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Thanks everyone. I know it's better to be alone . Ive felt like I would rather have baby to myself to love and give a good life then to let him do to the baby what he's done to me..
UPDATE: he's gone.. He left a little bit ago.. I asked him to not come back. He tried crying and blah blah but he's gone now.. I'm hoping he doesn't come back. I have school in the morning, I told my best friend I have to tal to her about stuff and asked if shed help me with some stuff and she's 100% there so in going to have her come over to help me. I just hate that my mom was right.. This all sucks.. I know I can be a strong independent women. I haven't been single in so long that I think that scares me.. Thank you all for being there when I needed friends.
Thank you hun
UPDATE: I just told my two best friends what happened.. I told them if I go to them and say anything about him, him putting his hands on me, or anything else about him an me that they have to promise me to help get away from him. They said if I promise to go to them with anything they're morer then happy to help because they know I don't need to be around that and they've both been abused sexually an physically..
UPDATE: he's gone.. He left a little bit ago.. I asked him to not come back. He tried crying and blah blah but he's gone now.. I'm hoping he doesn't come back. I have school in the morning, I told my best friend I have to tal to her about stuff and asked if shed help me with some stuff and she's 100% there so in going to have her come over to help me. I just hate that my mom was right.. This all sucks.. I know I can be a strong independent women. I haven't been single in so long that I think that scares me.. Thank you all for being there when I needed friends.
I would strongly suggest you contact the police. I'm not sure if you are aware, but if he fights you for custody or visitation in the future (and he probably will, realistically) then you will not be able to bring up any of the abuse that occurred in your relationship. No report, no record, no arrest or conviction = no abuse, in the eyes of the court. End of. So please consider this.
Getting away from him now is obviously very important, but you need to protect yourself and your child in the future too.