Lord, give me strength today. I'm going to the in-laws for the day and I think there will be DH's 'distant' relatives there and I KNOW they will ask when we are going to have children. I just want to tell them to FUCK OFF, but I'll just say, 'When we're ready' or 'When the house is finished'. If they pressure me then I might ask them about their sex life - because that's exactly the same as they are asking me!!! It's over 2 years since we started talking about making a baby, and 20 months of TTC and no luck and we're now looking at IVF, but I don't want anyone to know that as it's not their business.
I hope I make it through the day.
xxx