Ridiculous and OTT are different IMO so I feel you're putting words into my mouth there. Not giggling but being entertained and I'm not the only one as was directed to this thread by a friend who said to make a brew and be entertained by the Johnsons thread - so I'm sure im not the only one, just the only one with the balls to come out with it! I stand by what I said - there are worse things to worry about in life than brands of baby lotions.
Just to be picky lol the word ridiculous litterally means 'deserving of ridicule' so you did say the site was ridiculous as you said u and ur mum take the mick out of it
Im sorry, i just had to say it lol I do understnd ur point but i dont really think you should of had 'the balls to say it'. People dont say things like that not because they are scared to say them, but because saying things like that would upset other people, have them worry and worrying and they might think twice in future about posting a (maybe OTT but none the less worrying) question.
This forum is a pregnancy and baby forum - of course its full of peoples worrys and queries! How many threads are going to be posted saying 'you know what, LO was absolutely fine today. Whats peoples thoughts on this?'
So if you judge people only by the things they post onthis site then ok. Everyone is neurotic, obsessive, worrysome and scaremongering
To all those people saying "everything is linked to cancer these days, you can't live like that, it's ridiculous", well isn't that because our lives have changed a lot? We now put unnecesary chemicals in loads of things because we want them to last a bit longer on the shelves or we want them a pretty colour or to smell of synthetic baby. You say we can't live like that but everybody used to! Lots of people still do. Maybe you would find it hard to avoid everything but it's definitely a case of limiting your exposure being good for you. Lots of chemicals have safe "life time exposure" levels. Go over that and you're at risk, so why not just limit it where you can? Yes, we're not 100% SURE that certain things cause problems but why take the risk if you don't have to?
And if you're one of the ones who said how ridiculous it is, have you HAD cancer? I have (and it was a type that required a fairly mild treatment but it was still months of absolute HELL, plus living in fear that it will come back for the rest of my life) and I can tell you that there is not one of you who would wish that on your child and if you had any real idea of how nasty it is, you would do your absolute best to reduce the chances of your child having cancer. For clarity, because I know how much some people like to accuse others of things they have not said, I'm not suggesting that any of you WANTS your child to get cancer, but I am saying that it sounds to me like some of you are saying that seeing as there are loads of things that could cause cancer, you're not going to bother trying to avoid them. That is just daft, in my opinion. There are loads of cars on the roads too, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to try to avoid them or try to keep my LO away from big roads!
I do know what ur saying hun, and im sorry youhad a problem with cancer
My point is this, all of the following things have been published in silly tabloids as saying they hav cancer causing properties:
Tomatoes
The sun (on a side note can u imagine how terrible sun dried tomatoes must be
)
Beef
Skin products
Swimming pools (chlorine)
Non Organic foods
Car fumes
Medicines
The contraceptive pill
Pesticides
vaccinations
Toothpaste (flouride)
Underage sex
underwired bras
(i do accept btw that some of these things obviously could...in fact most probably all of them)
And those are just off the top of my head
I know there are more. My point is this, tbh if you weigh up the chances you are naturally going to get cancer just because thats how ur body was built, and the chances you are going to get cancer from any one of these things - then maybe people might stop panicking over them.
Its mad, and of course i dont want my LO to get cancer. If their was a pill he could take or w/e which would make sure he didnt of course he would have it, and if it wouldnt take away from his life and teach him to grow up fearing the world around him i would avoid every single one of these things.
In my view life is there for living, and i dont want him to grow up reading every ingredient on every packet and drooling over tabloid scare stories before he does anything
xxx