Topanga, you've got a lovely attitude about it all. I wish I could be so calm. Maybe, if this cycle is a bust, I will be. I swear, I'm wearing myself out with it all, and it's only my first cycle ttc after my ep! I really admire your approach this month! Keep it up!
Hehe I should read this to DH... he'd never believe it!
He always has to listen all of the whining and crying that goes on behind the scenes. Trust me, I'm wearing myself out too! As the months go on, I notice that I'm happy and content early to mid cycle (because I'm optimistic that it might happen this month), anxious toward the end, and then horribly depressed when AF comes and another month has gone by without a BFP. It's an awful cycle and I just happen to be in the good part of the cycle now. ;-) My focus this month is on trying not to completely crash emotionally if I get another BFN. What exhausting work TTC can be!!!!
I feel the same way, Topanga! Right now I'm in the bummed out phase, having just passed the anxious. TTC is exhausting and such a rollercoaster of emotions. If I wasn't such a control freak, I'd say to hell with it all and just leave it to chance. In fact, that was what happened with both my pregnancies - I wasn't trying. But I can't HELP but notice ewcm, or what day I'm at in my cycle. I can't just NOT pee on sticks, not when I have a huge stash of them in my drawer and they're so cheap on Amazon!
Don't forget our hormones contribute to making us all feel so up and down too. I think one of many things we all share is that we all think of ourselves as just a little crazy and obsessed! That's why this works, we understand where each other is coming from
So true! I find it both crazy and wonderful that I can discuss my cervical mucus with people I have never met face to face and, rather than cover your ears and shout "eek, TMI!" as you run from the room, you fabulous ladies are more than willing to analyze the quantity of my cm with me, tell me about your own, and advise me on the most opportune moments to have sex with my husband. It's so great to be able to share my obsession, my excitement, my grief, and my pain with like-minded women and not feel ostracized, but understood by them, for they share the same obsession, excitement, grief, and pain.
How lonely this TTC journey must have been before the Internet!
Bluebird - Hpts can just break your heart, can't they? I wish they were more reliable at measuring quants. I'm happy to share my experience with you; I remember how confused and frustrated I was when I'd see a barely-there line, and then, two days later, a clear, pink line.
Hmmm...my opks were bizarre for awhile too. I just started opks last month, but they were almost positive looking all the time during that cycle. I think my hormones were still screwy. Yours are probably positive because you still have hcg in your system. Maybe you're using a super sensitive kind? Which do you use? I used babi onestep from Amazon and they seem very sensitive compared to the wondfos, which are less so.
I have the cbfm too! I just got it (used off ebay) and I got a peak my first cycle (this one). I was so excited I took a picture, for whom I don't know. I guess myself so I can look back and see that little egg picture. I also have a bad habit of using the sticks as regular opks because I like to watch my estrogen do things and analyze the lines. When my temp dipped and I had that spotting two days ago, I used a clearblue stick and my estrogen line was much lighter than the day before, meaning it was higher.
I think, given the cbfm reading, you may be gearing up to o now. How long have you been using the sticks/monitor this cycle? Is this the first high reading you've gotten?
AFM - Well, ladies, I'm feeling pretty discouraged. I took a FRER today (couldn't wait! I'm an addict!) and it was clearly a BFN. No amount of light could reveal a line. I even took the test apart. Nothing. Now, I know FRERs have been sensitive enough to pick up a beta hcg of 3, because that was my level when I used one as I watched my levels declining after my ectopic. So, you'd think if I had implantation bleeding/ temp dip two days ago, my level would at least be a three now. Plus, I have NO symptoms. I really feel like I'm out this cycle, which is disheartening because our timing was so good.
When I got pregnant with my dd, I had only bd ONCE that month. When I got pregnant with my ectopic, I had bronchitis and didn't even think I had ovulated yet. My temps were erratic and I just took a hpt for kicks. Why could I get pregnant those times, but not when I time everything just right? I know I'm not officially "out" yet, but I just don't feel it this time, you know? I hate to be such a Negative Nancy, but I'm feeling pretty let down.