General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")

[JLM73]

We are hassling Gigs cuz she took opks and sent the lil one off with Gma with her seduction plan , and
We would leave her alone if she would Give us a duck videoooo! lol

 

[JLM73]

Sorry, just recalled another Q I forgot to answer
I have always had my own houses since I was 20.
When I needed to move after divorce, my 74 yr old mother begged me to get a house with her, so she was alone and had someone to help her ( she is by NO means slow at 74).
Well I deeply regret caving. We really don't get along, bcuz I value respecting space and provacy and she is CONSTANTLY diggin thru everyone's mail, food, bedrooms etc.
I had to put a key lock on my bedroom lol.
Sooo I can not wait to have my own place again, but kinda on hold until my biz is making a bit more.
We both left our homes to buy one together basically.

 

[gigglebox]

Ahh got cha. That is rough, i'm Sorry she's being so snoopy! Maybe leave your door unlocked and "hide" a dildo of rediculous proportions to scare her out off searching through your stuff

I know, i know...i steered the bus off the road haha. Oddly enough our conversation has kind of made me want to look harder into adopting (like a slightly older child, maybe 1-2). I know adopting can be risky...but part of me feels guilty bringing a kid into this world when there are so many desperate for a family...

I don't know. I'm really full of feels today haha

J, i'll try to get on finishing that duck video today. Here's a link to an old one to tide you over: https://youtu.be/DQDfu_h9azk

 

[DobbyForever]

Lol give us baby or give us duck video! And that's true. I only encourage DTD, he gave me his soldiers knowing very well I was fertile. Think he made a comment about making a baby. Ugh now I want to wake him up lol

J, that was nice of you. Sorry your relationship is so tumultuous.

Shea, you could. Can you just say you have a personal errand to run or will she gets suspicious or ragey? I'm just concerned because at 21dpo something is causing your period not to show, and most of those things require some sort of medical attention. Are you taking prenatals just in case? Plus, I just want to look at a test hehe

 

[Breeaa]

Any darker today J?

 

[gigglebox]

I, too, want to see a test!!! Shea or J, bring 'em on

Dobs, if you have twins I'll take a girl off your hands i'm only half kidding.

 

[DobbyForever]

LMFAO Gigs! I'm becoming more and more convinced it's a singleton, sorry ladies. My doubling isn't too far off some a normal singleton, and my symptoms are very mild. This waiting is killing me though.

Seriously ladies. We need some pee sticks!

And duck egg videos! P.S. I love that you had them learning to swim in your kitchen hahaha I think I heard Des in the background once

 

[JLM73]

I was watchin a DUCK video! YAY!
I smiled thru the whooooole thing hehe. You two are so cute! And so are the ducks. The runners do walk really upright
Very Nice setup you have- gave me an idea of what I wanna do once I finally get some land and out of a neighborhood!
That made my day! I was kinda annoyed my line is still faint sigh..

Day 15 since I left O island...I think I see BFPland on the horizon...but every day I don't seem any closer! It's a very odd optical illusion...I will continue paddling a few more days,and hope I reach the shore!

 

[DobbyForever]

Hmmmm any chance of asking your doctor for a beta tomorrow? Just say you've been getting faint positives for days but they don't seem to be getting darker, and now your period is late so you want to do a beta to check. That usually gets me a beta.

 

[gigglebox]

^ that's a good call. I second Dob's suggestion What's you plan from here? I'm not trying to suck the hope out of the situation but I feel like the lines should be getting darker but they ARE there. how confusing

Dobs, you definitely heard Des in the background in the kitchen video haha. He was super pumped about those little duckies swimming around

Talked to hubs about adoption today. He doesn't want to do that; said if we're able to, he'd rather have our own. I'm feeling super broody again today *folds arms and pouts* and I'm missing my son. My thought is it's probably good for both of us to be separated, at least on occasion...however I miss him terribly and it's making me second guess myself about putting him in daycare (which I was considering doing only once a week).

I hate this wait. Fucking money.

 

[JLM73]

I don't have a way to see my gyn UNLESS preg- they don't take my insur and I don't wanna change docs.
Time will tell as they say

Gigs I kinda agree with your hubs...You are still young!
Also, most baby-2 yr olds are adopted very very quickly- usually waiting lists.
It's the 10-17 that have a really hard time being adopted- or sevwere health probs.
Maybe your adopt talk well make him leave it in lol

 

[Breeaa]

^ that's a good call. I second Dob's suggestion What's you plan from here? I'm not trying to suck the hope out of the situation but I feel like the lines should be getting darker but they ARE there. how confusing

Dobs, you definitely heard Des in the background in the kitchen video haha. He was super pumped about those little duckies swimming around

Talked to hubs about adoption today. He doesn't want to do that; said if we're able to, he'd rather have our own. I'm feeling super broody again today *folds arms and pouts* and I'm missing my son. My thought is it's probably good for both of us to be separated, at least on occasion...however I miss him terribly and it's making me second guess myself about putting him in daycare (which I was considering doing only once a week).

I hate this wait. Fucking money.

Maybe he will give in soon? We're tight on money right now too since we just bought a house. He wanted to wait too but changed his mind recently. I think he realizes we can make it work if we stop buying things we don't need. Lol I'm a shopper.

 

[Breeaa]

I don't have a way to see my gyn UNLESS preg- they don't take my insur and I don't wanna change docs.
Time will tell as they say

Gigs I kinda agree with your hubs...You are still young!
Also, most baby-2 yr olds are adopted very very quickly- usually waiting lists.
It's the 10-17 that have a really hard time being adopted- or sevwere health probs.
Maybe your adopt talk well make him leave it in lol

This is driving me crazy! Go buy another frer!!! Do you have a family dollar? They sell frer 2 packs for 7-9$? They also have their brand for like 4$? might be worth trying a new brand too? I keep checking in to see if there are new darker lines.

I had another weird dream last night. I wanted to adopt the most beautiful golden retriever puppy and the store was trying to sell her for 2 million dollars. I balled like a baby when I realized we couldn't afford her. Two nights in a row I have been crying in my dreams.

 

[gigglebox]

Awwwwww lol hopefully the vivid dreams are a good sign!

 

[claireybell]

Hey girlies!!!

Talking of weird dreams, i dreamt i gave birth last night!! Horrifiying Lol!!! & i had forceps!

I had a planned csection with Riley, i awoke from the dream rather 'anxious' should i say ek!!

Had a nightmate today though, someone reversed into our car AGAIN!! 2nd time in 16months & on the same side! We just hot ourselves a Hire courtesy car via Insurance, very nice but want a new car now Lol!!!

I couldnt see J's Frer pic - has one been peed on today??

 

[shaescott]

JLM this is your test zoomed in! Look at that beautiful line!

 

[shaescott]

I've been pretty symptom free today except mood swings and tender breasts. I've been out with mom and little sis all day so no chance for buying a test. Maybe tomorrow.

 

[shaescott]

Fiancé says he'll try to go to Walmart tomorrow

 

[DobbyForever]

You should pull the my friend is too embarrassed to buy a test so I'm buying this for her Jk Shae. Kind of. Lol.

J, that's a bummer! I used to hate Kaiser until I came onto this site and realized how spoiled I am lol. I remember they used to screen you (you had to get referral from your PCP to see your GYN but they did away with that long time ago because GYNs were considered a specialist). So you have pee positive for them? That's lame. Your regular doctor can't order a hcg test? Mine did once because my gyn was on maternity leave.

Gigs, kudos to you for doing it right. My cousins all just wanted babies and had them. The financial struggle for them is so real, and their kids are totally suffering for it. It's really sad. It will be worth the wait. And just think the longer you wait, the more mature Des will be and the better bond he will have with his little sibling. He'll be in a mentoring, loving role.

 

[DobbyForever]

Wait. Shae. WAIT your sig says WTTT until 2023!!! That's like... 8 years from now?! I don't have that kind of patience lol