You're welcome! I have 3 tattoos already and I'm super excited to get my sleeve started this summer!!
Anyway, I'm super sorry to hear that you don't ovulate often. When I ovulate it's usually cycle day 25-27 but my cycles are long like 40 days lol
I hope the clomid helps!
Sperm meets egg plan (smep) is a method lots of women use to try and concieve especially when they have irregular cycles and aren't sure when they ovulate like me. You start Bding on cycle day 8 to release your significant others "old sperm" I guess, to make sure the good sperm starts to regenerate in ten days just in time for your O day. You don't have to do that step but its part of te plan. Second step is to BD every other day starting on cycle day ten (if you usually O around CD14) if you don't ovulate until later then start your BDing every other day on the 12 or 13 (even later if you don't ovulate till way late)
So you bd and bd and bd every other day all while doing your opks. As soon as you get that positive opk Bd that night and everyday for the next 2 days (3 bd's total in a row) then you skip a day and bd one last time.
Now that one last time makes no sense to me especially of you confirmed your O with bbt. So bd like 2 days later won't do anything. But covering all your bases never hurt lol
You can read up about it. It's everywhere, just type in sperm meets egg plan into google. That way you can read all the explanations about everything and it will be explained better haha
I really hope this SMEP works!
I have never heard of the SMEP.. totally makes sense (expect that last time like you said) though!! AF is nearly gone, and I started temping on CD1, so I am going to wait until about CD8 or so to start BDing every other day until temp says I O. Which I guess is pretty similar. I am trying to get scientific this time, we BD'd 9 times last month, but sadly because my cycle decided to be 30 days this month, only 2 counted. This month if it follows the same lenght, FF says I O CD16, so I'll probably actually start BDing CD10, 12, 13,15,16,17. Wow, I feel totally insane right now, lol!