IVF sucess now in 1st Trimester

[pcsoph2890]

're no symptoms women in my dept had no symptoms.s at all either in natural pregnancies.

Not everyone gets symptoms in the 1st tri. My boobs bigger and still tender. If something was wrong we'd be bleeding and expelling the embryos.

Everyone has to stop reading things on Google. It doesnt know you, your circs, only your des know this. Trust them. If they were farmworkers they would be getting you in sooner for testing.
Hmommy - you had three put in, so think of the extra strain on your body creating those three, ok you may not have all three now - but that one is still there,and it's there for a reason. It obviously likes being stuck there.
We are In that position whereby we get scans earlier, so anything and everything we over analyse. Women only get scans at12 weeks so they would have nothing to go on at all until then.

Yes I. Worry something may go wrong, but I have faith in that little thing sticking, and send it positive vibes to stay and grow.....

I wish everyone luck tomorrow good or bad it may not seem like it at this moment in time but I am a true believer in things happening for a reason it may not be the right time or right embryo. It will happen for us all I know that - if you want somethingto happen so.much it will!!!!

Xxxxx

 

[hmommy219]

Aimze, dying to hear your results today!!!! Good luck pal. xo

 

[aimze]

No heartbeat today

 

[wellsk]

I'm so so sorry aimze
You and your OH are in my thoughts

 

[hmommy219]

Oh my God Aimze!!! I'm so very sorry. I cannot imagine what you're going through right now... sending prayer and love your way.

 

[aimze]

Thanks hmommy & welks....I'm not surprised....I think I did most my grieving last Tuesday...booked for D&C on Saturday an really hoping they'll offer me some recurrent miscarriage testing.

I'm just looking forward to getting my life back with my husband...we're at the end of the assisted conception road so no more pressure deciding when to do iui/ivf....

Plus....no more oily progesterone...phew x

 

[pcsoph2890]

Oh i'm so so sorry for you both.

As you said just enjoy being married for now, as you have only just got married and then spend loads of time together just enjoying each other and see what happens as and when you decide to do whatever you and hubby decide to do together!
When you both feel ready you'll know and then you have many many options available. You are both young and healthy (no consolation i know) but you know you CAN get pregnant, so thats not the issue, but retaining the little one.... A woman in my dept was exactly the same - and she conceived naturally after deciding to give up on IVF. So you just never know what is round the corner.
Travel the world together, make lots of memories together, keep your life full of love and you will become parents. Possibly not by one route, but another.
There is a child out there waiting for you both, i honestly believe that!

Good luck in all you decide!

 

[hmommy219]

Aimze, I am dying now because I know I'm in a similar predicament. I wish they would have told you what the heart rate was at your first scan. Did they give you any further information regarding what happened with this pregnancy? So sorry...xo

 

[Peachy1584]

Aimze my heart is breaking for you... I had truly hoped you would defy the odds. I read somewhere that everything will work out in the end and if it's not worked out it's not the end. I know in time you will figure out what the right course is for you both.I hope you take time to heal as losing a baby no matter how early is still a very traumatic loss not to be taken lightly. Treat yourself well you deserve it

 

[BabsTTC]

I am so sorry Amize ... My heart breaks for you and I wish I could say something to reduce your pain. But believe me sweetie, this is not the end. You will have a baby to call your own in due time which ever path you take, just be strong. again!

 

[bbblues]

Aimze I'm so sorry to hear. Take time for you and your husband. Sending lots of prayers your way

 

[Peachy1584]

Hmommy as hard as it seems nothing can be changed right now as to this course we are on. You can't compare your pregnancy to Aimze's as it's entirely different. Keep hope that you had a late implanter and the most important thing is how things are going at the next u/s. Like pcsoph said try to stay away from google. My doc had told me under 100 is usually a bafd sign and you are above that right? Just having a heartbeat is a great thing try to stay positive hon I know it's hard

 

[bbblues]

Here's a pic of my little peanut from today. Even saw him/her moving. Heartbeat was 178 today. Today was the last day at the specialist. Was a bitter sweet kinda day. I have a ton of meds left over that I am going to donate to them for anyone else going through ivf. Next week I see my OB.

 

[hmommy219]

Hmommy as hard as it seems nothing can be changed right now as to this course we are on. You can't compare your pregnancy to Aimze's as it's entirely different. Keep hope that you had a late implanter and the most important thing is how things are going at the next u/s. Like pcsoph said try to stay away from google. My doc had told me under 100 is usually a bafd sign and you are above that right? Just having a heartbeat is a great thing try to stay positive hon I know it's hard

Peachy, thank you for writing this. I appreciate it. I cried after seeing Aimze post because I related to her. I know what you're saying though, and I also know that there is nothing I can do to change the outcome of my pregnancy. I just want these next 10 days to fly by

 

[aimze]

Hmommy my little one died at 5mm the same day we were scanned...

Yours is loads bigger an a few days behind...mine was 9 days..just too small..

Ladies thank you so much for your kind words...I've been gardening all afternoon, my mum came round with a plant for the baby and we replanted Poppy's pot which never grew properly...going to get this baby a nice pot tomorrow, feel bad I haven't named them and poppy had a name, poppy also has a tattoo but tht was because she was poppy from day dot whereas I've strayed from naming this baby...

Love to you all xx

 

[hmommy219]

God bless Aimze, please stay in touch....I know your journey is ongoing so please check in with us. Xx

 

[Bma11]

Aimze- I'm so sorry. I think planting plants for the little ones is a fabulous idea. You can always look out and smile I have a friend who did that as well. You seem so strong and I admire that. I wish you and DH nothing but the best in life.

 

[aimze]

Hmommy the 10days will be tough but from what ive read your little beany will be tucked away an double the size in 10days...honestly I'm sure of it

To everyone else, I've loved being part of hmommys group, you've all been an amazing support network nd I'll be eternally grateful!

I shall be silently stalking your 9months xx

 

[wellsk]

Finger crossed for you aimze and best of luck for the future and your future little ones, whichever path you chose
Your angels will never be forgotten!

 

[Kpkj]

Aimze, I am so sorry for you and your husband. Please use this time to really enjoy each other as a married couple. You have been an amazing support for me and the other ladies in this group. I am proud of you for your courage and strength through this all! Good luck to you!