@Sarah Pearce understandably 
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Just joining now... good luck everyone. So sorry @Sarah Pearce
I had to step away from thinking about ttc this month after my second chemical. In January I had one at 14 dpo which honestly didn’t bother me much. I was just happy that after over a year and a half of trying I had finally gotten something other than a bfn.
This month I had another chemical at 4 weeks +6 days. I had just started getting morning sickness and it was the first time in my life I actually felt pregnant. That one really did me in emotionally. I thought I was going to need a break from ttc. Still very weepy on and off, but now that the bleeding has really slowed down I’m ready to try again.
I’ve heard that after a chemical you’re often more fertile, so hopefully after two in a row I’ll be able to get pregnant again this month. Now just waiting for the bleeding to stop and ovulation signs to show. Not sure on my testing date yet as it will depend on when ovulation happens.
Hopefully we’ll get loads of bfps this month!
I had to step away from thinking about ttc this month after my second chemical. In January I had one at 14 dpo which honestly didn’t bother me much. I was just happy that after over a year and a half of trying I had finally gotten something other than a bfn.
This month I had another chemical at 4 weeks +6 days. I had just started getting morning sickness and it was the first time in my life I actually felt pregnant. That one really did me in emotionally. I thought I was going to need a break from ttc. Still very weepy on and off, but now that the bleeding has really slowed down I’m ready to try again.
I’ve heard that after a chemical you’re often more fertile, so hopefully after two in a row I’ll be able to get pregnant again this month. Now just waiting for the bleeding to stop and ovulation signs to show. Not sure on my testing date yet as it will depend on when ovulation happens.
Hopefully we’ll get loads of bfps this month!
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@Sarah Pearce I’m so sorry
I’m super frustrated with waiting, I just want to fast forward to Wednesday which is when AF should arrive. I just want a definitive answer. Me being so frustrated and upset over it probably means AF is on the way, though, I usually get weepy right before AF and while I’m not crying, I feel like I could. I normally have some spotting a day before AF starts so I may have an answer on Tuesday from that. We’ll see. I know it’s possible to get bfn’s until like 15dpo and still get a bfp but it’s not terribly common I don’t think, so I’m torn between holding onto what’s likely false hope and just telling myself it’s not going to happen this cycle and might as well give up/move on.
I’m super frustrated with waiting, I just want to fast forward to Wednesday which is when AF should arrive. I just want a definitive answer. Me being so frustrated and upset over it probably means AF is on the way, though, I usually get weepy right before AF and while I’m not crying, I feel like I could. I normally have some spotting a day before AF starts so I may have an answer on Tuesday from that. We’ll see. I know it’s possible to get bfn’s until like 15dpo and still get a bfp but it’s not terribly common I don’t think, so I’m torn between holding onto what’s likely false hope and just telling myself it’s not going to happen this cycle and might as well give up/move on.
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Oh no so sorry @Sarah Pearce
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@shaescott thanks for your support@Sarah Pearce I’m so sorry
I’m super frustrated with waiting, I just want to fast forward to Wednesday which is when AF should arrive. I just want a definitive answer. Me being so frustrated and upset over it probably means AF is on the way, though, I usually get weepy right before AF and while I’m not crying, I feel like I could. I normally have some spotting a day before AF starts so I may have an answer on Tuesday from that. We’ll see. I know it’s possible to get bfn’s until like 15dpo and still get a bfp but it’s not terribly common I don’t think, so I’m torn between holding onto what’s likely false hope and just telling myself it’s not going to happen this cycle and might as well give up/move on.
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@Rach87 thanks for your support the bleeding is dark red in colour I have no pain etcOh no so sorry @Sarah Pearce
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@Teafor2 thank you so much I am really heartbrokenJust joining now... good luck everyone. So sorry @Sarah Pearce
I had to step away from thinking about ttc this month after my second chemical. In January I had one at 14 dpo which honestly didn’t bother me much. I was just happy that after over a year and a half of trying I had finally gotten something other than a bfn.
This month I had another chemical at 4 weeks +6 days. I had just started getting morning sickness and it was the first time in my life I actually felt pregnant. That one really did me in emotionally. I thought I was going to need a break from ttc. Still very weepy on and off, but now that the bleeding has really slowed down I’m ready to try again.
I’ve heard that after a chemical you’re often more fertile, so hopefully after two in a row I’ll be able to get pregnant again this month. Now just waiting for the bleeding to stop and ovulation signs to show. Not sure on my testing date yet as it will depend on when ovulation happens.
Hopefully we’ll get loads of bfps this month!
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So sorry @Sarah Pearce 
@J_and_D when did you start using your opks? I know you've had a couple of dodgy cycles like me right? I've just had a positive a couple of days ago on CD8 which was very unusual. Do you think it could have been a bit earlier and you missed it?
I've had other ovulation signs and my temp did go up a bit, so waiting to see if it stays up, or I end up with multiple surges again.
Hope you end up with a good surprise x
@J_and_D when did you start using your opks? I know you've had a couple of dodgy cycles like me right? I've just had a positive a couple of days ago on CD8 which was very unusual. Do you think it could have been a bit earlier and you missed it?
I've had other ovulation signs and my temp did go up a bit, so waiting to see if it stays up, or I end up with multiple surges again.
Hope you end up with a good surprise x
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I still keep having the weird heavy feeling a mild pinching. I’m also exhausted, peeing a lot, increased sense of smell, lower backache, and headache!
Ahh shoot I’d really hope to see a more clear line for 12dpo! But I mean I was still taking tests last month at 14 dpo because there’s always a chance.
However generally in my experience if i do see a faint line that’s not line-eye, it turns into a BFP within a day... so I think you’ll see a line in 24 hrs if it’s something! That’s kind of an obvious thing to say I guess lol! Buttt also, you didn’t get a clear BFP till late with one of your kiddos right? So maybe it’s similar? Or am I remembering that wrong?
So incredibly sorry hun. So many of us having those these past few months. It’s heartbreaking.Well ladies just an update i have just done some pregnancy tests and there is nothing on them so this means I have had a chemical pregnancy
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@Reiko_ctu its life
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@Sarah Pearce so sorry hun, I had everything crossed for you
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@MinnieMcMoose thank you so much I will try again and hopefully next time it will stay@Sarah Pearce so sorry hun, I had everything crossed for you
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@Sarah Pearce Im so sorry. It’s terrible.
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Im so so sorry sweetheart i really feel for you. Take care of yourself and we are all here if you needWell ladies just an update i have just done some pregnancy tests and there is nothing on them so this means I have had a chemical pregnancy
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@ShanandBoc thank you so muchIm so so sorry sweetheart i really feel for you. Take care of yourself and we are all here if you need
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@LuvallmyH thank you all you ladies are so supportive and I am so glad @Suggerhoney recommend baby and bump to me@Sarah Pearce Im so sorry. It’s terrible.
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