IVF sucess now in 1st Trimester

[aimze]

Stupid isn't it....

Everything went well, I went home ASAP because I hate it there...

Came home to delivered bunch of flowers number 4...however it had no card?! Secret admirer? I wish haha...

Can't think who it is...an I feel bad because I can't say thank you...

Soph can you remember nurture always had amazing flowers in their reception...well we got a letter sayin sorry etc earlier an then flowers...I wonder if they're from nurture...bloody big bunch with chocolates! X

 

[pcsoph2890]

Ahhh if it is them then how lovely!!!!!

Glad all went well. Are you just supposed to rest up now????

 

[aimze]

Totally amazing if it is them....surely not?! Hmmmm I'm going to keep harassing the flower shop to tell me who sent em! X

Yes just resting, or trying to with Doug around my toes!! Hoping DH will sort him out in the am so I can have a lie in...

X

 

[pcsoph2890]

Ha that's is for the next 10yrs . Or so now..... a little pug yapping at your heels!!!!

 

[aimze]

Yea 10 years lol..hmmm..

I think once he calms down he should be a bit more "chilled" he's also teething so is struggling with that an I only brought him soft toys so he needs firmer ones to save my flip flops! X

 

[aimze]

I actually can't believe I'm "talkin dog" i don't even like other dogs just pugs lol....

Well both miscarriages have given me something I've always said I'd never do...a small 'p' tattoo for Poppy & a Puppy for this one! Guess that's good x

 

[hmommy219]

Aimze, as a mommy of a 2 year old golden retriever, I can tell you that furry babies are a blessing like no other!!

 

[pcsoph2890]

I think it's a brill idea, and whatever gets you through and keeps your minds occupied....
Plus it's another way of remembering each little one without being sombre about it. A little celebration so to speak!

 

[aimze]

Exactly soph...I was thinkin of throwing a Puppy Shower LOL! Surely people have them?

X

 

[pcsoph2890]

I think people sill.come.round more to support you..... But any reason for a knees up and I'm in!!!!!

 

[Peachy1584]

Aimze hope you are well you're new addition is absolutely adorable!!

Hang in there Hmommy not too much longer left

Afm I had my d&c on Fri and the pathology should be back in 2-3 weeks. Aimze I think it's garbage they won't test for you because if something is wrong you should know before spending even more money and can make better informed choices. I only have my left tube and it's only 4.5cm long and my right ovary is dominant so when I go in for my post op visit we have decided to do clomid or femera to see if we can get my left ovary to kick out some eggs and we'll try that for a few months. If that doesn't work we'll switch RE's and give ivf another go. My OB said for some reason women seem to be more fertile after a loss and she has seen many get prego on their own afterwards. Hopefully that's us Aimze! I will always be sad that God thought my lil one was too perfect for earth but I am trying to think about the future. Had my big crazy breakdown Fri night which is good because it's important to get it all out and boy did I ever oh and starting my diet tomorrow ugh. ..

 

[aimze]

Peachy great to here from you..

Yes it's totally shit they don't test sooner...they test for molar an that's it...part of me thinks if the baby was really I'll such as hole in the heart or so disabled their life is altered then I get why it didn't wrk....I'm also wondering about the nk cells killing off the baby.

I think we're going to look at adoption next....I tried convincing my husband about 2 years ago to not do assisted conception an adopt but he really wanted us to try...I spoke to an agency specialising in mixed race adoptions in Jan last year and she said "adoption should be a choice, not a last resort"

That's so true, I want it to be an option but not our only resort so that's why I would want to stop assisted an adopt because then I'm making the decision not allowing a few mre ivf to work or not work. I hope that makes sense?

Lots of love to everyone x

 

[pcsoph2890]

Actually that makes a lot of sense being a choice not a last option.
I would think that they would Want you waiting a while before going through the process to make sure that you aren't rushing into it.
You are young, just married so just enjoy yourself as a. Couple first....

Then go for whatever option you think is right. You never know what happens in the future. When one door closes a window opens somewhere for you....

 

[Bma11]

Hmommy- thinking of you today' hope your scan went well!

 

[Bma11]

Never mind you have two more days to go.... Still thinking of you...

 

[pcsoph2890]

Well got my new maternity stuff I ordered on the web in a sale..... all.looks good and fits too which is a bonus.
Getting some better looking bras and work trousers at the weekend when paid.....

 

[hmommy219]

Hey girls, do any of you ever feel that your uterus feels heavy?? I actually walk around the house sometimes holding it! Lol...

Just wondering

How does everyone feel? How far along are you all now?

 

[bbblues]

Hey girls, do any of you ever feel that your uterus feels heavy?? I actually walk around the house sometimes holding it! Lol...

Just wondering

How does everyone feel? How far along are you all now?

How are you doing hmommy? I am currently 9 weeks 4 days and have been starting to feel like a pulling sensation? I know with the heat cramps are more common so I'm trying to hydrate constantly.

I had my first appointment with my OB today. It was so nice to see her again. She did another scan today. Saw the baby's arms and legs and it was moving all over!! It was amazing. No pic though. I go back Aug 7 and will be getting a few tests done and another sono. My due date is Feb 21 but she will take me at 39 weeks cause I had a c section with my daughter. So maybe a valentines day baby lol. Hope everyone else is doing well.

 

[hmommy219]

Wow!! Wonderful news bbblues! You must be on cloud nine! I get the pulling/tugging sensations occasionally too. I don't mind since it keeps me guessing on whats going on in there!

 

[pcsoph2890]

I'm so desperate to see a scan and check everything is OK.
I'm now 11w2d. I've resorted to wearing a maternity leggings and tunic today, nothing fits now and everthing is so tight and uncomfortable.
I read things in 1st tri and it's so depressing and gets me worries so i try not to anymore.
All along i've not been sick at all, boobs now just a bit tender round the edge under arms. Stomach bloated and sticking out now, boobs getting huge. Horny as hell though....
So all my what were symptoms are now going - which by this time they should be going anyway. But worried in case the little one stopped growing, is a sign of no symptoms a sign of something going wrong.
Have i tempted fate by getting maternity clothes etc....

I just hope the letter comes through the post soon for the scan appt then i'll and my family will breathe a sigh of relief