Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[MrsCorny]

I've been so good not testing super early the past couple cycles... I don't wanna real the trend! Lol
At dermatologist to see what this rash is. Been over a week now... Can't stand it. Might test tomorrow.. fmu only tho.

 

[MrsCorny]

Caved. Tested: BFN. Not surprised. Even I did ovulate earlier than ff predicted, it's still way early. I'm 7dpo tops. So I'm not disappointed.

Doc thought rash was scabies- check under scope. It's not, thank God. But she has no clue what it could be... Wants to treat me for scabies anyway, but not sure i wanna do it unless I know it is. I don't wanna be treated for something I don't have... especially if there is a chance I am preggers... I'll just wash all the bedding and stuff today.

 

[MsBuehler1121]

I wouldn't use anything either, just in case...use anti itch cream
Take a test in 5 more days
I tested at 11 dpo and got a faint so it was still early let the hcg build up

 

[Laura2806]

that sucks you didn't get anything conclusive at the docs could it be an alergy maybe?

I'm considering stopping temping, either for a week and continuing with the opk's then temp again a week Monday or if I get a positive temp to confirm it or wait until next cycle and not temp then. The problem if I go a whole cycle is I won't have any clue when AF/test would be due so I could test at CD30 @nd not have ovd yet. Think I'll go with a week off and see how it goes.

My reasoning is the cycle I conceived Oscar I was on about CD40 and no sign of ov so took a break from ramping for a few days and went to the docs, after about 4days of not temping I temper and it was really high so that night used preseed about 7/8 days later temp rose again and what was around 14/16 dpo I got a bfp. So im thinking if I stop temping I may ov due to being more relaxed but still opk to see when it could happen. The problem is I don't wanna get my hopes up and tell myself if I stop temping it will happen and we will conceive. So you see im a little bit stuck!

Any advice will be enormously appreciated ladies xxx

 

[MrsCorny]

Laura- not an allergy, haven't changed anything, ie eating habits, exercise, clothing, detergent, etc.
Maybe it will help if you're more relaxed. FXed hun.
Just got some CM this morning, been pretty dry up til now, maybe I'm ovulating, or getting ready to. Gonna pounce on hubby after workout and shower this morning.

 

[Laura2806]

I just don't know what to do for the best anymore. Tempted to stop everything and just BD EOD and when I hit CD35 test weekly until AF arrives. I just can't keep going feeling so shit everytime I think about TTC and everyone around me conceiving with ease, I know not everyone does but the majority are right now and it hurts.

I hope you ov soon hunni

 

[MrsCorny]

I just don't know what to do for the best anymore. Tempted to stop everything and just BD EOD and when I hit CD35 test weekly until AF arrives. I just can't keep going feeling so shit everytime I think about TTC and everyone around me conceiving with ease, I know not everyone does but the majority are right now and it hurts.

I hope you ov soon hunni

I think that sounds like a plan, kinda NTNP so less stress, but still being able to figure out if/when you ovulate. If you have the means to get all the OPKs, why the heck not? Less annoying than temping the minute you open your eyes and wondering if it's accurate and blah blah blah, lol
I hope you do try it at least one cycle, see how it goes, if not- back to TTC or just full NTNP. Keep us posted hun.

AFM: totally pounced hubby yesterday. Tried morning BD just now, but I was kinda dry- gah... Maybe I didn't ovulate.... Or already did and just had a random spot of ewcm, still no sore nips, not even slightly.
And now I'm gonna wait to test again til Nov. 14. If I don't have my period by then, I figure I'm in with a chance
AND Hubby's birthday is the 15th and I've decided (IF I get a BFP) I wanna surprise him while we are out for breakfast that morning, but gonna make a reservation and have the wait staff in on it I'm thinking binky in his food and drink served in a bottle and I'll give him a bday card that is addressed to "Daddy".... But of course.... Only IF I get a BFP.
That's my plan just without the bday card if it's not this cycle. I wanna look back and laugh at the way he found out.

 

[fairyy]

That's a nice plan.
CD 26 today right. So you might have already ovulated. That's what I think.

 

[MrsCorny]

That's a nice plan.
CD 26 today right. So you might have already ovulated. That's what I think.

Yeah, I'm CD 26, prob did already ovulate, just didn't feel any symptoms of it... So I have no idea as to what dpo I could be.
Earliest o date would've been CD17, as that was last cycle. But I'm gonna go by CD19 cuz then if I wait til 14dpo to test with that as O day, then I'll get my period before I even need to test if I'm not preggers.
But if I'm still AF free by Nov. 14, well into my "TWW" then I'll test, cuz I'll be pretty sure im preggers if by then.

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks hun, gonna carry on with both this cycle then just opk next one providing I get a good positive and have something to go by!

Love your plan so cute!

Don't rule out late, as in super late ov though hun, when I conceived Oscar I totally missed a period and ovd CD44, so the 'normal' CD14 of the second cycle! Hope that makes sense! so yh don't rule anything out hun

Scan on Thurs, kinda nervous :S

 

[MrsCorny]

Thanks for encouragement hun!
I so hope you get some answers on Thursday, my heart breaks for you!
So testing day of Nov 14 makes for CD38 which is one day after what my longest cycle was. So thinking I'll either have AF by then or hopefully a positive answer on a stick haha FXed for none latter, naturally lol
I would SO love to do that idea for his birthday breakfast!!! Lol better kick my hopes out the window ASAP... Been down this road before... And a BFN is no fun when I get excited about the possibilities...

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks hun, what breaks my heart is Simon wanting it as bad as me and im not giving it him :'( hoping for a positive opk today, yesterdays was almost so FX!!

Honestly hun, I don't think you've ovd yet as you've not had your normal symptoms, hopefully im wrong though

This TTC stuff is so hard! Good job they're worth it!!

 

[MrsCorny]

Yeah, it's gotta be worse with hubby wanting one too.

My hubs isn't asking for one, he's just fine with it when it happens. But I think he does want it, he keeps pointing out baby stuff. It's killing me. And when I teased him about the possibility of telling him he's a daddy on his birthday, he seemed almost excited about the idea (mind you, my husband almost never shows even a glimpse of excitement- he's pretty level)

I need to stop thinking about it... Thinking maybe I'll start temping tomorrow morning, maybe if I haven't Ov'ed I can catch it.... Idk. I know I shouldn't worry cuz it'll happen eventually. But when I'm at the point of being completely clueless about what is going on, I feel frustrated. I hate the unknown .... I really do. It's not even about the end result- it's just about the now haha

 

[Laura2806]

I'm so with you hunni! Its the not knowing and waiting that's the hard bit!

I thinknits a good idea to temp as of tomorrow, should give you some idea of where you're at even if it doesn't give you a dpo. That's what puts me off not temping. If I have some ov sticks left I'll not temp and just opk from day 14 till the end, if not I shall temp, maybe ill do half and half! Haha

I wish we could just be given a date for when it'll happen and take all the waiting around away. I've stopped positing in my journal, am only here and with pal on hers atm as im just fed up of it all, feel like all my support is here so this is where I am right now ill go back on my journal when I feel I can, i just needed a break from it for a little bit. And i have to admit, im much more relaxed when i don't post in it, maybe im just ready for a long break from it all until im in a better headspace.

Anyways rambling now so ill love and leave you for a little bit anyway hehe xx

 

[MrsCorny]

Yeah. I'm here and on one other thread.
I think this is the worst TWW I've had in a while and I'm like barely even half way thru. *sigh* maybe I should even take a break from here... Idk what's worse... Holding it in or venting it all out on here and prob annoying the crap outta u ladies with my repetitive rants....
I'm just sooooo frustrated, and I really shouldn't be. Just can't help it.

 

[MsBuehler1121]

LADIES!!!!
sorry for my hiatus! Funny/embarrassing story...
Went to the ER this morning cause I thought I was having an appendicitis!
Nope...turns out...gas. So remember, before you head to the doc...fart!!!
Darn ittttt!!!!! How horrible!
Love yas!

 

[MrsCorny]

MsB!!!! That is too funny!!! Lol
Had a friend who had almost the opposite story- she was going into labor with her 4th child and thought it was gas/ constipation... almost didn't make it to the hospital in time!!! Haha

 

[MrsCorny]

Another friend of ours just announced she is pregnant with her second child- they didn't even have to try for their first.... They got married and BAM! They're pregnant.
I'm happy for them but I just get even more antsy to make my own announcement... I wanna be next.... why is it so difficult for me these past few days, I mean holy crap.... I get all upset any time I think about it.... I'm not usually like this. Ugh....

 

[RedButterfly]

Laura - What time of day do you pee on an OPK?

 

[MsBuehler1121]

MsB!!!! That is too funny!!! Lol
Had a friend who had almost the opposite story- she was going into labor with her 4th child and thought it was gas/ constipation... almost didn't make it to the hospital in time!!! Haha

Oh my goodness I couldn't even imagine. Haha

Girl, don't think about others, just rejoice with them in your heart!
Remember...do not be anxious for tomorrow for tomorrow will worry about itself!
Virtual hugs sister!!!!