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Megg, a shred of PMA?? LOLLL I've got a shred. hehehee
Megg, a shred of PMA?? LOLLL I've got a shred. hehehee
Hi, girls. Well, here we go again. I am starting bcps today and stims in 3 weeks. We hope to get a cycle in by Tgiving. The doc has determined that I have a diminished ovarian reserve, so, I realistically have a 25% chance of this working. Not great odds but we are going to give it another shot. If it does not look like we are stimming well, we will likely abandon the cycle.
Megg, no you didn't read it wrong. I have been very disheartened but I am trying to get myself back in a positive state of mind (without setting myself up for major heartache)
I swear, every week some poor person sees my little jeep driving back from the FS office bawling my eyes out. this whole process has made me very emotional. Add in a few good songs on the radio and I am a weeping mess.
Your right Carolb, there's just no logic to it but it's the best chance we have if we have "problems" conceiving, so we've just got to go for it.
Megg, your calander is very full, it's scary when it's written down like that too.
Blue, good luck with your appt today, I hope it goes okay for you and let's hope you don't get OHSS again this time. I would be seriously annoyed for you if you did, they can't let that happen at all!
AFM - I'm on 12DPO and no sign of AF, pretty unusual for me with no spotting. Tested last night but nothing BFN so I don't have any hope for a natural BFP before IVF. Stinking sore head this morning so that probably means AF is iminent.
OH said he might go to information evening on the 18th November, I was really surprised! We'll see if he does come along. He always seems to be working late these days. His MD left and he seems to have more and more to do these last 2 weeks.
Anyway I'd better go and get ready for work. BNB in the morning is so BAD for me! lol! Catch you all later ladies.
PMA, PMA!!!
Thanks, Carole! Isn't it funny...I never thought 37 (actually, will be 38 in a few weeks) was all that old until I started this darn process. My mom had my sis naturally at 39. My good friend is pregnant now naturally at 42 after just 5 mos of trying. LOL...and then there is little old me with my diminished egg reserve. I mention my 25% because my fs, who is a wonderful compassionate person, sat me down yesterday and spent an hour with me. He wanted me to weigh all pros and cons (college education costs of our other kids, etc). Based on what he has seen, my chances are lower than normal...25-35%. Then, he brought me in for an ultrasound and was even more concerned...he said realistically 25%. He was brutally honest. But, also warm and genuine. That is when he said we have an "escape hatch." We are going to start stimming and if it doesn't look good, we are going to bail before the major costs of IVF happen at the retrieval.
I tell you all this dear because your chances are likely better than mine. Hugs to you!!
Megg I know you put up your calendar - and it can look very overwhelming - but as much as it looks on paper - I personally found ivf to be "underwhleming" lol.
It is strange because I expected to be so overwhelmed but it didn't feel as overwhelming as I expected (based on how it looks on paper). It came to be less than 10 mins a day between swallowing a few pills and doing injections.
I found the challenging part to be all the scan visits and waiting to find out if things were on track or if things were going as they were supposed to be.
Sorry for my ramble there - I am just trying to say don't worry too much about the needles and the pills - everyone will come to find them easy. xo
It is strange because I expected to be so overwhelmed but it didn't feel as overwhelming as I expected (based on how it looks on paper). It came to be less than 10 mins a day between swallowing a few pills and doing injections.
It is strange because I expected to be so overwhelmed but it didn't feel as overwhelming as I expected (based on how it looks on paper). It came to be less than 10 mins a day between swallowing a few pills and doing injections.
I'm so glad you've said this! I am seriously hoping to be underwhelmed by the needles!!
So you're 4 days away from DR Blue? you'll be exactly 2 weeks ahead of me, so I'll be stalking you! How was your followup today? Could they tell you anything useful?
MSG - It's great that you have an escape hatch, hope you don't need it. 25% is still better odds than couples with no fertility issues & the FS will always point out the worst case scenario. Sincerely hope your ovaries suprise you!
Megg - how's you? are you def having that polyp removed on Mon?
Kiki - our clinic insisted on both of us attending the info eve & said they like to see both partners all the way through if possible. I thought it was quite interesting & was good for DH to see the process as he's never on the internet & it wouldn't enter his head to google stuff!
AFM, Got my start date - 8th November. & 1st scan on 24th Nov. Wierded out now!
Everyone else - Hope you're ok. I'm not very good at keeping up with everyone & remembering who's doing what, but I'll do my best! Good wishes to you all. x
...must do some work now!
Megg I know you put up your calendar - and it can look very overwhelming - but as much as it looks on paper - I personally found ivf to be "underwhleming" lol.
It is strange because I expected to be so overwhelmed but it didn't feel as overwhelming as I expected (based on how it looks on paper). It came to be less than 10 mins a day between swallowing a few pills and doing injections.
I found the challenging part to be all the scan visits and waiting to find out if things were on track or if things were going as they were supposed to be.
Sorry for my ramble there - I am just trying to say don't worry too much about the needles and the pills - everyone will come to find them easy. xo
It is strange because I expected to be so overwhelmed but it didn't feel as overwhelming as I expected (based on how it looks on paper). It came to be less than 10 mins a day between swallowing a few pills and doing injections.
I'm so glad you've said this! I am seriously hoping to be underwhelmed by the needles!!
So you're 4 days away from DR Blue? you'll be exactly 2 weeks ahead of me, so I'll be stalking you! How was your followup today? Could they tell you anything useful?
MSG - It's great that you have an escape hatch, hope you don't need it. 25% is still better odds than couples with no fertility issues & the FS will always point out the worst case scenario. Sincerely hope your ovaries suprise you!
Megg - how's you? are you def having that polyp removed on Mon?
Kiki - our clinic insisted on both of us attending the info eve & said they like to see both partners all the way through if possible. I thought it was quite interesting & was good for DH to see the process as he's never on the internet & it wouldn't enter his head to google stuff!
AFM, Got my start date - 8th November. & 1st scan on 24th Nov. Wierded out now!
Everyone else - Hope you're ok. I'm not very good at keeping up with everyone & remembering who's doing what, but I'll do my best! Good wishes to you all. x
...must do some work now!
Megg, how's Peoria today?? Beautiful crisp fall day just a few hours away.
Anyway, Megg, my fs is wonderful. He is probably the most compassionate person I have ever met...that in itself made me want to cry. LOL!! Anyway, he did a new antral follicle count and actually came to look himself. My left ovary looks pretty good but my right ovary, well, is a real drag. This explains why on my last ivf cycle, i only got 2 mature eggs on right ovary. The antral follicles on that ovary are very small. He measured the ovaries and the follicles. Apparently, he expects them to be a certain size just under normal conditions and a sign of diminished ovarian reserve is if they are smaller than that size.
Had acupuncture this morning and a few hours later my period started - 2 days early. Argh. Anyway, this means I can now book my sono and pap test, and now only one cycle stands between me and IVF Starting to get excited, but trying to be practical as well, as I was super-psyched the last time and when it didn't work, I was devestated.
Anywho, onward and upward!!!
Had acupuncture this morning and a few hours later my period started - 2 days early. Argh. Anyway, this means I can now book my sono and pap test, and now only one cycle stands between me and IVF Starting to get excited, but trying to be practical as well, as I was super-psyched the last time and when it didn't work, I was devestated.
Anywho, onward and upward!!!
Thats great nvr! One step closer x