General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")
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I believe someone once referred to them as "fufu farts"
Most insur covers tubals, especially if you are c sect, but are you SURE???
What if you have another boy?? You are giving up team pink??
Lol! Ewwww....
We don't have any more room for a 3rd kid, and I was set one only having 1 until earlier this year....so yeah, i'm afraid i might change my mind. But tubals are supposed to be permanent, right? So what's the difference.
I just have such a rare circumstance that i'm not sure what to do (11-12 day periods, my two sides are out of sync so they don't bleed together). I am sick of bleeding 1/2-1/3 of my life. Plus my ovaries are painful enough, i hate dealing with that and then period pains a couple weeks later...
But then i think of the "what if's"...and how i might need a uterus again...
Eh. I dunno. I guess something to discuss if I do get pregnant. Hubs is convinced I am already, but i'm afraid its going to take some time this time...
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Gigs
I believe someone once referred to them as "fufu farts"
Most insur covers tubals, especially if you are c sect, but are you SURE???
What if you have another boy?? You are giving up team pink??
Lol! Ewwww....
We don't have any more room for a 3rd kid, and I was set one only having 1 until earlier this year....so yeah, i'm afraid i might change my mind. But tubals are supposed to be permanent, right? So what's the difference.
I just have such a rare circumstance that i'm not sure what to do (11-12 day periods, my two sides are out of sync so they don't bleed together). I am sick of bleeding 1/2-1/3 of my life. Plus my ovaries are painful enough, i hate dealing with that and then period pains a couple weeks later...
But then i think of the "what if's"...and how i might need a uterus again...
Eh. I dunno. I guess something to discuss if I do get pregnant. Hubs is convinced I am already, but i'm afraid its going to take some time this time...
I was sure on only having two for quite a while but it didn't last. We only have 3 bedrooms (plans to add a fourth later) but kids can share! Especially if they're close in age, and same gender. My sister and I shared all the way through high school. We were super close.
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Gigs for reference a hysterectomy removes uterus seals the end of vag closed with end of cervix- usually keep Ovs so you don't lose female hormones.
Kinda a major surgery compared to tubal, which can be done outpatient with laparoscopy- small incisions at belly button and groin to allow tools in
Very quick recovery.
I would def make sure triple sure before you do it!
Kinda a major surgery compared to tubal, which can be done outpatient with laparoscopy- small incisions at belly button and groin to allow tools in
Very quick recovery.
I would def make sure triple sure before you do it!
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Mornin ladies!!
Ohhhh some amusing chats i just sieved through hahaaa 'fufu farts'
I had a couple of those incidents being LOUD with an ex & it still thinking about it now makes me Lol!!
Gigs - 15 tests! I need to stock up, im approaching fertile window & my ov'ing will come & go soooo quickly! Need to SO on board for humpings ha ha
Ohhhh some amusing chats i just sieved through hahaaa 'fufu farts'
I had a couple of those incidents being LOUD with an ex & it still thinking about it now makes me Lol!!
Gigs - 15 tests! I need to stock up, im approaching fertile window & my ov'ing will come & go soooo quickly! Need to SO on board for humpings ha ha
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Lol! Isn't it awkward?! I means usually hubs and i laugh together. This time he goes, "that wasn't sexy at all, by the way." Hahahahha
How do they not do it in porns?! Maybe they just edit it out....or the ladies are so loose no air can get trapped hahahahhaha
J, i was going to get it done before and i think i would have been ok if i made that decision. We would have gone the adoption route (of an older kid), which i still want to do eventually. So yeah....maybe tubes tied though, juuuuuust in case. Is a reversal hard? Or would i have to get ivf done at that point, if i did change my mind?
How do they not do it in porns?! Maybe they just edit it out....or the ladies are so loose no air can get trapped hahahahhaha
J, i was going to get it done before and i think i would have been ok if i made that decision. We would have gone the adoption route (of an older kid), which i still want to do eventually. So yeah....maybe tubes tied though, juuuuuust in case. Is a reversal hard? Or would i have to get ivf done at that point, if i did change my mind?
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HAHAAA!!! Yes thise floooozy loose porno biatches 
My sister had her tubes tied last yr in august at the same time they did her planned csection, she has 4 bubbas now, well 14month, 9yrs, 10yrs & a 13yr old, only the first & last were planned Lol! But i think uf she wanted anymore they said ivf would be best, but i think shes done now hehe
My sister had her tubes tied last yr in august at the same time they did her planned csection, she has 4 bubbas now, well 14month, 9yrs, 10yrs & a 13yr old, only the first & last were planned Lol! But i think uf she wanted anymore they said ivf would be best, but i think shes done now hehe
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What cd you on now giggs? Hows the cm? Mines starting to get thinner & slightly less creamy so i think ov'ing will be sooner this cycle but who knows.. :-/
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I think I'm 1dpo! Hard to say though...I had my really bad ov pains last night, where even walking is uncomfortable and laying down hurts...and that bad discomfort is gone this morning but my ovary still hurts when it's pressed on...? I don't think it usually does that, but maybe? Not sure.
Hopefully the pain stops and i can confidently call myself in the tww! Right now i'm cautiously saying it
Hopefully the pain stops and i can confidently call myself in the tww! Right now i'm cautiously saying it
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Make sure you get another night of passion in ey?? ;-)) hehe!
When i ovulated couple months ago, having sex was so painful i nearly had to stop, i bet its because your egg follicles ready to bust open that egg yay!! If ya CM is creamy then you may of just ov'd, im dying to pee on a stick & havent even ovulated yet Lol
When i ovulated couple months ago, having sex was so painful i nearly had to stop, i bet its because your egg follicles ready to bust open that egg yay!! If ya CM is creamy then you may of just ov'd, im dying to pee on a stick & havent even ovulated yet Lol
Super annoyed. My temp dropped. It's not an accurate temp thanks to DH stealing my sheet this morning and mischievous kittens.
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Aww Greenie, sorry the video did some weird time lapse thing on you. At least you have it to spark the memories. Glad Hubs loved his surprise.
I used to get dips between 4-6 dpo every cycle, some were small and some were huge. It's probably that secondary estrogen surge post O. I wouldn't worry about it. It'll go back up tomorrow.
Gigs, a properly done tubal can be reversed. Although, it's not as easy as reversing a vasectomy. My mom had her tubes tied after she had me. My stepdad wanted more kids, so they went to a doctor to undo her tubal. It would have been possible, but as it turned out the doctor who did it actually intentionally cut up my mom's tubes so they could never be repaired. The doctor looking at it said it he had never seen anything like it, and it wasn't a sloppy job. It had to be intentional. I was born in a battered women's shelter in the poverty area of Southern California, so i wouldn't be shocked if the dude thought he was doing the world a service by pressuring women into tubals and f*ing up their tubes.
So because she couldn't reverse it, my brothers were IVF babies. It cost a lot of money because they had to do sperm selection (my stepdad is twenty years older than my mom so his sperm were like way bad so only a handful were usable) and my mom wanted to do egg selection (so they only used Grade A eggs although she boasts that the doctor told her for her age ~35ish she had a ton of eggs left and the majority were Grade A). She had to get hormone injections for months.
Major big sister bragging coming on lol so feel free to not read this:
But at the end of the day, they put in three embryos and two latched on and now I have twin brothers who are Eagle scouts at 15, have toured world wide with their elite singing group, are athletic, one is in the acting company at school, they are both National Honors Society and have weighted 4.3+ GPAa, get 4s and 5s on their AP tests, scored over 2100 on the SAT, one was honored by the district as an honorable student with a girl who works over the summer on a cure for cancer, one is on Homecoming Court.... they are 6' and 6'2 handsome little buggers. Love them so much!
This song is the only song they sing every year. Makes me cry every time. I'm the only kid who wasn't in the group because I had a really emotionally challenging time in high school.
Not to Say Goodbye
I used to get dips between 4-6 dpo every cycle, some were small and some were huge. It's probably that secondary estrogen surge post O. I wouldn't worry about it.
It'll go back up tomorrow.Gigs, a properly done tubal can be reversed. Although, it's not as easy as reversing a vasectomy. My mom had her tubes tied after she had me. My stepdad wanted more kids, so they went to a doctor to undo her tubal. It would have been possible, but as it turned out the doctor who did it actually intentionally cut up my mom's tubes so they could never be repaired. The doctor looking at it said it he had never seen anything like it, and it wasn't a sloppy job. It had to be intentional. I was born in a battered women's shelter in the poverty area of Southern California, so i wouldn't be shocked if the dude thought he was doing the world a service by pressuring women into tubals and f*ing up their tubes.
So because she couldn't reverse it, my brothers were IVF babies. It cost a lot of money because they had to do sperm selection (my stepdad is twenty years older than my mom so his sperm were like way bad so only a handful were usable) and my mom wanted to do egg selection (so they only used Grade A eggs although she boasts that the doctor told her for her age ~35ish she had a ton of eggs left and the majority were Grade A). She had to get hormone injections for months.
Major big sister bragging coming on lol so feel free to not read this:
But at the end of the day, they put in three embryos and two latched on and now I have twin brothers who are Eagle scouts at 15, have toured world wide with their elite singing group, are athletic, one is in the acting company at school, they are both National Honors Society and have weighted 4.3+ GPAa, get 4s and 5s on their AP tests, scored over 2100 on the SAT, one was honored by the district as an honorable student with a girl who works over the summer on a cure for cancer, one is on Homecoming Court.... they are 6' and 6'2 handsome little buggers. Love them so much!
This song is the only song they sing every year. Makes me cry every time. I'm the only kid who wasn't in the group because I had a really emotionally challenging time in high school.
Not to Say Goodbye
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Taking a break to watch Teen Mom 2 hahahaha. Recorded it last night.
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Ha ha this just made me lol! Yup! Peed on one earlier.. Negative opk, it be a few days yet i reckon
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You feeling all hormonal Dobs watching pregnancy stuff hehe! I watched Juno the other night & cried hahaa, i swear my hormones never returned to normal after having Riley
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OMG your bros are amaaazing!! You should be Big Sis Braggin!
Gigs
Soooo....picturing your pretty face in the ducky vids all happy and then thinking of you 
style then fufu fartin Just blame it on your twin...cuz I just can't picture it hehe.
And I back what Dobby said- from what I read they can def reverse tubals so long as you have enough tube to reconnect ( doc didn't cut a huge chunk).
I also read they can put in stints ( little tube opener), because anytime you so surgery, no matter how neatly, the body reacts by building scar tissue there, and adhesions. So unless you are having a csect, It is a semi-major surgery to go inside (can do min invasive laparoscopy), but to reverse you again do a semi major surg.
If your man gets snipped ( they can literally do them in 20 mins now lunchtime laser surg) Since they don't go all up in his body, it's much less dangerous, and is much easier to reverse.
Same thing, just tell the doc in advance not to cut off too much in case you wanna reverse it.
Diff is- women get operated inside which means gen anesthesia(knock out) which causes more risks, as well as internal surg more bleed risk.
Men it's all done outside the body, less bleeding, and they get local numbing meds and or light pain meds.
Gah that's alot lol
My temp took a NOSEDIVE?? no idea why- still on progest- in case my wknd gets jiggy hehe
OMG your bros are amaaazing!! You should be Big Sis Braggin!Gigs
Soooo....picturing your pretty face in the ducky vids all happy and then thinking of you style then fufu fartin Just blame it on your twin...cuz I just can't picture it hehe.And I back what Dobby said- from what I read they can def reverse tubals so long as you have enough tube to reconnect ( doc didn't cut a huge chunk).
I also read they can put in stints ( little tube opener), because anytime you so surgery, no matter how neatly, the body reacts by building scar tissue there, and adhesions. So unless you are having a csect, It is a semi-major surgery to go inside (can do min invasive laparoscopy), but to reverse you again do a semi major surg.
If your man gets snipped ( they can literally do them in 20 mins now lunchtime laser surg) Since they don't go all up in his body, it's much less dangerous, and is much easier to reverse.
Same thing, just tell the doc in advance not to cut off too much in case you wanna reverse it.
Diff is- women get operated inside which means gen anesthesia(knock out) which causes more risks, as well as internal surg more bleed risk.
Men it's all done outside the body, less bleeding, and they get local numbing meds and or light pain meds.
Gah that's alot lol
My temp took a NOSEDIVE?? no idea why- still on progest- in case my wknd gets jiggy hehe
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Breeaa Sorry about the kittys and OH gangin up on you lol.
If you took your temp at a diff time cuz they woke you up here is a temp adjuster:
https://www.whenmybaby.com/basalbodytemperature.php
If you woke at the reg time, just colder, then you can discard the temp.
Also make sure you don't talk or anything when you wake- just therm straight in the mouth and stay still lol.
Talking will cool your mouth due to air movement - seems odd but it does. So you would get a false read since your body temp would be diff than what your mouth would tell the therm.
If you took your temp at a diff time cuz they woke you up here is a temp adjuster:
https://www.whenmybaby.com/basalbodytemperature.php
If you woke at the reg time, just colder, then you can discard the temp.
Also make sure you don't talk or anything when you wake- just therm straight in the mouth and stay still lol.
Talking will cool your mouth due to air movement - seems odd but it does. So you would get a false read since your body temp would be diff than what your mouth would tell the therm.
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Awww Claire lol. I love Juno. I wish I could say I watch Teen Mom because I'm pregnant. Nope. In college, I went through this trashy reality tv phase. Thankfully, most shows got cancelled. But I still watch things like Total Divas and Teen Mom and what not. I have to be so "on" all the time, that coming home and watching stuff I can space out is great haha.
J, why thank you. I'm crazy proud. The one good thing about being sick is that the homecoming parade is tomorrow so now when I call out sick tomorrow, I won't feel bad because I am actually sick haha. That's so weird that your temp dropped
J, why thank you. I'm crazy proud. The one good thing about being sick is that the homecoming parade is tomorrow so now when I call out sick tomorrow, I won't feel bad because I am actually sick haha. That's so weird that your temp dropped
