Had 12 week scan today, guessing a boy based on nub theory

[hello_kitty]

I am already feeling bad towards this lo because I know he wont get as much attention as his brother. Not because of the gender thing but I think firstborns always get soo much attention this time around I have to tend to 2 little ones...I dont think I will get to cuddle just gonna hold him when he cries, feed, bathe him and of course gonna spend time playing with him but I just dont think he will get as much attention.

He's also going straight into his play yard which will be in same room as us, with ds1 I couldnt even imagine being separated from him I HAD to sleep with him and now its become a habit.

I feel like a bad mom already.

Regarding the orgasm thing, we always dtd like its a duty to conceive a baby (know it sounds bad) so Im sure I never climaxed but still got 2 boys. Guess I got to cross that off the list of the swaying tactic?

 

[motherofboys]

I know I almost always do orgasm. I think unless you have a naturally high or low level of ph it isn't going to effect it enough to sway by itself.

 

[Kaiecee]

I should have af by Friday if not I'd test Monday but I'm sure she will show

 

[hello_kitty]

Happy easter to anyone who's celebrating!

 

[cnsweeney]

so mine did in fact turn out to be a GIRL!

 

[hello_kitty]

Oh wow! Is this third girl for you?

 

[Kaiecee]

I'm on to my fertile window hope it works this month

 

[cnsweeney]

Oh wow! Is this third girl for you?

no its my second

 

[hello_kitty]

Fingers crossed kaiecee!

Cnsweeny at least your two girls will be best friends! That's how I try to look at things now.

 

[cnsweeney]

Exactly. I've come to terms with it and have actually gotten excited after buying stuff

 

[Kaiecee]

I hope I'm blessed with having a little girl one day but I'm not feeling very hopeful about a little girl or even getting my bfp

 

[motherofboys]

Congrats on a 2nd girl.

Hope you get a girl one day kaiecee

 

[Kaiecee]

I better get pregnant soon or else I'm going to go crazy

 

[hello_kitty]

Kaiecee is this your second month of trying? Hopefully this is the month for you! I know some people who got their desired gender after the 5th time trying so keep your chin up! If I end up with 4 boys I MIGHT try for a 5th. I am not too sure yet because having 1 child and being pregnant already feels like the end of the world to me already. Dh woke ds up today from his nap and I almost bit his head off.

 

[Kaiecee]

No I'd say this will be my 4th if it doesn't work this month I'm going to ask for clomid when my body needed a boost that helped for one of my pregnancies

 

[cnsweeney]

I also heard clomid helps to
Conceive a girl

Well I had to get an u/s last night at the hospital because I was running a high fever and vomiting . Confirmed she is def. a girl! Still not sure what's wrong with me but I'm thinking it's a bad sinus infection

 

[hello_kitty]

Kaiecee - I've heard of clomid before and it has helped people conceive pretty quickly.

Cnsweeny - Hope you'll feel better soon! Are you going to do much shopping for her or re using dd1's stuff? I bought my baby a few nb outfits for the summer and said no more for now since they look pretty small and he will probably outgrow it quickly. Also bought some sleep sacks, hoping they wont be too warm for him in the heat of summer, but I only bought 1 nb size, the others are s/ so he can wear them in the fall.

I think I am getting allergies, nose is stuffed and I keep sneezing!

 

[Kaiecee]

When I used clomid I conceived the same month hopefully this month worked for us so I don't have to use it if not I'll try next cycle

 

[cnsweeney]

Kaiecee - I've heard of clomid before and it has helped people conceive pretty quickly.

Cnsweeny - Hope you'll feel better soon! Are you going to do much shopping for her or re using dd1's stuff? I bought my baby a few nb outfits for the summer and said no more for now since they look pretty small and he will probably outgrow it quickly. Also bought some sleep sacks, hoping they wont be too warm for him in the heat of summer, but I only bought 1 nb size, the others are s/ so he can wear them in the fall.

I think I am getting allergies, nose is stuffed and I keep sneezing!

thank you I am starting to feel a little better just still have the yucky cold part. :/ to answer your question, yes we will be shopping for her. I don't have much left from dd1 except for memorable things and outfits I simply couldn't part with so we are basically starting all over. I got rid of most of her things because I wasn't planning on having another any time soon. hence the 5 yr gap lol. I had dd1 at 19 so I was a young mom and a lot of her furniture and stuff was hand me downs so we will buying new this time. and my dh is not her biological father ( but still her daddy at heart! ) so this is his first born. I am quite excited to get started on the nursery. I have everything planned .now just to purchase it all. my oh my how expensive crib bedding can be! luckily I am pretty good at shopping around online so I was able to save us a lot of money! dh said we have enough pink in the house already so we have decided to do the babys room in purples,grays, and turquoises. its actually very beautiful once completed. cant wait!

 

[hello_kitty]

cnsweeny lucky you for getting to start buying things all over, how exciting! There is only a 21 month age gap between my two boys so he's getting all the hand me downs, which is kinda nice in a way, we get to save lots of money on clothing. I'm also using the same nursery for lo since its already been set up but never slept in since ds1 slept with us since birth.

I'm hoping for a girl next we have agreed to buy a house once I get pregnant with baby no. 3 since so I can decorate her nursery and buy girly stuff.