Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[MrsCorny]

Aww sorry Laura and sorry Mrsc! just wasnt meant to be this month..

We're all back on CD1 on the same day! What are the chances!!

You never know mrsc, hubby might change his mind or suprise you one time!
and we didnt have any money before douglas, but we found it, you just seem to get by somehow! and as mel has proved! its possible on the pull out method!!

Thanks, I tried asking him what month he'd like our baby to born in and we thought June would be nice, so I said we'd have to conceive in September, wanna try then? And he was like I don't wanna commit to that...
Maybe it's too much pressure, it just sucks not knowing when you can give it a real go... We've already proven for 5 months that pull out works, so idk... I'm really bummed today... I hate getting all excited for why it would be so good each month... Ugh

Corny: No way sweetie. I am so sorry.
It will happen soon. U enjoy your time with hubby this long weekend. God has given u the man of your dreams and I am sure the epitome of your love & romance will soon come to this world.

And yes don't ever close this thread. This is my online family and I need it to vent my emotions here and I am sure everyone feels the same ( lol ) or to share my BFP if I get one. We are still NTNP and will continue for next few months to come. So I am not worried about AF to show as we are not TTC . But will be over joyed if I get those two pink lines.

Ica & Laura: So we all are in for July. Hope we get lucky sometime sooner.

Red: When are you testing next ?

Mel: Thanks for the info. I am so happy and excited for you. And yes we all are waiting to know how far u hv gone.

I won't close the thread! Don't worry!! I am looking forward to the weekend. I think I'll need it. Tomorrow is a long day... Just gotta thru the rest of my shift today and a long day tomorrow then just relax til Monday.
We aren't even really NTNP cuz he pulls out during fertile time... I'm glad u get to NTNP. Prob the most fun!! Hehe
found out my fertile period takes place over our anniversarybp which bummed me out big time... By whatever...
Blessings and baby dust ladies!!

 

[fairyy]

U know if I could have conceived last month then my due date would have been in Feb which is our wedding anniversary. Its going to be four years in Feb 28th. As of now I don't know why but don't even wanna do opk. Just doing it for fun. But the baby thing is always on my mind, I am not denying that. Thinking of asking hubby to TTC in September, hope he would agree as its my birthday that month. Let's see but I am scared to even discuss about TTC.

 

[MrsCorny]

Fairyy I am right there with you. I'd love to have an April baby. I'd rather not be in third trimester during the summer months! So now would be my ideal timing to be pregnant. But even if we were to conceive in September for a June baby that'd be awesome... But hubby had said yes hesitantly then was honest and told me he doesn't wanna set a date. I was just asking for an NTNP date, not even a TTC. Ugh.
I hope you just get a BFP while NTNP.

 

[fairyy]

Ya I hope so. Fertility friend is showing Thu,Fri,Sat as my fertile days and SUNDAY as my "O" day. I started temping from today and will continue till CD20 and then will stop. Doing it to know my ovulation day (with normal thermometer as I don't have a BBT but it works for me). My testing date will be 23rd July if there is no AF. I don't have any OPK, HPT or BBT with me. I will get some HPT only if I am late for AF. That's the only way to keep myself away from testing. I was so obsessed those first three months of 2013, I used those FRER tests for nothing (sometimes around 10dpo and sometimes after period assuming it as pregnancy spotting/bleeding, crazy right !!!) I will store some OPK, HPT and BBT if possible for September. Hope DH agrees to TTC then.

Mel got BFP by this pull out method. So anything can happen. Just have to have faith in God. It will happen when it is time for us.

 

[Laura2806]

Mrsc anything can happen hun! Plenty of people get pregnant while not being overly careful and like ica said he may well change his mind, if you let him know when you're fertile he can make his mind up what to do

Thanks ica, she'll hit full force before long! Xx

 

[Laura2806]

Any updates ladies?

AF hasn't arrived yet, cramping though so I'm expecting her tomorrow at CD38 just hope she's not later it'll mean each cycle is longer than the last! Looking forward to temping again xx

 

[MrsCorny]

Only update here is my cramps are freakin horrible. I had to use a heating pad just to be able to sleep last night... Ugh... I hate my period.
And being in pain makes me all cranky and my poor hubby has to deal with me. Lol
Seems like similar thing is happening to me, Laura... Every other cycle is getting longer... 25,25,30,30,32... What a tease right? Comes a couple days late and u get all excited, then the flies in anyway.

 

[RedButterfly]

Nothing really new here. Got a few AF type cramps yesterday. A few this morning. Can't stop eating strawberry bon bons. Infact I can't stop eating in general, lol. But that may be down to BF. Hubby asked yesterday if I was pregnant cause I can't stop eating.

 

[Laura2806]

mrsc did she get you full on now? i hate cramps heatpads are ace though! try sprinkling them with some lavender essential oils after you've warmed it (thats if you use the wheat type ones) are even just a scent/fragrance you love

red lets hope its a good sign with the eating and cramps and not AF lurking!

xxx

 

[MrsCorny]

mrsc did she get you full on now? i hate cramps heatpads are ace though! try sprinkling them with some lavender essential oils after you've warmed it (thats if you use the wheat type ones) are even just a scent/fragrance you love

red lets hope its a good sign with the eating and cramps and not AF lurking!

xxx

Yes full on now... Floodgates have opened... Yuck yuck yuck! Thankfully the kiddos were good for me at work yesterday. Pretty chill day.
Cramps were the reason I went on birth control 5 years ago- I wasn't even sexually active at that point. But it's not worth going back on now that I know what it does. :/ urgh...

Red: I hope that's a good sign for ya! I'm so crampy I don't wanna eat anything...

 

[noodles13]

hello guys

hows everyone doing

my update is... im on the second period in 3 weeks awful!!! must be the effects of coming off depo.... my oh has been really ill so in-between periods and illness its been life as usual any one got a BFP so far?

were also deciding if we want to have more children it will be within the next 2 years by the time I am 20 as we don't want a big gap between all the children... so we shall see what happens

 

[fairyy]

I tried those BCP when we were newly married. But gave uo on them only after 3days of taking it. It made me nauseated. I couldn't eat properly beacuse I did smell everything then. I stopped it on CD3, but due to its side effect my AF lasted till CD10/11. Next month I was 10days late. DH was also not in favor of BCP. I only took it to get ride of those period pains. My periods are always painful. I take 2 to 3 pain killer each cycle to get some relief.

 

[Laura2806]

Marc's sorry she hit you hard I'm still waiting! Feel crap and pissed off!

Noodles that sucks, hopefully your body will find its rhythm soon hope hubby gets better soon too.

I actually just wanna curl up and cry! Seriously pissed with OH, this wedding will be the death of me! Thought it was supposed to be exciting not make you wish it was all over with?! All over a meal the night before the wedding! It's a long story but in short it's gonna be half of his family and his MOTHERS friends and my parents! I've already been made to feel like I'm not part of their family yet she reckons she loves me, just typing that angers me! I could go on forever about it but don't wanna bother you ladies with my crap! Think I may go to bed and cry till I fall asleep. Night all xxx

 

[fairyy]

Marc's sorry she hit you hard I'm still waiting! Feel crap and pissed off!

Noodles that sucks, hopefully your body will find its rhythm soon hope hubby gets better soon too.

I actually just wanna curl up and cry! Seriously pissed with OH, this wedding will be the death of me! Thought it was supposed to be exciting not make you wish it was all over with?! All over a meal the night before the wedding! It's a long story but in short it's gonna be half of his family and his MOTHERS friends and my parents! I've already been made to feel like I'm not part of their family yet she reckons she loves me, just typing that angers me! I could go on forever about it but don't wanna bother you ladies with my crap! Think I may go to bed and cry till I fall asleep. Night all xxx

Laura hunny u can vent it here. We are here to support each other at difficult times and share our joy during good times. As it is said when shared sorrows are halved and joys are doubled. Hope tomorrow brings a lovely day for u.

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks hunni

I don't get on with my MIL very well, she's very pushy and things have to be done her way, well I'm not a push over and strong minded so we clash. But this is supposed to be our wedding and what we want not about her. I had Simon sobbing in my arms a few weeks ago because he feels that they're not bothered about him now Oscar is here yet he still panders to her and bows down to her, this makes me angry too, no point talking to Oh about it as whenever we do nothing changes I can see one day it'll be a choice of her or me or I just won't have anything to do with her. I just want a MIL I can get along with and not clash but no matter how hard I try nothing happens. Don't think she likes the fact that Simon has me and he's not all hers now.



Xxx

 

[fairyy]

I hate when in-law's are so demanding. There should be some space. U guys are mature enough and have family of your own. I don't understated why she has to interfere. Simon has to handle things smoothly to ease things. When is the wedding ? How is the preparation going ?

 

[fairyy]

hello guys

hows everyone doing

my update is... im on the second period in 3 weeks awful!!! must be the effects of coming off depo.... my oh has been really ill so in-between periods and illness its been life as usual any one got a BFP so far?

were also deciding if we want to have more children it will be within the next 2 years by the time I am 20 as we don't want a big gap between all the children... so we shall see what happens

I hate to see AF. Hope u will be back to normal soon from the side effects of depo. Mel got BFP. I don't know whether u know this already or not.

 

[Laura2806]

Tell me about it hun! Se just can't let go! It's 4wks today chick we're getting there, not that Simon has done anything to help out hardly, I keep reminding him that we're both getting married! just come upto bed without saying a word to Simon, I know he's trying to keep us both (me and his mum) happy but it always seems that she's the one whose happy at the end of it all, maybe I'm just being selfish to want him to stand up for me for once, idk. So many times I have wanted to just get Oscar and walk out, go to my parents house or just drive around for hours, not take my phone and just forget about everything, but I don't have the guts, plus that would be lowering me to his mothers level as that what she did on Mother's Day just gone and completely ruined my first Mother's Day, I'll never get that back, ever. And never forgive her for doing it. Simon had to go and help sort her out when she tueprned back up and left me sobbing hysterically to the point where I called my folks but couldn't get an answer and I was stood in our spare bedroom just about to pick up a pair of scissors when my mum called me back. Something I'm not proud of but it was how I was feeling at that moment. Xx

 

[RedButterfly]

AF just got me.

Chin up Laura.

 

[Laura2806]

Red hun I'm so sorry she got you, I'll try! Xx