"Hedgewitch Fertility Spell Support Thread"

[caz & bob]

jo glad your home now good nudger xxxxxxxx

 

[moggymay]

Megg can't wait I'm soooooo excited.

Neg betas... just thought I should update...

It will happen for you honey, maybe this time it didnt but you are young and you have K so you can keep practising and enjoy each other as I KNOW your time will come and I think you will be watching the next Olympics (in my mind it is the mens diving) whilst you giggle at K changing a nappy. I read your news before I did the boys baths and whilst I watched Jack splashing in the bubbles I was thinking bout your results and in my mind there you were giggling at K

 

[Doodar]

Megg can't wait I'm soooooo excited.

Neg betas... just thought I should update...

It will happen for you honey, maybe this time it didnt but you are young and you have K so you can keep practising and enjoy each other as I KNOW your time will come and I think you will be watching the next Olympics (in my mind it is the mens diving) whilst you giggle at K changing a nappy. I read your news before I did the boys baths and whilst I watched Jack splashing in the bubbles I was thinking bout your results and in my mind there you were giggling at K

Awwww cute.x

 

[Doodar]

Well I have trimmed my lady garden (I'm sure you all wanted to know that) ready for egg collection tomorrow and I have to say I am totally s***ing myself, be glad when it's over. Not had a phone call from the clinic as promised today so I am a bit peeved about that. I am guessing either they are thawing the sperm overnight or tomorrow morning.

 

[moggymay]

Vicks good luck tomorow, will be thinking of you

 

[Megg33k]

Megg can't wait I'm soooooo excited.

Neg betas... just thought I should update...

It will happen for you honey, maybe this time it didnt but you are young and you have K so you can keep practising and enjoy each other as I KNOW your time will come and I think you will be watching the next Olympics (in my mind it is the mens diving) whilst you giggle at K changing a nappy. I read your news before I did the boys baths and whilst I watched Jack splashing in the bubbles I was thinking bout your results and in my mind there you were giggling at K

That's a cute image. I can't quite comprehend any reason we'd EVER watch the Olympics... We both HATE them... But I'll watch them if it will help! Just checked... Next Summer Olympics is Summer 2012... Well, I guess I'd rather it happen sometime in the future than never... Although, I don't think I'm willing to try for another year. I don't think I can handle another year of heartbreak.

Well I have trimmed my lady garden (I'm sure you all wanted to know that) ready for egg collection tomorrow and I have to say I am totally s***ing myself, be glad when it's over. Not had a phone call from the clinic as promised today so I am a bit peeved about that. I am guessing either they are thawing the sperm overnight or tomorrow morning.

Let me know how the EC goes, yeah? I'll be thinking of you... and I'm sort of tossing around jumping straight in to IVF.

 

[MissyMojo]

 

[hedgewitch]

morning all, hope we are all well,
Vicky good luck today, i am sure all will be fine,xx
Jo glad you are home now, take it easy,xx
Patty not had any mesg's from you, hope you and the amily are well, send me a msg via blackberry,xx
Megg, don't give up yet sweetie, keep those spirits high, it WILL happen!!,xx
Linds, any idea whats going on with cycle yet?xx
to everyone else howdy, hope ypu are all keeping well,xx

so i am 33 weeks today and in a dilemma
i am full of the flu at the min so feeling rather lousy to e honest, just want to crawl in bed and stay there lol. had a big scan yesterday and Lil Miss is weighing in at 5lb 3oz and measuring 34 weeks 3 days which is freaky as they are the exact measurements and gestation that LM was when she died. i am sure she will weigh less than that though as the morning LM died her scan said she was 6lb 7oz and she was only 5lb 3oz so there was a big difference but i am thinking she is over 4lb at least. blood flow looking good and no cord around neck or face.
so got 3 major scans this week aswell as my cyg monitoring then next week again big scan mon and wed then have to decide if we are pulling her out on the thursday (7th) or going to chance leaving her in for a little longer which to be honest is a very difficult decision to make, as we have been given the choice to have her when we want anytime between 7th and the 21st, we have been trying to make it now for 3 weeks and my consultant is looking for our answer next week and i don't know what to do for the best, see i think 34 weeks is too early and she would be better off in there for a little longer as she won't need SCBU for as long but then if i say yes leave her in and something goes wrong i would never forgive myself so i just really am stuck so opinions gratefully received.
i can't believe i may have my daughter in a week and 2 days....thats some crazy sh*t!!!xxx

 

[Megg33k]

First, congrats on 33 weeks! As far as the decision... I would personally have a hard time leaving her be... Her chances are good at 34 weeks, are they not? I mean, 36 is technically term. So, I would probably be more confident in her receiving her care outside the womb where she can be seen at all times and not worrying between scans and wondering "what if"... But, I've never been in any such situation... So, I'm only saying what I BELIEVE I would do!

 

[WhisperOfHope]

morning all, hope we are all well,
Vicky good luck today, i am sure all will be fine,xx
Jo glad you are home now, take it easy,xx
Patty not had any mesg's from you, hope you and the amily are wellme a msg via blackberry,xx
Megg, don't give up yet sweetie, keep those spirits high, it WILL happen!!,xx
Linds, any idea whats going on with cycle yet?xx
to everyone else howdy, hope ypu are all keeping well,xx

so i am 33 weeks today and in a dilemma
i am full of the flu at the min so feeling rather lousy to e honest, just want to crawl in bed and stay there lol. had a big scan yesterday and Lil Miss is weighing in at 5lb 3oz and measuring 34 weeks 3 days which is freaky as they are the exact measurements and gestation that LM was when she died. i am sure she will weigh less than that though as the morning LM died her scan said she was 6lb 7oz and she was only 5lb 3oz so there was a big difference but i am thinking she is over 4lb at least. blood flow looking good and no cord around neck or face.
so got 3 major scans this week aswell as my cyg monitoring then next week again big scan mon and wed then have to decide if we are pulling her out on the thursday (7th) or going to chance leaving her in for a little longer which to be honest is a very difficult decision to make, as we have been given the choice to have her when we want anytime between 7th and the 21st, we have been trying to make it now for 3 weeks and my consultant is looking for our answer next week and i don't know what to do for the best, see i think 34 weeks is too early and she would be better off in there for a little longer as she won't need SCBU for as long but then if i say yes leave her in and something goes wrong i would never forgive myself so i just really am stuck so opinions gratefully received.
i can't believe i may have my daughter in a week and 2 days....thats some crazy sh*t!!!xxx

you know whati think hunni no idea whats going on with my cycles alough the pain from yest has now gone so maybe just maybe that was the big and powerful ov i hear so much about?

 

[moggymay]

Sam - I had my Sam at 35 weeks and no scbu! Only thing is Aggie wont have had all her womb lessons eg feeding properly so you have to teach her the bf suck/latch rather than suckle/chew mummys nipple. If you think about it term is 37 weeks so after that its only extra credit and chubbing up. Go with your instincts, they have been right this far and last time so go with your gut and your heart I believe you will make the right decision!

 

[MissyMojo]

hey all round x

Sam - i think i would be inclined to ask to have her out, as megg said, she an be watched like a hawk on the outside, x and you've had a course of ssteriods already to help boost her lungs x

 

[caz & bob]

ladies how are you all carnt wait for Tuesday to see my fs whooppppp sam i would ask for here out hun xxxxx

 

[Doodar]

Hi Ladies just a quick update. I will pop back later to read posts.

Back from my egg collection and I got 15 eggs and even better we have twitching sperm I CANNOT BELIEVE IT. I know its not ideal but at least its twtiching which is more than it was before it was frozen. Clinic will phone later to let us know how both eggs and sperm are doing.

Speak later girls I'm going for a lie down. x

 

[Megg33k]

Awesome, Caz! Let us know how you get on!!!

SPECTACULAR!!! Vickie! I'm SO happy for you! Twitching is actually amazing, all things considered! Can't wait to hear about fertilization!

Our 1st IVF cycle starts Nov 1.

 

[MissyMojo]

whoo hoo Vickie amd meg wishing you all the best for ur ivf x

 

[moggymay]

its a good day today!

 

[Doodar]

Sam hunny such a big decision to make. I bet it's such a heavy weight on your shoulders. I am inclined to agree with the others and bring her out or could they maybe keep you in for a few weeks to monitor you more closer, that way she could stay in for a little longer and your in the right place should she need to be delivered quickly.

 

[Doodar]

Had a call from the clinic and 14 of the 15 eggs were mature enough to use and all 14 were injected with moving sperm. I CANNOT BELIEVE IT!!! and they only thawed one straw of sperm, we still have 3 in the freezer. So what was all the fuss about, I don't know. After all that negativity following the ssr I was ready to give up before I even started and the fact that they only thawed one straw when I was told they would have to thaw all 4 just find a few sperm and even then they may not survive. I'm just made up to have got this far. I can't wait for tomorrows phone call to see how many have fertilized.

 

[nikki-lou25]

Megg - Yay on having a date for starting IVF hun, sorry the IUI didnt work out though

Sam - I am inclined to say go with the 7th too. My neice was born at 33 wks and she is now a boistrous 6 year old! Go with your instincts though We're all rooting for you and witchlette Aggie and Lilly-Maye will be lookin out for her too I'm sure!