IVF/ICSI/FET in September!!!

Ufortunately I don't have any holidays left. I'm actually off on holiday next week for two weeks and thats my holidays done for the year. I was thinking of asking my doctor for a sick note and just say im having a small gynae procedure. If I tell my boss she will tell everyone because she does it now when people are off sick she tells everyone why they are off. It's so wrong.
 
Hi Doodar - I was lucky, and timing wise should get lucky again, as I'm a teacher and with my failed round I started stimming on the last day of term, and we have our next school holidays at the end of September, so I won't need any time off next time.

Knowing what I know now, if it weren't the school holidays, I'd take at least the day after egg collection off (this was a traumatic day 1st time, as it was when we heard of our fertilisation failure - and I would have hated to recieve the news at work). I also think I'd like the day of transfer and the next day off too - only because I think I'd feel better doing nothingrather than running around. The hardest thing is not actually knowing when these days will be; my plan had the EC scheduled for the week beginning 13/7, and it was on 14/7, however, some people have to do extra drugs or coasting which makes it more of an unknown, so you have a rough idea. You generally have less than 48 hours notice to know for certain (once you are told to do the trigger shot), when you will be out of action. Then of course you'll not know if you are getting a day 2,3,4,5 transfer. My clinic aims for day 5, but will do earlier if need be!

Also luckily, the lab where I had my blood tests, and the IVF clinic, are both on my way to work, so was able to get my bloods done and only adding 10 minutes to my journey.

It's tough to know who to tell at work, some of my colleagues know we are doing IVF, but I'm vague about time-lines, and the teacher who organises cover knows what's going on too, but I asked her to keep it on the down-low. Another colleague knows pretty much everything, as he and his wife went through IVF 2 years ago - same clinic, specialist and total fertilisation failure first time round!
 
That's really wrong, is there anyone else you can tell with out having to tell her? If there isn't then i think get a sick note if you can :)
 
Doodar - I'm so sorry about your manager!

I did take time off during my cycle. I took afew days off before as the drugs made me feel crappy and I was due to take a week off after EC and also have ET during that time.

Hope everyone else is doing ok!

Nothing really to report from me, Drugs are due to arrive on Sat! yepee!!! :yipee:

xxx
 
Hi can I join Sept IVF's

Its a FET cycle for me. I had a cancel cycle in June due to OHSS 32 eggs, 13 fertlised and 4 have gone to blast stage and been frozen. The consultant said the egg quality is not that great one grade 2 two grade 3 and one grade 4. I can only hope and pray now, seen first sign of the witch today so start down reg in 21 days time.

Best of luck to everyone xx
 
Hi Tory. It's great that you got 4 blasties frozen, and sorry about the OHSS. How many frosties will they defrost?
 
I also will not have a lot of vacation time by the time we start our own procedure. Reading earlier posts, but still confused about when would be the best time to take time off. Do you have to be on the bed rest after the eggs are transferred?
 
Hi

Leilani hi, answer to your question they will defrost all 4 and hopefully put two back in. Witch has not made an apprerance she is being funny, so not day 1 yet.

x
 
I also will not have a lot of vacation time by the time we start our own procedure. Reading earlier posts, but still confused about when would be the best time to take time off. Do you have to be on the bed rest after the eggs are transferred?

Bed rest is only really needed the day of egg collection, and some ladies like to do nothing on ET day too - if I get that far this time, I'm going to stay home lying down on ET day, and get DH to o9rganise dinner (organise meanns order take out, not cook!)!
 
Thanks Leilani!! I just want to know when to take time off work as I want to keep my business private. 2 days should work, I guess. Thanks :hugs:
 
It's official I should be having my FET in September - unless af goes crazy on me. I have 3 - day 3 embies frozen that I am really counting on surviving the thaw - they said they are "average" whatever that means. If they all survive - they would like to put all 3 back and I am totally up for that.

If af stays on track then...

AF - August 27th
Baseline scan on cd2 - August 28th
Trigger - Sept 10 (cd14) - Sept 14 (cd 18) (likely cd 16 - sept 12)
Ov - cd 18 sept 14 (based on trigger sept 12)
FET - 3dpo - sept 17th
OTD - oct 4th - 17 dpo OR 14dp3dt

This is a sign that I am very impatient and want to get started lol. Also I am realllllllllly hoping that the embies thaw okay so that I can actually go through this.
 
Hey blue, i think i might be joining you with a fet this month too. i posted on the august thread as well as i am not sure what is happening with my cycle after a very protracted miscarriage. My clinic has reluctantly allowed us to go ahead with a fet without a normal cycle in between but they told us the chance are lower because of this. We felt that the risk was worth it as i am sort of only keeping my head above water and this allows us to feel like we are at least moving forward.

We are just having a single FET though, how about you? will they thaw them one at a time or all together? We found out yesterday at our appointment that even though all 4 of our frosties are at blastocyst stage they are only mediocre quality. i try not to worry about this though because the embie we had transferred in our fresh cycle was super fantastic grade 1, 4 day old embie and that ended up miscarrying so it couldnt have been that great. They kept emphasisng the point that the grading is only an indication of success and plenty of children have been born from the lower quality embryos. I really hope this is the case.

Isnt this waiting awful! I feel like i am losing my mind sometimes!
 
Gracy I am so sorry for your loss - that must have been devastating.

Hun I totally understand the wanting to go ahead with FET right away to feel like you get to go forward. I wanted to do the same - but got the big NO yesterday as my cd 3 scan showed many cysts (or left over follies) so I have to wait now a full cycle and will start in Sept.

That is awesome that you have 4 blast frosties. Mine are only day 3. They will be defrosting all - and transferring all of them. If I had got to have a fresh transfer I would have had 2 transferred but since it is a FET cycle they said they will do all three. I am just terrified about them thawing - if they don't survive then I will have spent $15,000 and will never have had a transfer.

:hugs: to everyone!!!
 
Blue - How are you doing? You sound more up beat in your post, I hope you are feeling better! I'm so glad you're gonna be able to have FET!!! :happydance: I know you would have loved to do it this month but Sepptember is not so far away now!! we are gonna have really similar dates too!!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxx :hugs::hugs:
 
I am feeling much better - shock has worn off - and I have been keeping myself very busy. Painted the front porch/pickets/posts etc. Washed the garage doors and front doors so they are ready to paint. Cleaned the whole first level of our house and the ensuite bathroom. Anything to keep my mind off of the fears.

So exciting that our dates will be similar Chesca - when are you anticipating af? (not for 9 months would be the best answer)

:hugs:
 
hi ladies, well now i feel well and truly despondant. Have been having bloods tracking for my fet that should be in a few weeks but seems my hormone levels have just stopped. Not going up or down? So have ultrasound and it says pcos???? how can this happen? I have never had probs with ov or irregular cycles and we are doing ivf because of DH's low count. Can a miscarriage make you get pcos? i am so confused. pregnancy seems to just be getting further and further from my reach, when is something gonna go right? what happens now???:cry:
 
I have no idea gracy :( who did the scan? can someone advise? Did you do your own scan? think you said you do ultrasounds don't you?!

I hope someone can help but didn't wana read and run hun, hope it's OK xx
 
Gracy it is strange that hormone levels are going off normal course - but that could be due to miscarriage? (I don't know - did they clinic say that?) But if it helps you to know I have pcos but have perfectly regular cycles - so don't worry about that.

I can't even imagine how hard it has been recently - but you have 4 beautiful BLASTIES!!! :)

Sending many :hugs: right now - things will get better and you will get your little one!!!
 
Evening Ladies,

Hope your all well. Don't really feel like I have much to offer to this thread at the moment, as it's only our first time and we are not starting treatment till Sept. So just popping on to say hi really :hi:
 
I know how you feel Doodar, I'm sitting her twiddling my thumbs really. I'm waiting to OV this month - which will hopefully be in the next couple of days - and once that happens I'll have a much better idea about dates etc.

Gracy - are you doing a medicated FET cycle? I'm guessing you are because of the hormone thing! Have you had your bloods done again yet this week? I hope it's not PCOS, but I'm sure it's work roundable for a FET - not that I really know!
 

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