Hurry up BFPs!!! We are ready when you are :-)

[HappilyTTC]

Hey!

I have not tested yet since I am only 6DPO... I am going to test on the 2nd since I feel that one will be the most accurate. I MIGHT test on the 30th, though, because it could come out positive that day maybe...

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Not long to wait now happily! I bet u cant wait until this loooong wait is finally over. I hope u get a bfp. I would test on 1st if af doesnt come. I got my bfp on 1st feb so i feel the 1st of the month is lucky for me xxx

 

[HappilyTTC]

@MrsB: That sounds like a good day! I was engaged on September 1 of last year, so maybe September 1 is my lucky day!!!

 

[sarahkr]

Sarah - sometimes u get used to clomid and need a higher dose to ovulate. Xxx

Nina - sorting a house does take ages. Congrats on the move. I hope u catch that egg xxx

Cath have u tested this morning? Xxx

Happily have u tested or anything? Xxx

I hope everyone is ok xxx

i understand that you get immune to things, but are you ovulating? have you been getting cross hairs etc?? i dont understand why or whats made you think its not working???
cmc hun, no i haven't moved yet, i've given notice, so i will be packing up this month to be out by the 28th... honestly, i've been a right bitch, the past few days, i have bitten everyones head off i dont know why? i guess its the thought of it...
cath have you tested? you aint been on, so thats either a good sign, or a bad?
xxxxxxx

 

[xxDreamxx]

Sarah - I know with me, my body would show all the signs of surging (+opks) even increased hormones on blood tests but didn't actually release the egg. I was tried on a low dose the first cycle and I ovulated but the next cycle if I had, had one wasn't guaranteed on the same level.... It's something the Drs have to monitor and adjust from time to time

 

[sarahkr]

Sarah - I know with me, my body would show all the signs of surging (+opks) even increased hormones on blood tests but didn't actually release the egg. I was tried on a low dose the first cycle and I ovulated but the next cycle if I had, had one wasn't guaranteed on the same level.... It's something the Drs have to monitor and adjust from time to time

ahhh i get ya, why does it wear off or something, so what made you know it only worked for one cycle hun? being monitored?? xxxx

 

[xxDreamxx]

I had various blood tests cycle to cycle and tracking of ovulation which showed over consecutive months that I surged but didn't get high enough hormonally to release an egg. Also, not every follicle with have an egg in it, so if they see follicles on a scan, it doesn't necessarily mean that there are eggs in all of them.

They think the only reason I ovulated on my own recently was due to the loss.... it forced my body into a "fertile" period. No one was more shocked than my Fertility Specialist....because I have just had all my hormone tests re done in advance of starting IVF.

For me though, I was on FSH rather than Clomid. I asked about Clomid but they thought with Hubby's issues as well as my own, that FSH and Assisted Conception was the way to go.

 

[ece77]

Morning ladies,

Cath - How are you hun? Your chart seems very promising. Hope those evaps turn to strong BFPs!

Sarah - Trying to manage too many things at the same time can make your head explode. I'd say try to relax and take one at a time; but I know from personal experience that it's just useless advice! Still time seems to be the answer to everything.

Nina - As you say, the house will settle in some time. I know it took months for us . With a tight working schedule it's more than normal. And yay for the +OPK

LL84 - 4 weeks will pass dear. If you heal well before you start TTC again, the little bean will settle him/herself on a more comfortable cushion I guess

cmc - It's really tough trying to hide from family, isn't it? The good thing is, our parents are in the summer houses right now so we just talk on the phone, which is easier. Sorry you're so tired . But as MrsBP says, any symptom is a good sign. I was praying to have nausea in my last pregnancy.

Happily - I'd be too tempted to test on September 1st. FX!

All the others - Hope you're well...

AFM - I'm testing every morning frantically. I know I'm supposed to stop but just can't help myself. The test line seems to be getting darker but not very rapidly. I've seen women publish daily test photos and they seem to be getting fatter much more quickly than mine! I guess I'll do a blood hcg & progesterone on Friday, when I'll be 15 DPO!

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Ece77 try not to worry about the darkness of the line, especially as u got your bfp so early, it will just take time. Maybe test again on the 1st like us!

Sarah. When i was charting before i was put on clomid, i still got crosshairs but wasnt ovulating. I havent had any scans or bloods whilst on clomid so dont actually know whats going on lol. Only know it did make me ovulate before coz i got my bfp but that could of been a one off perhaps. Anyway, once i get back to FS then i will get sorted and know more of whats going on lol.

Cath where ru????? Lol Xxx

 

[Nina83]

MrsB-((snuggle))

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thanks Nina.
How are u hun? Xxx

 

[Nina83]

Thanks Nina.
How are u hun? Xxx

I just want to give you a big hug.

I hope I ovulated yesterday. CM is a bit creamy and I got a slight rise in temps. cervix is still high and super soft. I'm also getting O pains.
I have a doctors appointment this evening, but don't think I'll go. I don't want to sit in his waiting room, and I don't want to beg him for tests. I think I'm starting to think that if there's anything wrong we'll just find out if there's a 3rd MC. I'm starting to believe that the baths I took caused the MC. they were taken right before each MC. It's easier to convince myself that, and makes me feel less worried that there might actually be something wrong.
I had a good cry last night, I have this feeling I'm slowly giving up, and the only reason I wince when I see a pregnant lady is because of the reminder.
I never thought my body would betray me like this. The hole in my heart is just way too big.

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Aww Nina, i think we both need a hug. U need to try your best to be positive. I know u will get your rainbow baby in your arms one day. It just takes some if us longer than others. What do u mean u blame having a bath?
I know october will be here soon but i will cheat and change the thread title to bfp by xmas to give us more time xxx

 

[ece77]

Ece77 try not to worry about the darkness of the line, especially as u got your bfp so early, it will just take time. Maybe test again on the 1st like us!

That would be wonderful but I'm not sure I can hold myself that long . Besides we'll be visiting my FIL for the weekend so I wouldn't want to get caught with a cup of pee in my hand

 

[Nina83]

I totally forgot about the first bath.
When I was about 7 weeks, we were at my moms house and I took a hot bath. A week later we discovered the baby had stopped developing at around the same time- 7+2.
The second pregnancy I took a hot bath when we were on vacation- at 4+ weeks. We discovered the baby had stopped developing at around 4-5 weeks.
One time could be bad luck- but twice...?
I don't want to cheat- I want us all to get a BFP by October. Maybe we'll cheat by one month- BFP during October is accepted as well

 

[Nina83]

ece- stop testing!!!

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Ece77 u will have to wait til next monday then . Dont want u being forced to drink your wee when u are trying to hide the fact its not a real drink in your cup.

Nina please dont worry about the baths. I had a hot bath before i got my bfp and when things started to look wrong on my scans i asked if i could of effected things by having a hot bath. The fetal medicine doctor said he had never heard of that effecting anything before and not to believe everything u read online xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Yes bfp during october counts too.....so 2 more months! X

 

[HappilyTTC]

Nina:

We are all going to get a by October. I just know it.

When you think your body has portrayed you, hard as it may seem, try to think that it did exactly what it needed to do because maybe the baby you were pregnant with wasn't healthy enough to sustain life in this world. Those MCs are just getting your body ready for the right baby, the right soul, at the right time. YOUR right baby is on its way to you.

We all need to keep believing that, girls. Our rainbow is going to come when we least expect it, just like our significant others did- at the right time and the right one for us.

 

[Nina83]

We all need to keep believing that, girls. Our rainbow is going to come when we least expect it, just like our significant others did- at the right time and the right one for us.

I love what you said