Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[Laura2806]

not surprised but really disappointed.
https://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab82/laura_28_06/image_zpsb1827720.jpg

Red, my boobs didn't get any bigger and they're non-existent anyway! I massaged, tried hand expressing but not even a drop of colostrum, he latched fine but there was nothing even after 10-15mins of him sucking he got nothing so would break and cry. Even days later still nothing came in. Didn't have a choice but to bottle feed. I plan on buying a pump and trying to express just before I'm due to hopefully get something come in.

Fairy hunni I'm so so sorry I feel your upset, I really do. As mrsc said, how long have you been trying and how long have you been of BC?

Got horrible cramps this morning, feel like AF is gonna hit, feel like crying, might wait till Simons at work and Oscar goes to bed. Xx

 

[ica235]

Oh fairy so sorry Hun! chin up, cheer up, and positive thoughts for next cycle! It'll happen! Xxxxxxxxxxxx big hugs

Oh Laura still early though! Still plenty of time for that BFP! When are you next testing???

It's taking everything I have not to test today!
Hubby doesn't know I've been testing lol he prefers the old fashioned way of waiting for AF! I just cant do that though!! He moans at how obsessed I get lol but keeping it secret makes it way more fun hahaha! He wouldn't be bothered if he knew, would probably get a few tuts and a not so sympathetic "we're not trying... Just let nature do its job" lol
Got two tests in the cupboard, both are 4 days before AF tests... Hoping I get my BFP tomorrow as tomorrow's day 28 of my cycle and AF will be due! Latest she may come is Friday though.. So wont get excited until Saturday if she's still a no show! Been crampy and having back ache, extra thirsty (which is how I knew with #1) so fingers are twisted around in circles hoping and wishing!!

Mrsc sounding very promising for you! I've got a good feeling.... !!!!

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks hun, I'm either 10 or 7dpo, if I ov'd considering tempting next cycle so I at least know that much. These cramps really hurt

Bless ya hunni, if you already pee'd your chance for today is gone I know what you mean with hubby though, they're just like 'relax it'll happen' and we're all 'but we need it to happen now and we need to know ASAP' xx

 

[MrsCorny]

Laura, don't be too disappointed, you tested very early!! Ur still in!
Afm- we aren't trying, more like NTNP, with occasional pull out. I went of off BCP in February. Had no issues going off of it. I think that's why I'm a little more relaxed about the whole thing. I'm sure if he told me he WANTED to have a baby now, I'd be obsessing. But part of me is still nervous about the idea.
I hope u feel better, u reall did test too early. Did u see the link I posted a few days ago. A chart of what results women got at specific days past Ov that all ended in successful pregnancies. Check it out,

Ica- thanks and I sure hope so!!

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks hun, my hormones are all over the place ATM so think that's why I was so down about it, gonna test again weds so I'll be 12-9dpo. Also hun if he didn't want a baby you would be on BCP sooooo maybe he knows you'll obsess so wants to NTNP to help you? Don't be nervous, it's the most incredible experience ever! Seeing your baby on that ultrasound screen, feeling them move for the first time, growing a bump, watching your bump move, hearing their heartbeat with a Doppler, buying things for them, giving birth, holding your baby for the first time as they look up at you in awe, it's magical hun a day doesn't go by when you don't worry if they ok and that will be how you are for the rest of your life but its worth it!

Yh I saw your link, it's really useful might have to edit the first post and add it into that so we can always find it

Xxx

 

[RedButterfly]

You're still early Laura.

Well I've stopped spotting. I don't know what that was but I only ever needed a panty liner. That's how pathetic the spotting was!

 

[MrsCorny]

Yeah, he is totally fine with it if it just happens. I also believe that if he really didn't wanna have a baby he wouldn't have let me stop BCP and would have been much more careful during my fertile days! Lol So I'm not nervous about his reaction really, we were talking about it last night cuz these twinges have me thinking this could be it and his attitude was much more positive than I was expecting
we like to joke about us getting a different car when I become pregnant cuz we both have 2-door cars, not ideal for a baby. He wants to get rid of my little Toyota and get another BMW- sedan of course. Lol
It's just such a big life change with the first. I can't wait to be a mama. I feel like I am so ready, as a woman. Maybe not completely financially and such but God has always provided and I know He will continue to do so. No fear here. I'm just not one that typically asks for change lol

Added the link and little encouragement to the first post! Enjoy! It's definitely kept me level headed and from testing too much, cuz I really don't like seeing a BFN! Lol so if I do test I can find solace in knowing it was unlikely to be BFP even if I am preggers!! Xoxo

 

[Laura2806]

Yh I know red, think I was just having a slight his say fit lol been and the ingredients for the first layer of my wedding cake so gonna make a start on that tomorrow, fruit is already soaking in the brandy!

Glad your spotting has stopped

That's good then hun we just got a new car and Simon had mine and we sold his, so much easier with a people carrier!

Ooo gonna go check it out xxx

 

[Laura2806]

Woohoo I find it weird that you say 'we're in this together' the thread I started first time TTC I changed the name to 'We're all in this together' after a couple of months! Xx

 

[ica235]

That link makes me feel so much better great find!!

Don't think ill be testing tomorrow, going out first thing and won't be home til the evening so may have to wait until Wednesday morning!! So Laura, I'm with you little miss!!!
Maybe we will get our BFPs together! Haha xxxx

 

[Laura2806]

Ooo yay let's test together Wednesday!! how ace would that be!! Xx

 

[MrsCorny]

Now I wanna test on Wednesday just to join you!! Lol but I don't wanna waste another test!! Ill be 11dpo at least, the most would be 13dpo... Not sure when I Ov'ed. Can't wait to see some test pics!!!
Ica- I, glad the link was helpful.
Laura- that's too funny, it's like u were meant to join my thread! So glad you did!

Got a couple pretty strong twinges today!! I'm hoping that meant something good is brewing in there! I keep thinkin it's gonna be gas but never is. Lol gosh, I don't wanna get too excited!

 

[Laura2806]

HAHA DO IT!!! You need some suer sensitive test! I have 15 left

sure is meant to be!

eeeeks excited !

just had 2 mins photoboothing it with my lil dude, hilarious! will have to share some later!

xxx

 

[ica235]

Ah can't wait! Mrscorny dooooo it!! One cheeky test won't hurt!!

Wednesday club! Woop woop!!

 

[RedButterfly]

You're making me want to test now! But I don't know whether I'm on a new cycle or still in the same one!

 

[Laura2806]

hehe only 2 more sleeps!!

Red, must be so confusing hun maybe test anyways? xx

 

[RedButterfly]

Well I did an OPK today just to see and there's a faint line. Nearly pulled out a HPT but quickly emptied the container and went and drank loads before my hand had a mind of it's own!

 

[noodles13]

hello everyone whats new?

 

[MrsCorny]

Haha Red!! Ur too funny!! Good job holding off dear!

Ica and Laura! Ur not helping my POAS addiction at all! Im seriously considering testing Wednesday now!! Tut tut ladies! Eek! Now im all excited...
I sure hope these twinges arent for an upcoming AF! ! PRAYERS. PLEASE! LOL

 

[Laura2806]

ooo thats exciting red!!!! and go you! id have dipped! lol

hey noodles! where ya been??

hehe mrsc! bad influences xx