I am seeking a TTC buddy..Any1???

[texas]

Hello ladies,

I have been workin and Ihave no internet access on my cell phne and I hate to pull up stuff on my work computer... but im at home tryin to catch up...

Pip - Sorry Af showed up, but im sure next cycle we will all have some excitement waitin to pee on lots of sticks!!!!! Speakin of that I need to order me some internet cheapies cause i spent like $50 on FR and CB digi's...

SuperKat- is this your first cyc after your loss that you are waiting for???
I also feel you on the alcohol subject, I have been wanting a hurricane

Mrs.Wells- Glad to hear your gettin anther Dr,cause she would have me second guessing everything she told me, I like a Dr, thats confident in what there about to tell me. Im gettin ready for my 2 week check up and I'm kinda dreadin it b-cuz theres gonna be lots of prego ladies and i wanna be one of them...

Tasha- Hello im sorry to hear about your loss but Im hoping we can all get to those BFP's together. we can be PAL's (Pregnant at Last)

Jbo- So you just finished your cycle? Did you ever get the digi OPK's? Sounds like we might have a few ladies testing around New Years!!!

Well my bleeding has stopped after 2 weeks soo now Im just waitin for my 1st AF,but in the meantime I have been doin OPK's -im probably wasting money but im hoping to see a smiley face on that thing!!!!! also takin prenatal vitamins--- what is everybody else doin to prepare for our little bundles????

 

[jbolady]

Texas yes I'm on CD 12, I ordered some OPKs they're not digital(cheapies) and I think they are bad test because there are lines all over the things and they look old. I like PAL's that a cute name. I'm still taking prenatal vitamins and vitex also.

 

[Tasha16]

Tasha are you taking the aspirin because the Dr. told you to?

Yes I have had loads of tests done and everything is ok so they said it is worth trying, If it doesn't help next time I'm preggo they will then send me to a specialist hospital that looks into recurrent MC Xx

 

[jbolady]

Tasha, I asked because my Doc told me to stay away from Aspirin and just recently I've been hearing thats its being encouraged. I'm sure your Doc knows best though.

How is everyone doing today?? I have a question, is there anything extra you guys are doing to conceive? The reason I ask is because where I'm from (Louisiana) there are certain things that are said to increase the chances of conceiving. Also I know there are some Feng Shui practices that are said to help too. For instance keeping a Lucky Bambo Plant(w/more than 1 stem) in the Bedroom, and placing a Baby item under the Bed etc. It could be coincidence but its worked!! Are any of you familiar with anything?

 

[Tasha16]

it was the consultant at the hospital that told me 2 try it,it is only a low dose tho.. 75mg xx im fed up bcos my period came yesturday so its not happened 4 me yet xx

 

[SuperKat]

Hi girls! How are all of you doing?

I've been trying to avoid this website for a couple of days, I am trying not to obsess too much over getting pg this month- I am pretty convinced we missed the fertile window while the dh was out of town, so, thinking about how I am feeling is just frustrating (I have been getting sore BBs and light crampiing, heartburn...basically most of the symptoms I had when pg, only without the baby *sigh*).

So- I haven't had my first period since the MMC yet...I was assuming day 1 of my cycle would have been the day of the D&C, but- would it actually be the day that everything (all tissue, etc) passed? I think some of the stuff was left in there and i believe it all completely passed on Nov. 26...so would the 26th be day 1 of my cycle? *sigh* If so, then I still have another 8 days to test...that also changes my fertility window, and would make more sense because i have major EWCM around the 9th, which would be 14 days after the 26th. ....which also means I missed the window to conceive this month cause that is when dh was out of the state. So frustrating!

tasha- I'm sorry it hasn't happened yet =( hang in there!

Jbo-I'm not doing anything extra other than taking my prenatals and B vitamins. I've never heard of the things you mentioned- i think I have a couple of baby dolls under my bed...they all belong to my daughter though

texas- yay for the stopped bleeding! I hope you see that smiley face soon!

It's almost Friday...any of you have any fun plans? i am hoping to stay off the computer this weekend...hopefully a date night with the hubby, some christmas shopping...and a christmas party....I need my spirits lifted. I have been incredibly cranky lately!!!

 

[Mrs.Wells]

I have been having similar symptoms like you too Kat. I feel like I no longer know my body. I have been having uterine twitching, strange stretching feeling from my belly button down, cramping, and bloating, but no other symptom like nausea or sore BBs. I took a EPT and while it was not the first one since the MC it was the first one where I was hoping for a different result. I too have not gotten my first AF since the MC and so I then thought, well maybe I am ovulating hence the pain, but alas the OPKs didn't even have a faint line...nothing. I am just frustrated being in this in-between place.
I didn't have a D&C, but I counted the first day, as the day I started bleeding. My bleeding was really heavy and red, but some people spot before the red blood, and they count the red blood as CD1. So I am not sure for you honestly. If I count mine from the day I started bleeding I am CD39! I either want my AF or a BFP. But SOMETHING!!

As for helping the process alone, I am not doing too much differently than you all. OPK's and prenatal vitamins.

 

[jbolady]

I have plans on finishing up my X-Mas shopping and date nite would be great right about now all this BDing is making me feel so used and abused. I'm also convinced I have an internet addiction so I need to get out and step away from the Laptop. I'm having crazy symptoms as well Ladies. I am starting to thinks its just in my head though I'm not feeling the ovulation pains at all. I'm having these small shooting pains in my sides, I don't know whats going with this old body of mine.

Can we create a Group?

 

[texas]

I know how you feel Kat and Mrs.Wells, ready just to have a cycle and start really counting down to those 2 week waits!!!!

Fertilityfriend has my cycle day 1 as the day i began to MC so according to that i am on CD 17 Im guessin I wont see a period for anther 2-3 weeks,since it looks like the average is about 4-5 weeks for the return of your reg cyc...

I have to back away from the PC sometimes myself cause I over obsess and then i start reading all the stories and think OMG thats gonna happen to me and then i start doin more google searchin and its just not pretty!!!! So I am only tryin to get online every few days are so to catch up.

But have fun at the x-mas party!! Im gonna try to get the rest of this X-mas shoppin done.

 

[texas]

Hey JBO if u figure out how to create a group let me know and I shall follow...

 

[SuperKat]

LOL ah, you girls are so awesome, you all sound so much like me!

i think I have an internet addiction too jbo!!! LOL

As far as a group goes, i know how we can create one on facebook, a private group- I don't know if you girls have a facebook, but it might be convenient. I try not to come to this site too often because I can't help but wander into other forums...reading all the sad stuff, then I get depressed and feel sad...or I wander to the first trimester forum and really feel sorry for myself...*sigh*...LOL.

If you girls are interested in that facebook group you can PM me the link to your page and I will friend request you all and create a group, just let me know =)




soooo......I am wondering if I would be totally disappointing myself if I gave in and tested tomorrow. Ugh. I should be starting this weekend sometime if my cycles are on track (not likely, i know). But I got a FRER test, that goes up to 6 days in advance...so...I am thinking that if i did it this month it would show up...(from dtd Dec. 2nd or Dec 13th). Hrmm. I will try my hardest not to...but I don't know if i can help myself.

I skipped roller derby practice today. Are any of you having a hard time getting your life back on track after readjusting to not being pregnant?? I can't seem to stop acting like I am (like taking it easy and stuff...not skating, etc). I guess I am doing that in some areas, but not others (I have had a few drinks...lol).

Good luck with your shopping everyone! If you girls do avoid the internet this weekend, then I hope you have a wonderful one!!!

 

[SuperKat]

okay, I created a group, so if you girls are interested in joining up, send me a PM and I will send you the information on how to get to it! =)

 

[Tasha16]

Kat I know what you mean I was going to the gym before I got pregnant but just cannot get back into it and its been two months since my last mc. I don't have a facebook so I can't join your group

I also had a drink at the weekend, I just think sometimes we need to chill and not stress about it. I know I think about it too much sometimes and I don't think it helps me Xx

I agree the internet is very addictive LOL

 

[pip101]

Hey Tasha
shame you haventgot fb! But hows things going anyway??? what day are you on??? I o'd over christmas so hoping for BFP on the 8th........

 

[Mom23monkies]

I have three kids and three more mcs under my belt I will start my ttc cycle January 6th ish

 

[jbolady]

Hi Mom23monkies I have 3 kids with 2 m/c under my belt so I we are sorta in the same boat. I am due for AF today or tomorrow, so I'm playing the waiting game..

 

[Mom23monkies]

Hi Mom23monkies I have 3 kids with 2 m/c under my belt so I we are sorta in the same boat. I am due for AF today or tomorrow, so I'm playing the waiting game..

Well good luck!!!!!
I didnt ttc this cycle I officially start again with January's af

 

[Tasha16]

Hey Tasha
shame you haventgot fb! But hows things going anyway??? what day are you on??? I o'd over christmas so hoping for BFP on the 8th........

Hey pip im on cd19 so due on very soon, usually between cd21-25. I have my fx 4 u hun x x

 

[jbolady]

Tasha how is it going for you?