phoned my clinic and they've said to keep fluids up and call in tomorrow and they'll organise a scan of ovaries 
Its sooo nice to know that there are such wonderful people out there, you just dont see it often enough. I thought i just needed to say it again! 
Getting - Yayy good luck with ER!!!! Whooohooo 8 eggies!!
bubumaci - Its all on how you feel....if you feel like jumping back into it, there is nothing wrong with that! At first I wanted to, but then I just got overwhelmed and decided to wait for my next AF to start our FET. My biggest regret was waiting sooo long to go to the doc while TTCing for sooo many months, but then again, never in my life did I think I would get these results. It is what it is. Do what you feel is right for you.
I think that panic is normal for all us IVF ladies. Every day is different, you just never know what it may bring. The smallest thing seems to be able to change dates....its weird, but normal.
Want - I think I would be excited to feel ms lol.....i say that now right? lol When is your scan again? I get sooo excited to see/hear about everyones scan...its like pot luck...one or two...hehe
Prayin - Neighbor!!!! I go to Valley Fertility Center in Paramus. Its super close to my house.
Phantom - ahhhhh super exciting!!!!! Are your surrogate parents(i dk what the proper name for them is called) excited?! I just want to hug you for doing what you are doing!
Amost - Yay for PUPO!!!!!
Likklegemz - Yay for 2
Thanks Jenn!
That is exactly how I feel! I am 37. We starting TTC right after we got married in October 2 years ago and fairly soon, I was certain that something was not right. I got tested in May last year and begged DH to get tested (which he dragged out until August) ... we couldn't get an appointment with the clinic until mid-October (so 1 year after we were trying) and it took until May for them to find a way to get sperm from DH for ICSI. I have been raring to go ever since we have found a way and get really wound up about every moment wasted (DH postponing an SA by a week etc. etc. when I want to get the earliest appointment possible).
Now that we know there is a way, I just feel frustrated by any delays ... and it is now already two years and I feel the time slipping through my fingers (I know, there is still time and it is irrational, but it is how I feel and I get all panicky).
My boss does understand and he has been very supportive (during the summer months, I have even taken a couple of days after transfer, so I can relax a bit - not having had any breaks this year). I am just concerned because I am putting myself under additional stress (which is high enough at quarter end anyway, without missing extra days) and after my last ER, I was really sore for a week and struggled with sitting for long periods...
Thank you for confirming that you feel the same way I do...
Hi girls!
So ER went well this morning. They got 8 eggs which is about what we were expecting (although before this whole process started I'd have been hoping for closer to 15 but it's all about the quality right?!) Was very sick after the anaesthetic
but have just woken up now after a good sleep at home and feeling much better. Even managed to have the tea and toast that dh brought me up. Gonna snuggle down with a book now or maybe get some more sleep. Talk to you all later!
Congrats! Eight is great! FX for a good report tomorrow. Congrats! One of mine was expanded too and it took so hopefully the sames happens for you. 
Hi all
Sorry I haven't had time to do personals and I'm currently on my phone, not felt great the last day or so, bloated, gassy and today I've been vomiting!
On the bright side my two embryos that didn't get implanted are perfect and they've been frozen! Yey!
Hi all
Sorry I haven't had time to do personals and I'm currently on my phone, not felt great the last day or so, bloated, gassy and today I've been vomiting!
On the bright side my two embryos that didn't get implanted are perfect and they've been frozen! Yey!
Try not to worry about it. Honestly my 2ww was the most stressful 2 weeks in years and I was a mess. DH and I got in to a few arguments during that time as well. Everything will be fine. I hope things get better and your cramping stops.
Thanks Jenn!
That is exactly how I feel! I am 37. We starting TTC right after we got married in October 2 years ago and fairly soon, I was certain that something was not right. I got tested in May last year and begged DH to get tested (which he dragged out until August) ... we couldn't get an appointment with the clinic until mid-October (so 1 year after we were trying) and it took until May for them to find a way to get sperm from DH for ICSI. I have been raring to go ever since we have found a way and get really wound up about every moment wasted (DH postponing an SA by a week etc. etc. when I want to get the earliest appointment possible).
Now that we know there is a way, I just feel frustrated by any delays ... and it is now already two years and I feel the time slipping through my fingers (I know, there is still time and it is irrational, but it is how I feel and I get all panicky).
My boss does understand and he has been very supportive (during the summer months, I have even taken a couple of days after transfer, so I can relax a bit - not having had any breaks this year). I am just concerned because I am putting myself under additional stress (which is high enough at quarter end anyway, without missing extra days) and after my last ER, I was really sore for a week and struggled with sitting for long periods...
Thank you for confirming that you feel the same way I do...
Wow your journey sounds remarkably like mine. I got tested three years ago and I was good, DH delayed and delayed his testing and after months of me nagging him he finally got tested. My Dr wouldn't refer us until 1 year of trying and at that point I lost my job. So add on two more years because I had to secure a job and I didn't want to go off on Mat leave my first year. All those delays stressed me so much. Then I had to wait 5 months for an MRI so the stress just kept mounting. I fought hard to start on the cycle that I did, I just knew I had to start. My RE wasn't totally convinced but I went for it and did it. The week of my ER and ET I was acting for my boss that was on Vacation, so I had a ton of work on my plate and I made it through. The two days after ER was horrible but I hobbled through. Us ladies always find the strength when we need it.
Honestly the only factor that I think you should be considering is the meds for your DH. If that could improve your chances then maybe you should wait. But you had success last time with two weeks right so it's tough. When it comes to work I wouldn't delay. It sucks when your time clock is ticking, but family first.
Good Luck in making your decision, I know you will do the right thing and whatever you choose to do will bring you closer to your BFP.
Hi girls!
So ER went well this morning. They got 8 eggs which is about what we were expecting (although before this whole process started I'd have been hoping for closer to 15 but it's all about the quality right?!
I'm excited for your scan too! My hubby said one too but I guessed two. I'm always right. LOL! Have you been having weird dreams ? I have been and it wakes me up and adds to the exhaustion. I can't get comfortable either. All worth it though.
Good Luck.
Hi all
Sorry I haven't had time to do personals and I'm currently on my phone, not felt great the last day or so, bloated, gassy and today I've been vomiting!
On the bright side my two embryos that didn't get implanted are perfect and they've been frozen! Yey!
Sorry you aren't feeling good. Glad to hear your embabies are safe and sound In winter wonderland.
