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30 minutes!
30 minutes or so after I reached full dilation and was told to start pushing. Labor itself was 24 hours though.
I always assumed the pain would be worst as the baby was coming out but, to my surprise, that is not the case. The worst pain is caused by the contractions! Not by the baby as he's coming out.
I recently found a research paper that stated that there is a gene that either protects people from experiencing a [very] painful labor, or not. People who have this gene are thought to be the ones who get to the hospital last minute (i.e. already dilated and ready to push). Those who are heterozygous for it, have it so-so. And those who lack the gene altogether can expect to have extremely painful contractions.
I assume I am the latter, since my contractions became very painful within a very short time, but thankfully the epidural did the trick. You should definintely ask for one if the pain of the contractions becomes unbearable.
I know some women frown upon pain relief but that's because they're unaware of the fact that people do not experience the same amount or level of pain during contractions, as proven now by science. If I had had a remotely tolerable level of pain, I would have gone without it, too.
Good luck!