- Joined
- Aug 23, 2010
- Messages
- 14,362
- Reaction score
- 3,328
Topaz - congratulations, praying for a sticky bean!
More noticeable spotting this morning so af is coming today.
Congrats!Well they weren't evaps. 10dpo and im calling it bfp.
I'm so shocked as really thought we were out this month as only managed to bd on cd 9 and 11 and ovulated on cd13. Given my lack of ewcm I thought there was no way any swimmers could still be around.
Now I'm terrified of another mc.
View attachment 1094556
Can anyone see the line on this? It’s the same test taking at different angles. Worried it’s a evap
View attachment 1094558 View attachment 1094559
Well they weren't evaps. 10dpo and im calling it bfp.
I'm so shocked as really thought we were out this month as only managed to bd on cd 9 and 11 and ovulated on cd13. Given my lack of ewcm I thought there was no way any swimmers could still be around.
Now I'm terrified of another mc.
View attachment 1094556
I feel like I never really introduced myself properly and just jumped in the other day
I currently have 3 boys 11,7,3. we lost our first and only girl in April last year at 16 weeks due to a cystic hygroma, after 3 months of a partial retained placenta we started trying again.
just so happens that if these are true positives I will be due on the 28th October which was my princesses original due date before we lost her last year, call it an omen xx
It’s not more so not from this, it’s because of past pregnancies where I should’ve checked to see if I needed a dnc but I was so depressed that I didn’t go back. Just pretty much going to make sure I’m ok to hold a baby. That’s all. And this chemical pregnancy stuff is new to me. Never had one but I guess I do not@loeylo I’m just taking my standard prenatals, but I think they are really great because they have methylated folate as well as DHA, iron, and iodine on top of the standard vitamins and minerals you’d normally find in a multivitamin. They are a bit on the pricier side (about 30 euro for a month’s supply), but I feel like it’s worth it to avoid taking multiple supplements a day. I’ve been taking them somewhat consistently since 3 months before we started ttc, so two years now. I feel like at this point my body probably has a pretty good reserve of all the things it needs for baby making.
Can I ask how you know your risk for ectopic and miscarriage? I know I’m at a slightly increased risk for ectopic because I’ve had pelvic surgery and I have endometriosis. I don’t know if I’m at any increased risk for miscarriage, but I’ve had two chemicals in a row now.
@realbeauty86 If it makes you feel any better my understanding is that with a chemical pregnancy you won’t need a d&c. Obviously your doctor will know what is best for you and I know mine likes to double check hcg levels and do an ultrasound, but I hope that fact can maybe relieve any fear or anxiety you may be having.
@Weemcb26 I’m sorry about your previous loss. I hope the due date is a good omen for you as well!
Definitely think it’s a good idea to get checked... you need to take care of yourself! Hoping you appointment goes well and everything checks out. I had the same feeling with my chemical about still hoping for a bfp. Even after the bleeding stopped 6 days later part of my hoped that miraculously when I go for my appointment on Monday they’ll find a baby. I’ve given up on that hope now though. Losing pregnancies sucks.It’s not more so not from this, it’s because of past pregnancies where I should’ve checked to see if I needed a dnc but I was so depressed that I didn’t go back. Just pretty much going to make sure I’m ok to hold a baby. That’s all. And this chemical pregnancy stuff is new to me. Never had one but I guess I do not