General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")

[pacificlove]

if I keep my legs crossed now, that means a bean can't come out, right? Just kidding

CB has vanished..

 

[mrs.green2015]

Lol pacific do not uncross for any reason!

 

[JLM73]

Aww man!
Sorry Gig- was really hoping for you!
is ok, but will nair again tomoro...It says it prevents ingrown hair, but I still have a couple, just not as many as shaving. Think its unavoidable with course curly hair
Anyhow, I may be bold and try full strength, since the bikini nair wasn't as strong, and didn't remove everything. I know they say over time it causes the hair to grow back thinner/weaker, so hopefully that happens lol

 

[pacificlove]

I say BS, mine grows back the same every time! I still prefer crème over shaving tho, less itch even with those miracle oils you put on after.

 

[JLM73]

Def Pacific...I didn't itch until 4-5 days later as hair regrew, so I def prefer it to shaving.

 

[JLM73]

Who's due to test today?? or tomoro?
I don't recall where you all are

 

[pacificlove]

DH will be excited when he gets to clean me down there when I can't see any more. He already has been warned so tried his hands at it a few weeks ago. He wasn't bad at it either. Def no blades... rofl

 

[mrs.green2015]

Lol ladies just try waxing. It's not even that bad! I love it. Barely ever get any ingrown hairs or irritation. You can still wax when you're huge and preggo!

 

[pacificlove]

I tried wax once when I was maybe 18/19 in the bikini area. Worst idea i ever had... maybe the young mind just did it wrong nor tried it since...

 

[JLM73]

no waxing for me...eyebrows and upper lip left very red n sore and that was professional
I def wont do it down there.
I personally have NO desire to look prepubescent lol I don't like the stripper/porn look either...I prefer very low cut on the stuff, and shave most the front ( just above the magic button) and the groin sides bare.
Not a fan of everything missing so waxing is pointless for such a small area.
I only did more to see if I could without irritation, and because the man requested it.
Irritation really has to do with your hair type- the harder to remove, the more irritation when growing back or plucking out.
Trust me...I am going back to my norm. It's just not attractive at all to me to see the darker skin areas, and the bumps here and there...just not sexy to me lol.
I'd rather keep the low cut. I have a small pair of men's beard clippers and 1/8" of hair he can see everything still, no hair in mouth, and no bumps best of all.
He will learn to love it or get cut off lol.

 

[claireybell]

Im here lady birds, im hours hours ahead, 20:30 just sat down after sorting the boy & having a shower.

Omg J after all that shaving vag issues lol he never put out? Ah mate, sucky! Def work your charm for this wknd hehee! & i hate the clean shaven haven down there aswell, i lightly trim over with razor & keep short, i remember when i was pg i kept it trimmed but didnt wanna look porno going down for a csection ha haa!! I didnt shave for 2months after that, SO said it was like doing 70's Porn lol

So i went & bought an early sensitive test from my chemist today to pee either thursday or Friday.. It detects 5miu, anyone heard of Viola or are they just s**t?? Lol! Im currenly 6dpo & my chart temps are peaking high hehee excited! Had loadsa CM today aswell, dont recall having this past few months after oving, maybe im sympton spotting tooooo much

 

[JLM73]

Oooh Claire exciting!!
I've never seen miu lower than 10, so that is AMAZING!!!
I've been in a really irritated mood last couple days...don't like putting ttc on hold
I'll be 42 next month, and whilst (my Brit term hehe) that does not mean it's impossible, from 41-42 certainly has been no cake walk...
Grrrr....I def don't expect ttc to be easy as the past year has proven, but I think I have the added prob of the man NOT finishing quickly, and preferring it outside the vajay sigh...I am really not into hours of over and over to ttc...
Gonna have to have a Come to Jesus talk with the man...
Oh and to add to that his 20 yr old daughter who "never wants kids" is the one that is pregnant, and told him the other day the doc believes it is twins...WTF...
She literally is already planning to get her tubes tied immed after the birth...double WTF... She's due in April, so now I get to smile and ooh ahh over her sono pics for a few months...otherwise be labeled forever as "her dad's new butchy girlfriend" lol
I def don't mind others being preggo, just REALLY over ppl who absolutely DON'T want to be preggo, getting preggo easily...
enuff ranting...

 

[mrs.green2015]

Clair never heard of them but 5miu is amazing as J said!!

J- I think that whole situation would irritate even the nose patient person. Idk how you would be able to not have a come to Jesus meeting soon.

 

[JLM73]

Yea....gonna have to figure it out very very soon...I may just see what happens this wknd and when the is about to go down...just casually throw in "you remember I'm not on BC riggghhhttt???"
He didn't even flinch the first time around.
I know I have def dated guys in the past that were like "I'm getting you pregnant tonight!"
And I'm like Yea well if your boys get past depo you earned it ...
Never had a BC fail really - other than missing alot of pills in a cycle, and KNOWING I shouldn't do something, but not caring since I was married and we did want kids

 

[mrs.green2015]

He pulls out right J? He probably thinks that's effective enough, and he is for some...

 

[claireybell]

Yes im excited to pee lol but these mega sensitive ones are like £8.99 a pack of 2 uhhh so i shant be wasting.. If i get any glimmers of anything, il be switching on the laptop & uploading oldschool hahaa!!

J, feeling your frustration with the 20yr old pg daughter thing.. So shes not maternal at all either??

Whats a come to Jesus talk??

 

[JLM73]

No he doesn't pull out, he just literally DOES NOT finish unless it's oral?!?
Never had anyone like that before lol.
Thus the reason goes a couple Hourrrrs
Cover the kiddies ears...
He loves performing oral- and I am NOT complaining cuz he is AMAZING at it- bad oral is the worst lol. Like some horny teen licking and poking around thinking that is gonna do it ugh...
Anyhow we prob kissed and touched for 20 mins or so on the couch before moving upstairs to bed, then he did oral for about 20 mins on me?? then i was like ENUFF lol and then we went to sex for literally like over an hourrrr with multiple positions, but nothing on his end finishwise...then I decided ok he's an oral guy,, and that was literally over 30 mins of various methods lol, and he got close so went back to and nothing from him!? Then finally finished with oral...
Wasn't a bad session, but def looong and I don't mind it once in a while, but NOT for the norm. He admits he takes a long time to finish, and always oral...so I imagine it's one of those things where someone has a certain fetish or kind of trained their brain by getting used to finishing a certain way??
Kind of how guys that masturbate a ton, may have a hard time when actually WITH someone..
He talks openly about it, and admits it has caused probs in alot of prev relationships, so he pretty much gave up dating the last few years.
Also he says this started after a really bad moto accident he was in many years ago- was in a coma and all- seen the pics...not pretty he's lucky to be alive really.
But I am not with him for sex, I am with him because we click, and I like him as a person....I really don't know how to broach the ttc issue as I don't want him bailing out totally over stressing a performance issue???
I've read alot online and apparently its not an uncommon prob, but when there is no physical prob ( erection) then it comes back to mental block of some sort.
He says he has no loss of sensation, and DEF has no prob with getting hard and STAYING hard for hours lol, but NO idea wth to say.
I'm no sex genie, but I def have NEVER had a prob with a guy finishing INSIDE me, even if they prefer other ways...bleh...I'm annoyed that ttc may never happen even if he agrees. I mean seriously I would have to keep it in my mouth then spit it in something and insert it Waaay too much...not to mention if there is some mental thing he can't quite figure out, then ttc will def just add mental stress...grrr

 

[claireybell]

https://www.violapregnancytest.co.uk/index.html

This is that pg test link.. Hopefully it works

 

[JLM73]

Claire "Come to Jesus" talk is a joke saying here lol
Basically it's a serious talk
Many church folks are very pushy in trying to get ppl to "come to Jesus" and "join the flock" at their church, so it's a silly way of saying he needs to see things my way LOL

 

[claireybell]

Claire "Come to Jesus" talk is a joke saying here lol
Basically it's a serious talk
Many church folks are very pushy in trying to get ppl to "come to Jesus" and "join the flock" at their church, so it's a silly way of saying he needs to see things my way LOL

Ohhhhh i see hahaa! Yes he needs the Jesus chat J lol