Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[Laura2806]

Pal if you notice your cover line is higher than the previous cycle so maybe it's gradually getting higher? I don't know what your temp converts to in celcius Hun so I'm not much use. Any concerns you have are def worth a mention though! Especially if it's a continual thing hope AF stays away chick xx

Lindsay I think you'll always be nervous Hun, I am a bit even now! But more about telling people, not how I will manage, money, work or anything like that just how people will react! Lol crazy really when you think of my tattoo!

Think I might order some OPK's tonight and see how I go with them this cycle. Fxd I get a positive the same time as a temp rise!

 

[fairyy]

Its getting red now from light brown. I am sure now is here. Now I have started to feel that this BFP thing is not for me. I don't know whether I belong here or not. May be I am not fertile and blindly hoping for a BFP. Nothing can make me feel better after 10months of failure. Almost every friend of mine have their babies other than me. I am heart broken. I never thought it would be so hard to get pregnant for us.

 

[Laura2806]

Oh sweetie I'm sending you massive hugs. So sorry you are feeling so down. It's completely normal. A friend keeps reminding me we needs the lows to be able to pick ourselves back up and carry on. If you have concerns about being fertile see your obgyn, talk through your concerns and get some bloods done to put your mind at rest. I believe you have no reason to think you have issues other than the fact you haven't conceived as yet. Take time to sit back, think about things, about what you desire most and imagine it happening, vividly, feel it, smell, hear it. Remind yourself of your goal. Tell yourself this is your path you are following not anyone else's, it doesn't matter when people get their BFP's, yes it hurts and it's incredibly hard but remind yourself of the end goal and you will reach it. Here for you hunni xxx

 

[fairyy]

Thanks a lot hun. I am trying to hold my head up. Planning to book an appointment with OBGYN in December after my dental issues get sorted out in November.

 

[Laura2806]

I know it's hard I really do, if I could anything to help you right now I would in a heartbeat! I think that apt will help you loads, even just knowing it's booked or will be booked could be the relaxation you need to conceive your beautiful baby

 

[MsBuehler1121]

Hey sweets! Maybe you should take a month off from temping....just reset, shake it off and try again later. You definitely don't need to be stressed out because that can affect ovulation. Enjoy your hubs and go on a date...it'll happen when you least expect it I promise

 

[fairyy]

Hey sweets! Maybe you should take a month off from temping....just reset, shake it off and try again later. You definitely don't need to be stressed out because that can affect ovulation. Enjoy your hubs and go on a date...it'll happen when you least expect it I promise

No more temping or anything for next three cycles. By the mean time I will be done with my dental, OBGYN and appointment with primary physician. Hope I can relax and enjoy holidays with DH.

 

[Laura2806]

Good plan Hun, hopefully it happens in the meantime!

 

[MrsCorny]

Fairyy- just read thru last few posts. Laura and MsB aretotally right. And you have a good plan- just try to let go during holidays- no temp or stress. Maybe it will happen in the meantime.
So sorry youre feeling down, I hope you cheer up soon, love. we are all here for you.

 

[ica235]

Hope you're all well, miss chatting to you ladies

 

[fairyy]

Thank you Lindsay.
Jessica how are u dear ?

 

[Laura2806]

Jess hunni, hope your migraine eased off xx

 

[MsBuehler1121]

Sending you all some sugar! Mwauh...xoxoxoxoxo

 

[Laura2806]

How you feeling Hun? Need a ticker for bump!!

 

[Laura2806]

P.s check out how level my temps are this cycle!! .02 apart most days! Not had that for a long time, maybe it's because I'm sleeping better ATM

 

[MrsCorny]

So 3 nights in a row had horrible nightmares, not realistic at all, like I knew I was dreaming, but it was still terrifying.... I hate that. So last night hubby noticed I was restless and I told him it was cuz I was honestly just afraid to fall asleep and have another creepy dream, well he held my hand and prayed over me... No nightmares! Finally! I didn't know what I was gonna do if that kept happening. Ugh!
So I think I'm comin up on fertile days soon, if they haven't started already... Gettin anxious! I really wanna conceive this month! Lol I'm over my fears and doubts, I know God will provide, and hubby feels the same trust in God. He's not as excited as I am, but I'm also quite an enthusiastic person haha

Hope everyone is doing alright! Where is everyone in their current cycle?

 

[Laura2806]

Sorry to hear about the nightmares, glad they've gone

Fxd for this cycle for you hun x

I'm just waiting on thinking on OPK's to arrive then ill start testing around CD12/14 once a day. See how that goes. Temps are loads better this cycle which is good

 

[MrsCorny]

Sorry to hear about the nightmares, glad they've gone

Fxd for this cycle for you hun x

I'm just waiting on thinking on OPK's to arrive then ill start testing around CD12/14 once a day. See how that goes. Temps are loads better this cycle which is good

Laura- glad to hear temps are better hun! I hope this cycle is easier on you, I know how stressful it was last cycle. FXed for the best!

AFM: I'm not gonna temp but I am gonna note cm and BD from CD14-21 just the week I should be most fertile, and seems about right cuz I started having watery cm yesterday . And I will almost definitely have ovulated by the 21st. Last month was CD17 I think. FF is predicting CD20 as Ov day this month for some reason.

 

[MsBuehler1121]

How you feeling Hun? Need a ticker for bump!!

I'm great. I stink at creating tickers lol.
How are you!?!

 

[fairyy]

Laura temp definitely look better this cycle.

Lindsay, you can go by the cm. They give better indication of fertile days.
And I am glad that those crappy dream days are over.

Angela, why are you still temping ?

AFM: I don't want to track my cycle this time. Just I know that I can expect AF on 18th/19th November. I am not even checking my FF account.

I have some questions ladies regarding that baby making. I want to be ready for January when we start actual TTC.
1.Do you think every other day BD is fine or BD on all days of ewcm is better ?
2.BD during night and going to sleep right away or BD anytime of the day ?
3.Caffeine or no caffeine ? I drink one cup of tea every morning.