ICSI/IVF/FET October/November Buddies wanted!!

[star25]

Hi psalm, good to hear from you, how are you?

I hope everyone has a merry Christmas, wherever we are in our aim in our bfps, just remember we will all get there and we will have our babies
In the meantime let's all enjoy this Christmas and the time we get to spend with our families ( even if in between work!) we all deserve a happy Christmas with our miracles to look forward to xxxxx

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

Hi everybody, not sure if you remember me or my face (!) but I've been a bit MIA, congratulations to those with BFPs and I'm so sorry to those, who, like me, are still waiting.

I personally cannot wait to see the back of 2014. 2015 just has to be our year right?

Two failed transfers later, so much money down the drain, and the specialist wants to do another hysteroscopy to check out my uterus as she is very surprised I'm not pregnant yet. Well, me too lady!

I just wanted to make sure no one else feels alone, I'm here with you too, this is a hard time of year xx

 

[Ostara84]

Hi tuesdaysbaby, hope you're had a good Christmas. I found out last Friday that my FET (2nd cycle) didn't work, so my Christmas has been horrible. Also found out yesterday that one of my friends (in RL, not online) who was going through her second ivf cycle a week behind mine is pregnant. I am absolutely over the moon for her because I wouldn't wish this sadness on anyone, but it made my day a little bit more difficult. I mean, why did they get their Christmas miracle and not us?

Looks like we're in similar positions. Two failed cycles and now I have an appointment to discuss a hysteroscopy before we try again. I have trouble getting my lining to thicken, so we're hoping the hysteroscopy will give us some answers.

I know what you mean though - I'm ready for 2014 to be over!

 

[star25]

Hi again Tuesdaybaby, we never forget a face
Sorry your fet was a bfn, so hard doing this close to Christmas, I'm waiting for my fet about mid Feb so could have same timings
I cant wait to start, hope we all get our bfps for 2015 xx

 

[beneathmywing]

Hi everybody, not sure if you remember me or my face (!) but I've been a bit MIA, congratulations to those with BFPs and I'm so sorry to those, who, like me, are still waiting.

I personally cannot wait to see the back of 2014. 2015 just has to be our year right?

Two failed transfers later, so much money down the drain, and the specialist wants to do another hysteroscopy to check out my uterus as she is very surprised I'm not pregnant yet. Well, me too lady!

I just wanted to make sure no one else feels alone, I'm here with you too, this is a hard time of year xx

Hey, girlie!! Hope 2015 is our year! Sorry to hear about the failed fet

 

[Lazydaisys]

Sorry for people's bfn also. Im happy to leave 2014 behind also. 4 failed iuis, one failed ivf, one failed fet. Ready for new fet. I go for lining check scan on nye. Here's to 2015 xx

 

[Jungleland]

I'm definitely on board with this thinking girls, I had all 3 of my failed ivfs in 2014, good riddance!

 

[star25]

Af is finally here CD54 ,now can book scratch and get on with fet next cycle!

 

[beneathmywing]

I agree girls, four failed iui's, one failed ivf, one canceled ivf, to hell with 2014!!!!

 

[3chords]

Totally agree with all of you!

Two failed IUIs.
One "successful" IVF that lead to a miscarriage at 10w4d.
Another IVF that resulted in a freeze-all cycle due to OHSS.

Goodbye 2014, you won't be missed!

 

[chimmi]

I can't wait to see the back of 2014 either. I love a new year and a new start and the hope that it brings.
I had this stupid feeling that 2014 was shit for us because we didn't "welcome" it (lol) we usually go out and party etc to celebrate the new year, but last new year we stayed home and watched TV..
This year we are planning on driving to a look out point above our town and watching the midnight fireworks (in our new car, with our dog and a blanket) and then lighting a Chinese lantern (I bought it for my hubbyfor our 1st anniversary) I feel it's a good time to light it and might be symbolic.. Here's to 2015 I hope it's a good one for all of us x

 

[harley81]

My cycle has ended with a chemical , just debating whether to go again for one last fet. Might do and see if they will transfer the remaining 2 if we sign a waiver saying we're aware of the risks x

 

[beneathmywing]

I can't wait to see the back of 2014 either. I love a new year and a new start and the hope that it brings.
I had this stupid feeling that 2014 was shit for us because we didn't "welcome" it (lol) we usually go out and party etc to celebrate the new year, but last new year we stayed home and watched TV..
This year we are planning on driving to a look out point above our town and watching the midnight fireworks (in our new car, with our dog and a blanket) and then lighting a Chinese lantern (I bought it for my hubbyfor our 1st anniversary) I feel it's a good time to light it and might be symbolic.. Here's to 2015 I hope it's a good one for all of us x

That sounds so nice!!!! DH and I are partying the new year in -- we are going to a NYE party at a catering hall. We did the same last year though, but at midnight I cried like a baby because that year we had started ttc, it was 8 months in, no bfp, and I just knew something was wrong and just knew 2014 was going to be a tough one. That it was!

This year, I want to think of happy things 2015 will bring instead of dwell on all the bad. Or atleast I will try.

 

[star25]

So sorry Harley, when will you find out about fet? Sending hugs xx

 

[kaye]

Hi ladies

sorry to see all the bfn results. Rubbish.

I can't wait for 2015. Finally we are on the move with our journey. Booked in for scratch 12th Jan and then due af on 16/17th jan and I should start injections on cd2. So excited/nervous and scared all at the same time.

Here's hoping 2015 is a good year for us all xx

 

[beneathmywing]

Hi ladies

sorry to see all the bfn results. Rubbish.

I can't wait for 2015. Finally we are on the move with our journey. Booked in for scratch 12th Jan and then due af on 16/17th jan and I should start injections on cd2. So excited/nervous and scared all at the same time.

Here's hoping 2015 is a good year for us all xx

Hi, girlie! I have a scratched booked in for the 9th and then whenever af shows I will start on cd2 as well! We have a nice bunch in here, hope this thread ends up super lucky!

 

[kaye]

Hi ladies

sorry to see all the bfn results. Rubbish.

I can't wait for 2015. Finally we are on the move with our journey. Booked in for scratch 12th Jan and then due af on 16/17th jan and I should start injections on cd2. So excited/nervous and scared all at the same time.

Here's hoping 2015 is a good year for us all xx

Hi, girlie! I have a scratched booked in for the 9th and then whenever af shows I will start on cd2 as well! We have a nice bunch in here, hope this thread ends up super lucky!

Oh great were close to each other then. You on short protocol? I feel like it has taken so long to get here! I can't wait now. X

 

[beneathmywing]

Hi ladies

sorry to see all the bfn results. Rubbish.

I can't wait for 2015. Finally we are on the move with our journey. Booked in for scratch 12th Jan and then due af on 16/17th jan and I should start injections on cd2. So excited/nervous and scared all at the same time.

Here's hoping 2015 is a good year for us all xx

Hi, girlie! I have a scratched booked in for the 9th and then whenever af shows I will start on cd2 as well! We have a nice bunch in here, hope this thread ends up super lucky!

Oh great were close to each other then. You on short protocol? I feel like it has taken so long to get here! I can't wait now. X

Yes, I am doing a mini-ivf with low stims.. I start off with Femara for a few days.

Will be here before you know it!

 

[chimmi]

So our follow up appointment was worse than expected...
Were told that hubby's sample that he produced on the day of egg collection last cycle was "the worst yet" and "hardly any aperm seen" in it.. But however they did fertilise 3 eggs from the 4 that injected..
Our next issue I was not expecting and that is that my eggs are "poor quality" doc doesn't know why, could be one off or could be that I was born with them like that. He said there's nothing we can do to improve the quality if that's the case..
So here we are waiting to start out "second last chance" as he put it. I don't have much hope. But I will not give up

 

[Lazydaisys]

I has the same feeling that I didn't welcome last year in. It's defo being welcomed this time!!!! Bring on 2015