is/was your LO a really bad sleeper? support and advise thread!

Ooooh, could be possible then ladies?
I drive,so can go anywhere really.
Perhaps we should all visit MrsHedgehog in Italy for some "proper" coffee or vino LOL!!:winkwink:

oh noo, i'm feeling really jealous!
 
I am jealous every time I read under MrsHedgehogs avvie that she lives in Italy!
 
I'm so tired of being tired. And i'm tired of moaning about being tired. I feel like it takes up the whole of my brain.

:hugs: everyone

^^THIS!!!!

^^ME TOO! And as it turns out my OH is also tired of me being tired and my moaning about being so tired :wacko: lol. But all is well again here, we made up. :)
Do you ladies too feel as though the weeks are just passing in a haze and all you seem to think about is the dread (and hope) of the next night? I cannot believe that my boys are nearly 6 months old and that for the entire time of their lives I have pretty much thought of nothing but sleep and the lack thereof. (I exaggerate but I am sure you know what I mean).

THIS is one of the reasons I get depressed. As I cannot control how good or bad the night sleep is, I spend my days making sure he has decent naps at least. I end up doing nothing else, or avoiding doing things and/or going to places because I worry he will not sleep and will be really cranky afterwards. When he has a short nap, I am already counting the hours until the next one! Sometimes I get so stressed that it feels like I am not enjoying my time with him as much as I should (again, an exaggeration, but you get the idea). I get depressed when I feel that way, because I know than in about a month I'll be at work and will miss him sooooo much!!:cry:
 
Hello! It took me ages to find this thread (well, ok about 3 minutes). How is everyone? Sorry for those having crap sleep still. Cormac has been ill and now won't self settle at bedtime bit he will for naps. I don't understand it. He was up every hour from 7-2 last night and would sleep instantly when he was on me but woke up the second I put him down. Up for the day at 4.45pm. He's perfectly well again now. Yawn.

Tonight we have redone CC and it was horrible. It took 25 mins which is shorter than the first time. but I found it so much harder. I think because I haven't got to desperate levels as I was at when i first did it. But I'm so scared of it becoming like it was before I just can't risk starting the helping him to sleep. i know many don't agree with CC and I am not looking for sympathy at all as it was my decision but I am feeling horrid tonight. Blah. I hate this. I saw how effective it was and how happy and smiley my LO was and it was slipping away as his sleep started turning to sh*t again.

As for my location, I'm close to many of you! I was actually in Basingstoke on Saturday at a children's market. I work in London so can easily get there. My parents live 30 minutes from Tunbridge Wells and I'm often down there. And I live about 50 mins from Woking!

Off to go cry.

Sleepy dust babies xx
 
Aww! :hugs: I am obsessing a lil with their naps too but if I ever needed proof that good naps do not breed good night time sleep then yesterday was my proof (again). They napped extremely well during the day and had 2 hours after lunch even! In the evening I managed to time their last nap so that they were up just over an hour between it and their bed time bottle. And Dom slept atrociously badly last night. Ok so this might be cause of the sleeping bags but then again he slept really well the night before. So what I am saying is that while I won't disregard their nap times I no longer keep so rigorously to them. Today I went shopping with them after their 3pm bottle and though they napped a lil in the supermarket, it certainly was not the hour long nap they should be doing. Hasn't made a difference so far. I had to replug Dom with his dummy just now. So as usual. Maybe you should stop being so careful and just go out when you feel like it with obviously giving him a chance to sleep on the way or there. But becoming your babies' prisoner like that would depress anyone! :hugs:
 
flippityflop I am sorry it is going to pot again. I am not against CC. It isn't for us for a number of reasons but I certainly wouldn't judge anyone negatively for using that method. I can imagine how difficult it must be cause when one of my boys cries my heart is racing till I can get to them. So having to go against that mummy instinct must be very hard. But it did help before so hopefully it will again. Sending lots of hugs of encouragement. :hugs:
 
I totally agree that, at least for mine, good naps doesn't equal good night sleep, but the problem is that when he doesn't nap he gets really cranky and I feel really bad for him (and me!). the other problem is that he rarely sleeps if we go out, or if he does is never a proper long (ish!) nap.
don't know, maybe I should try and relax more...
 
oh, and re. the thread being moved - i asked the mods to move it back and they denied it. they said that it was a group thread and we would know where it is. what i found really annoying is that they replied to my question and then closed the thread so i couldn't say anything else!:growlmad:
 
Ooooh, could be possible then ladies?
I drive,so can go anywhere really.
Perhaps we should all visit MrsHedgehog in Italy for some "proper" coffee or vino LOL!!:winkwink:

oh noo, i'm feeling really jealous!

Oh Kosh! that made me feel sad reading that:cry: it's a shame you are so far north:growlmad:
You could come to London for a holiday?? lol
 
I'm so tired of being tired. And i'm tired of moaning about being tired. I feel like it takes up the whole of my brain.

:hugs: everyone

^^THIS!!!!

^^ME TOO! And as it turns out my OH is also tired of me being tired and my moaning about being so tired :wacko: lol. But all is well again here, we made up. :)
Do you ladies too feel as though the weeks are just passing in a haze and all you seem to think about is the dread (and hope) of the next night? I cannot believe that my boys are nearly 6 months old and that for the entire time of their lives I have pretty much thought of nothing but sleep and the lack thereof. (I exaggerate but I am sure you know what I mean).

THIS is one of the reasons I get depressed. As I cannot control how good or bad the night sleep is, I spend my days making sure he has decent naps at least. I end up doing nothing else, or avoiding doing things and/or going to places because I worry he will not sleep and will be really cranky afterwards. When he has a short nap, I am already counting the hours until the next one! Sometimes I get so stressed that it feels like I am not enjoying my time with him as much as I should (again, an exaggeration, but you get the idea). I get depressed when I feel that way, because I know than in about a month I'll be at work and will miss him sooooo much!!:cry:

Oh Kosh, I aways remember ages ago on another thread tallking to you about our LO's sleep and we both said how obsessed we were with their sleep.
It is sooo wearing isn't it. I feel for you,I really do.:hugs::hugs:
 
Hello! It took me ages to find this thread (well, ok about 3 minutes). How is everyone? Sorry for those having crap sleep still. Cormac has been ill and now won't self settle at bedtime bit he will for naps. I don't understand it. He was up every hour from 7-2 last night and would sleep instantly when he was on me but woke up the second I put him down. Up for the day at 4.45pm. He's perfectly well again now. Yawn.

Tonight we have redone CC and it was horrible. It took 25 mins which is shorter than the first time. but I found it so much harder. I think because I haven't got to desperate levels as I was at when i first did it. But I'm so scared of it becoming like it was before I just can't risk starting the helping him to sleep. i know many don't agree with CC and I am not looking for sympathy at all as it was my decision but I am feeling horrid tonight. Blah. I hate this. I saw how effective it was and how happy and smiley my LO was and it was slipping away as his sleep started turning to sh*t again.

As for my location, I'm close to many of you! I was actually in Basingstoke on Saturday at a children's market. I work in London so can easily get there. My parents live 30 minutes from Tunbridge Wells and I'm often down there. And I live about 50 mins from Woking!

Off to go cry.

Sleepy dust babies xx

:hugs::hugs:
 
Tonight we have redone CC and it was horrible. It took 25 mins which is shorter than the first time. but I found it so much harder. I think because I haven't got to desperate levels as I was at when i first did it. But I'm so scared of it becoming like it was before I just can't risk starting the helping him to sleep. i know many don't agree with CC and I am not looking for sympathy at all as it was my decision but I am feeling horrid tonight. Blah. I hate this. I saw how effective it was and how happy and smiley my LO was and it was slipping away as his sleep started turning to sh*t again.

xx

Omg could have written this myself. First time I tried it it was more out of desperation to stay sane as I was seriously about the lose it.
We went away, got out of routine, and came back all poorly so stayed out of routine for ages.
Tried it again last week and he cried for an hour. I cried for 2 hours :nope::cry:

Luckily it only took one night and now the initial going off to sleep is the best he's ever done. I can put him so half asleep, he gives me a sleepy smile and goes off to sleep on his own so hopefully it will be the same for your LO and he will get right back into it :flower:
 
My night so far -
went down at 7pm and we had 1 wake up at 8pm and I think she is awake now....better go:wacko:
 
I'm so tired of being tired. And i'm tired of moaning about being tired. I feel like it takes up the whole of my brain.

:hugs: everyone

^^THIS!!!!

^^ME TOO! And as it turns out my OH is also tired of me being tired and my moaning about being so tired :wacko: lol. But all is well again here, we made up. :)
Do you ladies too feel as though the weeks are just passing in a haze and all you seem to think about is the dread (and hope) of the next night? I cannot believe that my boys are nearly 6 months old and that for the entire time of their lives I have pretty much thought of nothing but sleep and the lack thereof. (I exaggerate but I am sure you know what I mean).

THIS is one of the reasons I get depressed. As I cannot control how good or bad the night sleep is, I spend my days making sure he has decent naps at least. I end up doing nothing else, or avoiding doing things and/or going to places because I worry he will not sleep and will be really cranky afterwards. When he has a short nap, I am already counting the hours until the next one! Sometimes I get so stressed that it feels like I am not enjoying my time with him as much as I should (again, an exaggeration, but you get the idea). I get depressed when I feel that way, because I know than in about a month I'll be at work and will miss him sooooo much!!:cry:

Oh Kosh, I aways remember ages ago on another thread tallking to you about our LO's sleep and we both said how obsessed we were with their sleep.
It is sooo wearing isn't it. I feel for you,I really do.:hugs::hugs:

thanks claire...

and hope your night is not too bad!
 
Oooooh so how about organising a meet in London for about a months time?

Any dates people can't make? Preference on weekend/weekday? Ideas for location?

I need you all to slap some sense in to me as despite saying I only wanted one and being so deleterious the last few months with sleep deprivation and having NO money - I'm feeling MEGA broody tonight :wacko::dohh:
one of my best friends just had a baby boy 2 and a half hours ago and has been MSG Me and sending pics, and now to top it off I'm watching OBEM while other half is looking on net starting to plan Alex's first birthday! :wacko:
 
gemma - i know what you mean about feeling broody. i'm sleep deprived, depressed, totally overwhelmed and still broody!:dohh:
oh - and happy 8 month to alex!


claire - i noticed our LOs are a day apart? hang on a minute, were you really overdue too?
 
gemma - i know what you mean about feeling broody. i'm sleep deprived, depressed, totally overwhelmed and still broody!:dohh:
oh - and happy 8 month to alex!


claire - i noticed our LOs are a day apart? hang on a minute, were you really overdue too?

Thanks kosh - cant believe how fast it's gone!! I'm now torn between dreading jan when I start back to work and being mega excited for his birthday!!!
 
Ooooh, could be possible then ladies?
I drive,so can go anywhere really.
Perhaps we should all visit MrsHedgehog in Italy for some "proper" coffee or vino LOL!!:winkwink:

Haha! Great idea! I could do with some mummy company around here. None of my friends have kids and it sucks being far away from family and friends back home. The wine and coffee are good though :haha: Maybe you could have a meet up at Stansted airport and hop on a Ryanair flight to Perugia. I'll have some strong coffee and a few bottles of wine waiting!
 

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