so many of them with the really bad indent. I think I posted it on here. It really looked like the start of a line.

 

[pinkpassion]

I've seen them at target I think????? Maybe not!!

 

[pinkpassion]

I guess they aren't sold at target

 

[ashleyg]

Lol pink. I'll see what they have. I think when I went a few weeks back I saw the old version. Hopefully they're still there

 

[.hopeful.one.]

I agree! I'm not a fan of the new ones either. I wrote the company about it too lol they should switch back.

 

[Gwen2012]

Good evening ladies. Still feel like crap... Winding if maybe this could be a implantation day. That's how some people get positives at like day 8 or 9dpo. I can't believe I am having what feel like contractions . Reading up on clomid didn't say anything about that...I feel kind of depressed too my back killing me and I have been sleeping most of my days unless I have Togo to work.i will start testing next week when I get back from my Vegas trip with my other pregnancy I had to wait until the day after I missed to get a positive and then it was really strong..

 

[Gwen2012]

Omg you guys!!!!!!!!!!

Can you see it to?!

Congrats on the bfp. Hoping everyone's come soon too.. how many dpo are you?