Long Term Trying To Conceive Vent Thread

[nobump]

Thinking of changing departments at work. Every other person seems to be pregnant! 6 years trying 2 failed IVF cycles. Life is pants.

 

[cheetahspotss]

Cheetah you're so right about the attitude of some women. It seems so unfair.

Next time FB mess around with the layout they should invent a pregnancy announcement filter.

Oh I hate that I've become so bitter.

Riiiiiight?! They seriously need to. I'm sick of seeing every other woman that I know being pregnant or just having a baby..you're not alone with being bitter, i'm right there with you. As the days go by, I feel myself become more bitter. In my previous post on this thread, I said I wasn't bitter because I have time but I was wrong! I know this because I can't even look at my cousin's pregnant belly. Or any of the other women whom I know to be pregnant. Maybe it's because i'm very young still and pregnancy should come as an easy thing for me--- BUT IT'S NOT!! And that pisses me off. Why do women have the privilege to get pregnant and have babies when they don't even want it in the first place?? I don't get it.

 

[cheetahspotss]

Thinking of changing departments at work. Every other person seems to be pregnant! 6 years trying 2 failed IVF cycles. Life is pants.

Sucks Are you doing a 3rd IVF cycle or no? I really hope things get better for you!

 

[nobump]

We have our WTF appointment on Monday. Next cycle would have to be private but don't think it is likely to work ever.... AMH is low and we need ICSI due to male issues. .... time to give up. But hard to accept.

 

[madtowngirl]

It must be a "FB sucks" day.

A girl that I'm in the costuming community with announced her pregnancy today. In the same way I wanted to - which I would have done by now, if I hadn't miscarried. It just broke me. I've been able to just brush off most announcements lately - but this one really, really stung.

I had such a good feeling about our IUI this cycle, but now I'm feeling hopeless and like it's pointless to even go through with it. I'm very depressed.

 

[cheetahspotss]

We have our WTF appointment on Monday. Next cycle would have to be private but don't think it is likely to work ever.... AMH is low and we need ICSI due to male issues. .... time to give up. But hard to accept.

Lol..i don't mean to laugh but when you said WTF appointment it got me. But in all seriousness, i'm so very sorry...that is devastating. I hope you can keep trying, I want to say never give up. But i'm not sure if those are the right words. I hope the best for you!

 

[Miaw]

Why the fuck do people keep posting pregnancy announcements in other sections than the specific one made for that purpose. I don't fucking give a shit, I come here because I don't want to deal with that fucking stuff unless I choose to.

Fuck off, I don't care about you getting pregnant

In the fucking assisted conception section too for fuck's sake, don't you think people there have been trying for a long time?

IT PISSES ME OFF.

 

[SKP]

Or when ppl say maybe it was not meant to be.

 

[wannabemummyb]

Another rant at my crap body: a week late, bbs grown at least a cup size, tender is not the word....can't even turn over in bed it hurts so much, loads of creamy/milky cm, extreme fatigue and no sign of af but a BFN this morning i'm used to being a failure each month but whats worse is a bfn with af nowhere in sight, so I can't even move onto the next cycle.

 

[PiggieFarmer]

Friend of DH just posted a photo album on Facebook called "Did you know my wife is pregnant?" Consists of belly pics on the beach. Sigh.

Is there any response to such a thing that conveys what I am thinking while at the same time being polite? I guess not (life is not fair, of course) but I thought I would ask.

 

[SKP]

A family member of mine, married 1 year, tried for 2 months, now pregnant. Tried for 4 years and still trying and not even with my own eggs as to that I don't have any.

 

[Lazydaisys]

It's not fair. Xxx

 

[DBZ34]

Friend of DH just posted a photo album on Facebook called "Did you know my wife is pregnant?" Consists of belly pics on the beach. Sigh.

Is there any response to such a thing that conveys what I am thinking while at the same time being polite? I guess not (life is not fair, of course) but I thought I would ask.

Seriously? Ugh.

I have no appropriate response...most of the ones I thought of include swearing...

 

[Lazydaisys]

Piggie falmer that would be enough for me to delete my account!

 

[MissCassie]

Friend of mine Is 13 weeks pregnant and only has complaints about it. It's taking too long bla bla just want to tell her to shut the f up! And be grateful

 

[madtowngirl]

Seeing pregnant women complain is the worst. I'd give anything to be puking, bloated, and tired all the time.

 

[MissCassie]

Seeing pregnant women complain is the worst. I'd give anything to be puking, bloated, and tired all the time.

Yes its very very annoying. They conceived in the first month too! Even more annoying haha

 

[SKP]

Or when they do have kids and say they are whiny or bratty or what ever. And they say to you want mine.

 

[EmmyReece]

Or when they know you're struggling and they always turn the conversation back around to them and their troubles.

Had this happen several times this week and I'm struggling big time. I'm fed up of having to be there for a certain person and her 2 pregnant daughters despite them knowing what we're going through

 

[DBZ34]

Or when they know you're struggling and they always turn the conversation back around to them and their troubles.

Had this happen several times this week and I'm struggling big time. I'm fed up of having to be there for a certain person and her 2 pregnant daughters despite them knowing what we're going through

That's another time my response would include swearing....