Hi ladies
Sounds like I'm in the same boat as a few of you. I have 3 x DD's and am 31 weeks with #4. We didn't find out. My gut feeling tells me that I have my boy on board, but I'm trying to be realistic. Like you Baby321, I had a good look at my 20 week ultrasound and couldn't see anything to indicate boy. I've gotten pretty good at looking at scans. I'm still analyzing the pictured. I probably should have just found out, but I couldn't bring myself to do it. If it is a boy I would rather have that much dreamed of moment when I can see it for myself. If not, then I'm happy with a girl...I know girls and am fully comfortable with another. This will most likely be my last pregnancy.
Baby321... Big hugs to you. I have followed forums on gender selection for a few years. In hindsight maybe I should have tried it...but like you, I am in Australia and would have had to travel to the US or further abroad. I don't know whether I would have been fully comfortable with the ethical issues surrounding the selection either, and then there's the massive cost involved.
I will keep checking back to see how you are all doing. It would be nice to stay in touch in the lead up to our births.
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