Ok I have a little more energy today now that the first day of school is over haha.
Flueky awww that’s cute about the spinner thing but also like what do people expect haha. How is V liking her class/teacher? Hopefully the prek comes through! That’s awesome about the neighbor! It’s such a lost social practice to be close with the neighbors.
Pretty that’s so funny about Zoey climbing on their bunk beds. Absolutely adorable. Love that fearlessness!
Jez awww well you can exacta knife them off jk jk. I’m just oct when it comes to hpts. I love poas and staring at them.
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Shae we’re gonna have to agree to disagree. I have very low tolerance for to getting things done that have to get done because that’s not how I function. I will say though I’ve never had a physical job. I complain having to move one 50 lb box a year lol. That sounds like a really s* situation to be in and I agree he needs to get out. I do understand wanting to have something else lined up first before jumping ship, but with the move to your papa’s it sounds like now is the best time you’ll be financially. Plus there’s always filler jobs. Like I worked at PetSmart making $10/hr while I got my teaching credential. I go bit, peed on, humped, yelled at, sexually harassed and assaulted by my manager… it sucked. But it paid the rent while I went to school. So he could always do something part time while working on his portfolio. Though I’ll still say he doesn’t work 7 days a week. And it’s not like a portfolio is a lifelong project in his case. So he needs to knuckle down and just do it. When I had my cyst pregnancy, I was teaching full time, doing free tutoring before and after school, doing 1-2x a week of girl group lunches with the guidance counselor because the girls in my class were cutting themselves, I was a Year 2 BTSA candidate trying to clear my credential (coursework and tests and observations), dealing with an abusive stalker ex, and I was in my master’s program full time. I started doing krav 5x a week because my mental health was so bad. So as much as I just wanted to go home and veg and cry and quit my masters or postpone my year 2 (you have 5 years to clear your credential), I knew it was temporary pain for major long term game. So at the end of the day, I’m very put up or shut up. It’s the cause of like 99% of my relationship friction with people. You want it, you find a way and do it. Especially if your choices impact someone else.
I think you should be fine working. Literally all my teacher friends, though different job for sure, work up to and past their due dates. How’s the saving coming? I really think that’s going to be a game changer for him because having that nest egg I think will give him some peace.
Long story short I just want you to be able to ttc soon cuz I know you’re itching for it. My loyalty is to your ovaries not his anxiety.
I think the Temu 90% off makes me uncomfortable. Like as much as I want to buy something I know should be $25 for $2…. that’s just weird hahaha. SUS as the kids would say.
AFM first day of school went well. Already feeling the strain of not having my mom to call on. Her boss refused to let her take her prep today to take A to school. I’m pissed at her boss and pissed at my mom for not having a spine. My brother and stepdad took him, but their pictures are stupid LOL. Luckily the Y director took some great photos of A and me this morning. My class seems sweet. I have one kid with a s* home life. His parents were screaming out front so he didn't want to come to class and be associated with them/ be embarrassed and labeled as the kid with the parents who fight at school.