Thanks ladies!
Inkdchick - that's one for framing!
Well, it's been a very long day and I have had to show my girly bits to lots of different people - had an external and internal scan, given blood, etc, etc... And although the most important news is good news, there is a little bad news in there that is enough to worry me sufficiently...
Baby was there on the screen - heart pounding away good and proper. Yolk sack also there, and womb looking fine. They put my dates back to 7 weeks 4 days. So glad my bubba was there.
However, it took them a long time to find it (and a transvaginal scan) as my bladder was so huge it was blocking the normal scan - turns out the reason for that is that I have 3 large cysts pushing my bladder and womb out of place, making it hard to find. The biggest cyst is 9.5 x 8.1 x 7.4 cm in size - huge. The others are about half that size, each.
They will scan me more often and I have to go in to hospital straight away if I get any more pain than normal - if it ruptures I am in trouble. They will avoid doing any surgery on it until after 12 weeks, as it will probably end in miscarriage before then - so we just have to hope and pray that it doesn't grow too much or twist or rupture between now and 13 December-ish. It is going to be a very, very long 5 weeks.
So glad I can say bubba is there, and reassured it is not an ectopic, but worried stupid all the same.
Cx