Hey ladies. Been working a lot past few days, sorry i haven't been on much. Just read like 2 pages of updates so gonna try to reply to all. Sorry if I miss someone!
Fairyy- oh! Ur gonna be charting? Let me know how it goes for you, 50/50 on the idea for myself.
Red- sorry AF got you! Heavy periods suck! Do you have awful cramping too?
Laura- wedding planning should be fun, but tbh mine was not all the wonderful either. In my situation, it was MY mother that was beyond controlling and mad that she thought she was losing one of her babies. Believe it or not, she made the biggest fuss about the dresses that her and my MIL would be wearing cuz at the time my mom was very overweight and my MIL is quite slim. They both had beautiful dresses but my mom wanted hers to DB nicer cuz she the mother of the bride... Well MIL is mother of the groom the other just as important party in the wedding
so many tears over darn dresses!
IMO you should tell her to back off. She is not the one getting married, you and your OH are! Unless she is solely paying for the wedding you do not even have to discuss your decisions with her and if she is behaving like that, should not be discussing them with her IMO. And even if she IS paying for it, that is to be a GIFT to you two to make it a day YOU TWO want it to be, not for her to live vicariously thru.
You're OH is yours, you become one and that is that, boundaries need of be drawn now so as not to negatively affect your marriage and all the relationships with you sweet son. Seems times drawing boundary lines are worth a few days of havoc to make some peace for the long run. Let us know how everything goes. And no matter what the wedding turns out like, if u r marrying your best friend and father of your child, that is all you need to remember. The two of you in love vowing yourselves to one another thru everything!!
Ica- so glad it's getting back to normal for you. I hope it stays that way... Unless of course she goes away completely to let a little bean nest in there for a while! Hehe
Mel- I was curious when an OB would see you. Not sure how it works, so 8 weeks... Feels like a long time after first finding out! I'm looking forward to your update after that appt dear!
Noodles- glad to see you back... There sure is a lot going on here, though unfortunately, most of us have gotten BFNs and AF. but... There is always next month.
Afm- cramps have finally tapered off and I'm feeling better. Still a heavy flow, which should slow down tomorrow. And I actually don't feel angry anymore lol. Period pains and emotions always get me either sobbing or really mad the first 2 days. Glad that's over lol
Happy July 4th to everyone! We will hopefully go see fireworks or do something. Maybe we will drop by to see my dad- mom is away for a convention in TN and visiting her family there for about 3 weeks, so my dad is stuck home alone with my 2 younger siblings and my older sister moving back in next week. I'm sure he could use some company from his "favorite" child
and hubby and i have like no friends...haha plus dad's got a fire pit. I'm thinkin s'mores!!! Lol
Anyone have any fun plans for today?