No he doesn't pull out, he just literally DOES NOT finish unless it's oral?!?
Never had anyone like that before lol.
Thus the reason
goes a couple Hourrrrs
Cover the kiddies ears...
He loves performing oral- and I am NOT complaining cuz he is AMAZING at it- bad oral is the worst lol. Like some horny teen licking and poking around thinking that is gonna do it ugh...
Anyhow we prob kissed and touched for 20 mins or so on the couch before moving upstairs to bed, then he did oral for about 20 mins on me?? then i was like ENUFF lol and then we went to sex for literally like over an hourrrr with multiple positions, but nothing on his end finishwise...then I decided ok he's an oral guy,, and that was literally over 30 mins of various methods lol, and he got close so went back to
and nothing from him!? Then finally finished with oral...
Wasn't a bad session, but def looong and I don't mind it once in a while, but NOT for the norm. He admits he takes a long time to finish, and always oral...so I imagine it's one of those things where someone has a certain fetish or kind of trained their brain by getting used to finishing a certain way??
Kind of how guys that masturbate a ton, may have a hard time when actually WITH someone..
He talks openly about it, and admits it has caused probs in alot of prev relationships, so he pretty much gave up dating the last few years.
Also he says this started after a really bad moto accident he was in many years ago- was in a coma and all- seen the pics...not pretty he's lucky to be alive really.
But I am not with him for sex, I am with him because we click, and I like him as a person....I really don't know how to broach the ttc issue as I don't want him bailing out totally over stressing a performance issue???
I've read alot online and apparently its not an uncommon prob, but when there is no physical prob ( erection) then it comes back to mental block of some sort.
He says he has no loss of sensation, and DEF has no prob with getting hard and STAYING hard for hours lol, but NO idea wth to say.
I'm no sex genie, but I def have NEVER had a prob with a guy finishing INSIDE me, even if they prefer other ways...bleh...I'm annoyed that ttc may never happen even if he agrees. I mean seriously I would have to keep it in my mouth then spit it in something and insert it
Waaay too much...not to mention if there is some mental thing he can't quite figure out, then ttc will def just add mental stress...grrr