I gave birth for the second time on Tuesday.
I was induced at 1.30pm but about 1.30am felt weird down below and the mw was reluctant to check. Turns out the tampon thing had come down and was hanging out. When she said, I replied with a smirk and said 'I told you so!'. At that point she said I still hadn't started dilating.
At 3.15am contractions were ripping me apart and she wouldn't check me saying I couldn't possibly be in full labour as less than 2 hours ago I hadn't started at all, and have me 2 paracetamol.
She went on her break and another mw took pity on me and gave me pethadine and ran me a nice bath. 30 mins later I was lying in the bath and my waters broke and I was checked and 5cm so they rushed me to l&d. I said to the nice mw 'when that bitch gets back from her break make sure you tell her I told her so!!!'
While being rushed up, I was told my new mw would be a lady called Michelle. I noticed after a while her name badge said Emma, but she was really annoying me patronizing me and not being particularly nice or helpful so I have up trying to remember her name and just called her Michelle lol!!
I begged for an epidural and must have driven her nuts telling her to hurry and saying she was deliberately being slow to prolong my agony lol
While the anaestatist was there I got a bad case of verbal diarreah....I came out with all the cliches....
'I can see why women only do this once - it really fucking hurts!'
'I am NEVER having sex again!!'
'Screw that - he's having his balls chopped off instead!'
'What on earth was I thinking when I agreed to a second baby - KNOWING how much agony this is!!'
'This baby is trying to kill me. I'm going to die!'.
I am convinced I was pooing. I kept apologizing and she said 'no honestly your not!', and I said well if I'm not what on earth is coming out of my ass!!!!!
I apologists afterwards for my colorful language and attitude lol!!
Turns out I'd gone from nothing to 10cm and delivering in 4 hours, and the epidural never had chance to kick in and work before baby arrived
I'm sure other things will come to me!