Whew...somehow I missed a very serious topic!
I'll just say 1 I'm pro-choice full stop.
I got preg at 17 with oldest son, BUT had also graduated the month before AND was in local university premed blah blah
I also purchased my 1st home 2 yrs later, and had been working and owned a car forever, so I didn't feel the full strain of a typical teen preg.
If anything- EVERYone was telling me terminate ( I hid it from fam for 5 months)
but likely being defiant kept me from the terminantion clinic....I'd been before at 15...
Sooo I will say I fault/judge NO ONE for their choices.
At the end of the day WE have to live with what we choose, not others.
Also, I had dear friend/neighbor who was date raped, and her fam was super religious- they not only forced her at 16 to Have the baby, but also MARRY the guy!?!
She was suicidal for yearrrrs and hated the guy, and was detached from baby...
Soo So sad to watch....not even sure she is alive today, as we lost touch, but that was another big factor I had in remaining Pro-Choice, even now being in cycle 54 and being willing to do anything up to VooDoo to conceive
And somehow the planets aligned ysterdy and I managed to hook up YAY...so we'll see what happens as I have not been temping for Sh*t lol and opk was neg as hell ystrdy, but I may have missed the surge