Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[MsBuehler1121]

Habit lol....I didn't today though

 

[fairyy]

Habit lol....I didn't today though

ha ha
for the new pg ticker.

 

[MrsCorny]

Laura temp definitely look better this cycle.

Lindsay, you can go by the cm. They give better indication of fertile days.
And I am glad that those crappy dream days are over.

Angela, why are you still temping ?

AFM: I don't want to track my cycle this time. Just I know that I can expect AF on 18th/19th November. I am not even checking my FF account.

I have some questions ladies regarding that baby making. I want to be ready for January when we start actual TTC.
1.Do you think every other day BD is fine or BD on all days of ewcm is better ?
2.BD during night and going to sleep right away or BD anytime of the day ?
3.Caffeine or no caffeine ? I drink one cup of tea every morning.

1: I think either, but if I were to TTC I'd BD whenever I have ewcm, makes it easier and more enjoyable to DTD, anyway!!! Haha
2: any time of the day, IMO.
3: from all I've read, one cup a day isn't going to do any damage. I drink half a cup of coffee a day and coffee has more caffeine than tea (typically. Depends on how strong one takes it) I've also heard if mean have caffeine it makes their swimmers faster!! Haha

 

[fairyy]

My man doesn't drink caffeine.

I called my healthcare provider and they told that annual physical (well woman exam) is 100% covered. But for the ultrasound we have to pay $100 out of pocket and any exceeding amount insurance would pay.

I think for now I am going to book an appointment for annual exam with OBGYN and discuss the issues with her and lets see what she recommends.

Btw have anyone of you ever done a pap smear ? Does this process hurt ?

 

[MrsCorny]

My man doesn't drink caffeine.

I called my healthcare provider and they told that annual physical (well woman exam) is 100% covered. But for the ultrasound we have to pay $100 out of pocket and any exceeding amount insurance would pay.

I think for now I am going to book an appointment for annual exam with OBGYN and discuss the issues with her and lets see what she recommends.

Btw have anyone of you ever done a pap smear ? Does this process hurt ?

Pretty sure Pap smear is something that gets done each yearly exam. I've had it done, it's not bad, doesn't hurt- just a tad uncomfortable. Don't worry.
And that stinks about $100 out of pocket, I wonder if that's how it is once you become pregnant, do you have to pay that for your typical scans?? Ugh!!

 

[fairyy]

I was so scared of pap smear. Glad that you told it doesn't hurt. Booked an appointment for well woman exam i.e annual physical exam on 1st November. I will talk to the doctor regarding conception during that visit. Let's see what she recommends.

My insurance told that they will pay anything over $100. Suppose the ultrasound costs $300 then we have to pay $100 and they will pay rest of the amount. I don't know whether each time they will do the same thing or once we cross $100 with our OBGYN they would pay everything.

 

[Laura2806]

yay for that ticker msb!!

bd any time, laying down after makes no difference! EOD the whole cycle then ED days of ewcm/ovulation. as i dont typically get much specific ewcm i need other methods to tell me of ovulation. and yep caffine helps the swimmers swim! i read that 2hrs before ovulation(for him to drink) is good

smear test, they dont do them in the uk until you get to 25 but i have had swabs to check for infection, one on my cervix, just uncomfy and a bit embarrassing, nothing more though hun just relax with it cant be worse than an internal ultrasound

glad you got your apt booked hun

also im guessing the insurance thing is paying the excess first like with car or pet insurance you have to pay the first say £250 or whatever, same with health maybe?

 

[fairyy]

I think you are right. She told its like car insurance. First $100 we have to pay.

And about BD, by the night we both are tired. I mostly get in mood during afternoon or evening mostly. But after that I don't get time to lay down as I need to do other household stuff.

 

[Laura2806]

I actually read in the morning is best as sperm stock builds up during the night we don't get chance of a morning, not until Oscar goes to bed at 8:30pm then like you it's house jobs first! I normally just crash after, like last night, spark out straight after lol

 

[fairyy]

We used to have morning BD. DH likes AM BD. But these days he has his official calls in the morning. So no BD in the morning for us anymore.

 

[MrsCorny]

Morning BD is my faaave!!! Great way to start the day, all intimate with my man. got two mornings in a row so far! Hoping to keep it up this weekend! Should Ov by Monday the latest. hope sooner!

 

[fairyy]

Yay
We need some BFP for Thanksgiving and Christmas and I will add my BFP by Valentine's Day.

 

[Laura2806]

Make the most of it Lindsay! Sex was how we always started a Sunday, not anymore! Lol fxd for ov soon!

Started OPK!'s today, was taking ages to dry though so haven't checked it yet! Tired today

 

[MrsCorny]

Oh I'm hoping, gotta keep convincing him without it seeming like I wanna do it to get pregnant, cuz even tho he's okay with it, the idea of doing it for any reason other than lovin on each other doesn't get him going, he gets funny about it. Lol
No sore nips yet tho, so I'm thinking I may have a couple days. Seems I have them for like 3 days, worst on 2nd day which is when I Ov'ed, or at least that's what temps showed last cycle.

 

[Laura2806]

I'm sure you can convince him it's due to love which ofc it is but a BFP would be an added bonus!

Oh and btw I completely did not want sex the first tri of pregnancy! Didn't really get my sex drive back until after Oscar was born and straight away I was super horny!

 

[fairyy]

For me the ovulation sign is my ewcm starts from CD10/11 and they last for four days and on the last day of ewcm I ovulate. Some cycles on the ovulation day my cm dries up. "O" occurs normally on CD14/15. Few cycles were deviations though.

 

[fairyy]

I want my DH now. All these discussions are making me want some . But the AF is still in spotting stage.

How long all of u bleed/spot ? For me it lasts till CD6 mostly.
Do you take any pain killer during AF ? I take Ibuprofen on CD1 and CD2.

 

[MsBuehler1121]

I'm sure you can convince him it's due to love which ofc it is but a BFP would be an added bonus!

Oh and btw I completely did not want sex the first tri of pregnancy! Didn't really get my sex drive back until after Oscar was born and straight away I was super horny!

That's scary...I'm not wanting it either but do to keep him from having a panic attack without it

I'm hoping to get mine back asap!!!

 

[MrsCorny]

Holy crap! We are on a roll! Hahahaha! hoping I Ov'ed one of the last few days or will today or tomorrow. Twice on Wednesday, twice yesterday, and BD this morning already! He's a stinkin sex-monster! I am one happy wifey right now hopin I can keep up with him til I Ov. Wish I had temped so I'd know! Lol sorry if TMI, I'm just excited that's happening during supposed fertile days.

 

[fairyy]

You have got good amount of supply there waiting for the egg

We too had a morning . Nice start to Friday.