Just chit chatting.....

[fluterby429]

well AF showed up 3 days early! I knew it was gonna happen cause ov'd early and my lp is always 14 days long. Soooo I'm pretty bummed. I fear my chances have been ruined.

 

[famof6]

I am sorry to hear that Fluter.Have you found out when DH is coming home?When I was trying to decide whether I would take clomid or not while searching I found many posts where ladies said it made them O later than usual I am not sure if they were taking it 3-7 or 5-9 though.I am still holding out hope that the timing works out perfect for you!!

 

[fluterby429]

Thanks Fam. I should know for sure on Wed. I think I'm still gonna take the clomid just incase and hopefully it will cause to O later. I have read that it does that for lots of people. I need to stay positive. It's just such a downer to not even have the option to try and then pump youself up for the opportunity and then bam feeling shut down agan. SIGHHHH. This is soo stressfull

 

[needafriend]

Hello ladies....

Fluter, how long will DH be home for? I am hoping all will work out for u with your bding.

Fam, navy, adanma, reeds, super....how are all u ladies today?

AFM...I have a dull sinus headache and am getting swollen legs and ankles. Fun....

 

[Adanma]

Hey ladies! Getting ready for my son's party, but thought I'd take a moment to check in.

Feeling pretty good today. I'm really tired, but we have a little cold going around our house right now which I think is the culprit. 7dpo today. Nothing to report really since I won't be testing unless I miss AF. I'm due the 30th so...a few days left yet.

Quick question, can your tubes be open initially and then after several months or even years close over with scar tissue? Or is it pretty much if they are open after the first few months they'll stay open?

Adanma

 

[Superstoked]

Hello ladies, Fluter I am sorry af arrived early. I am clueless when it comes to clomid, but if it can possibly delay O for a few days then that sounds great. I hope it all works out for you in the end.xx

Adanma, I am guessing if there is no scar tissue after all the healing is done, it would be open tubes without and scar tissue reappearing. But good question... I would like to know myself. I hope your son has a terrific day, be sure to post a pic of the cake! FX for a sticky bean

Needa, I am just peachy today. We are getting some snow here today, we calling 10 cm, but a little rain afterwards so it will not stick around for too long. I feel like a bummer today, not very postitive. not knowing if I really did o, even though I feel I did, it is stressful. So I am gonna just say I am waiting for af. If she arrives then great, my body is back in order if not then I should get a + test. I have myself totally strssed out looking for every little possible sign and I do not even know if I O'd for sure. lol

 

[needafriend]

Hiya Adanma....I would agree with super on that one. Once the healing is done, unless there is trauma to the tubes???...there would be no chance for scar tissue to form.
FX for u in ur tww.

Super....don't feel stressed, I am sure u o'd. It will happen again girl.
I know u and adanma had successful TR's so its just in Gods hands now.

 

[reedsgirl1138]

FLuter I did O later on Clomid as well. And it did dry up my cm which was really non existent for me anyway so if you have that problem get some conceive plus or preseed. Or use the BSF. LOL Praying all the timing goes well for you. XXX

Super I hope your body is back to normal. I had found with mine it usually did cause we unfortunately didn't get that far in the pregnancies. XX

Fam HOw are ya??

Asfm I am sad...my uncle is dying and I wish my family would have let me deal with it my way. But oh no they are pushy and I gave in and went to see him yesterday but no one bothered to tell me that he was skin and bnes and in a coma. They have given him 48 hours to live and I would have rather remembered him how I seen him at Christmas. He is my favorite uncle and like a Dad to me....but I do not deal with death well and I wanted his good memories and not of him that way. Probably sounds selfish.

 

[fluterby429]

Reeds I'm so sorry to hear about your uncle. (((hugs)))

Adanma Fx'd for ya

Super hopefully this is it for ya sister but if not at least you will know your body is regulating itself and hopefully the next cycle there will be less questioning your body. TTC is soo stressful

DH will be home for only 15days so not enough time for another cycle. This would be our one and only chance for about 8 or 9 more months. So I'm pretty bummed. I don't have EWCM at all I just get the watery type. I have some pre-seed and I got some mucinex to take as well. I'm just gonna truck on as if it's gonna workout just in case by some miracle it does!

 

[famof6]

Adanma,I am with the other ladies on the tubes open.I would think they would remain open.The very few I have seen that said one closed was due to a infection they had.Hoping you get your sticky bean soon!!

Super,FX you did O,and caught that eggy!!

Reeds,I am so sorry about your uncle

Needa,I hope you get to feeling better!

Fluter,I also only have had watery the last few cycles.I use preseed and mucinex too.I am going to try the bsf this month though.

AFM,I am starting to wonder if I am going to O at all this cycle,cd 15 and another -opk today.The dr did tell me to start temp and I did but I was so late in my cycle,I don't think its going to help with me determing O this cycle.Either way I guess that means I will have a longer cycle and I was hoping I could test on my B-day!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Fam are you using Fertility Friend to help determine O?? Or just charting on paper?

 

[famof6]

The dr gave me a paper chart and I just laughed,but yes I am using FF.I am going back to work tomorrow on night shift and just don't think it is going to work.

 

[reedsgirl1138]

It might be a bit confusing. I really think the main thing is the constant amount of sleep. YOur on nights more than anything right?

 

[famof6]

It might be a bit confusing. I really think the main thing is the constant amount of sleep. YOur on nights more than anything right?

Yes,I only work nights.I am off this week.It's just that I sleep usually from 9am-2 unless the kids or I have a appt. then I sleep in the afternoon.After only sleeping 5hrs a day during the week.I crash on the weekend because dh is here with the kids.So I sleep more.I am going to give it a try anyway.DR's orders.lol

 

[Adanma]

reeds: so sorry! Thinking of you.

fam: there is no way I could keep that schedule! kudos to you girl! Fx for you

super: the uncertainty of everything each month drives me crazy every time. Did I really o? will I have adequate cm? is my body killing my hubby's swimmers? It's truly enough to drive you nuts. Then having a loss or several just adds a whole other dimension to the anxiety. Fx for you too.

AFM: too tired to get my pictures on flickr and put them up here today. I'll do it tomorrow. The cake came out great!

navy: how are your wrists doing? are you going to neeed surgery?

sorry if I forgot anyone I'm so tired right now after the party. ZZZzzzz lol

Adanma

 

[fluterby429]

hi ladies...just checkin in. I got the clomid today. I guess I'm gonna take 50mg of it starting tomorrow and pray! On another note my eye liid is red swollen and hurts. Underneath the top lid there seems to be a bump but my bottom lid is red swollen and hurts too. My dd had a bad stomache paiin last night but she didnt get sick. She had frequent urination. Real frequent! She feels better today. I'm taking her to the doctor tomorrow and mybe they'll look at my eye too.

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Fluter sounds like you have a stye. Those are painful.

 

[fluterby429]

I think that's what it might b too Sandi. I've never had one before. It's starting to itch a lil but to touch it is just so painful.

 

[ready4onemore]

Hey ladies,

I am glad this thread is here. I miss our chats. I have updated my journal and I am so glad to have you ladies in my life.

 

[famof6]

Fluter,Ouch that does sound painful.I know the dr will prolly give you something for it,but I did see some otc stuff at cvs awhile back that said it was for that.I hope your DD gets to feeling better.

Ready,Glad to see you on here.Sending prayers you way hun.We all missed you.