motherofboys
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I save from January too.
I truly believe no one should be made to feel bad for what they spend. Everyone says big budgets will make those who can't afford a lot feel bad, but then they try to make people with bigger budgets feel that they are creating spoilt brats who won't appreciate anything. I think if you raise them right all year then no matter what you spend on Christmas they will be grateful. And we all know that no matter how many gifts they get, the day you create and the memories you make are the things that will matter down the line.
Besides, I just can't help myself. My fingers are constantly slipping whilst on shopping sites ha ha
Couldnt agree more my boys would never demand anything or show no appreciation for what they get, alot of the stuff my boys get they dont even asked for this year Dec wants a laptop, thats all, Dan wants an xbox, neither of them have asked for anything else, I just have a slippery finger too
Ds1 and 2 rarely ask for anything. DS1 when asked will list a couple of bits. Mostly books and video games although those can add up, it's never a long list. DS2 last year asked for surprises and this year has said he doesn't know. Ds3 puts lots on his list, but he doesn't expect it all and everything he opens he shouts yay that's exactly what I wanted! Even if he never asked for it, and isn't faking as he wants it out to play with right away.