I know what you mean about life one hold! Hubby and I couldn't book a break away as everything was about trying to get pregnant, and being told IVF was our best shot it became all consuming. All I thought about really, even now I'm pregnant I still feel that way. It's a hard hurdle to overcome.
I think the changing point for me was just after my lap last year before I fell pregnant. after seeing the counsellor and being given coping strategies, I finally snapped and wanted my life back - so we booked a holiday. I think it was the little things that kinda gave me my life back. Being able to take charge (I am a control freak!) and making a decision rather than waiting on a doctor to tell me when we could do IVF again.
What I'm trying to say rather rubbishy, is that as hard as it is, sometimes making even a small decision such as a mini break or a car you feel back in control!
Does that make sense?
Kateann if your period doesn't come in the next ten days I'd go to the doctors and get a blood test
Love to all and hope everyone is doing well x x x x