Pissed off pregnant lady here!!!!!
So I'm over 8 months pregnant and despite having SPD from almost day 1, I have never asked hubby to take a day off work, never asked anyone to have Jayden except his childminder (who I pay so why wouldn't I?) and tomorrow I need to see my consultant so I asked hubby to take the morning off work to watch Jayden as he was a bugger at the last appointment and I don't need the stress. So he says that's fine but he'll have to leave as soon as I get back as the other guy in his office is off and I say thats fine! All's fine! But then he tells me tonight that he'll be going into work in the morning because he's got guys to pick up (?!) and coming home for my appointment and then pestering me about how long it's gonna take, I don't bloody know! He's got a computer program at home where he can work from so I don't see what the big deal is.
I ask him if his mum is off and if he'd rather I ask her to watch Jayden for an hour while I go and maybe nip into tesco, and he starts fussing saying 'I'll come home!' etc etc etc.
What's really annoying me is he's travelling 8 miles in the morning to pick up guys who give him no petrol money, coming back 8 miles, then back to work and back at the end of the day! So he's doing double the miles for no reason, spending money he fine well knows we don't have. And his mum has no issues with watching Jayden, but if he's insiting I don't ask her I'll have to trail round tesco with a heavy trolley and then get all the bags in and have to deal with Jayden at the same time. I have never asked him to have a day off at all this full pregnancy and I'm not even asking him to take the day off work! Oh ladies, I'm angry and I'm not really sure if I have a valid reason to be?????! xxx