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[JJsmom]

Love the ice cream!!!

 

[JJsmom]

So this morning I took my first temp. I don't think I'll be able to keep doing the basal body temp. LOL! I don't know if I can remember it every morning. Having sharp pains hit me here and there. I think it's gas.

How are y'all this morning?

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

Gotta love that!!!! Lol

I started a new job today...waking up at 5am every day is going to be fun...lol at least i now have a valid reason to fall asleep early
I too have the stomach cramps/gas and STILL sore boobs :/ hopefully today goes fast...

 

[JJsmom]

How did your first day go??

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

It was good!! Thanks for asking!!! Except for waking up and feeling nauseous....Lol ugh af is coming i just know it- i am bloated like crazy :/

How was your day?!

 

[JJsmom]

Are you normally nauseous when AF is getting ready to arrive?

My day was blah. Work decided they are changing things up and even though I have more seniority than another person they have given her what she wants and I was given something I didn't want. I was told it was a compliment but it sure doesn't feel like one. It feels like I'm going to be stressed even more beyond belief like I used to be before getting the work I have now. I am really upset about it. I have a massive headache and I feel like I'm starving. Been nauseous here and there but I think it's only because I'm hungry. And I haven't been able to wake up yet for the day. LOL! I feel like I've had toothpicks in my eyes all day at work. HAHA!

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

oh no! you poor thing!!!!! I ALWAYS HATE getting those "hunger headaches". once i get one im out for the day! It all depends...some months I just KNOW af is about to come and other months its like I am fine until that day....I barely have any cm and when I do it is ew-like.....I'm not holding my breath for this month though! lol Dh is going back to the doc tomorrow and getting a sperm count check done! I'm so excited!!! LOL

 

[JJsmom]

cool!!! OH told me he'll eventually get checked too if it comes down to it. I hope everything looks good for him!! How soon will you know??

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

He goes tomorrow!!! I know im good bc i was pregnant once before. He on the other hand is going to be 38 this yr and has no kids. He also uses chewing tobacco so i just want to be sure everything is good to go with his sperm. I figure it couldnt hurt to get checked out! He had to go for his yearly physical anyways so it was like "two birds with one stone" lol.

 

[JJsmom]

I didn't know if they'd tell him right away or if they had to wait so long. You know how doctors can be sometimes!!

My OH is 23....eek!! LOL! He's 8 years younger and it's been almost 9 years since I had my DS. So I know I was able to before...maybe I need to work out and lose some weight. DS is always informing me of how "fat" I am so it wouldn't hurt to lose some and they say your chances are better when you're healthier. We were talking at one point at work when another coworker was pregnant. I mentioned I wanted more kids and my supervisor laughed at me and made the comment that I have such a young one he has super swimmers...if that's the case the why hasn't it happened yet???? GRRR!!!! I know he works until 10:30 at night but I try to stay up so we can dtd every other day at least.

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

So you like them young?? Lol jk! dh is 12 yrs older than me! Theres just something about an older man! Lol i have to say though that he looks like hes 28-32 range...hopefully he will pass that on to our kids! I hate when people make comments. Like its just that easy to get pregnant....or when they say you got pregnant once- it should just happen....

Sadly i gained about 20 lbs in the past two yrs....i was pg in a dif relat and lost the baby at 7 weeks....right around the time i got pg (was not planned AT ALL) i was also at my job when it was robbed. Had a gun to my back and head and everything...then found out i was pg a month later....then 2 weeks later lost the baby. Then 2 months later i moved from va to ny to be closer to my family and then met my dh and moved to texas when he got out of the army bc of a medical injury.

Sorry for going on and on! Its amazing how you can talk to someone online and feel like they can relate so much better than people you have known for years!

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

Oh and at least you dtd every other day...dh and i agreed we would do it every other day....it worked for like a week. Then it was every two days... Then none bc we were pass O day and he had to "save his swimmers" for the test tomorrow :/

 

[JJsmom]

Well we aim for every other day. We did that the first month and thought we saw a pink line but then I started so... not sure what went wrong there. I think I kind of have an idea. It's gross, but when he finishes....he wouldn't stop. So basically nothing was left inside. I went off multiple times that we won't ever get pregnant because he doesn't stop afterwards. Yes he's very young. LOL! I've always been attracted to older men. He's the first younger man I've dated and I couldn't be happier! I noticed the older I got the men already had kids and didn't want anymore or didn't want kids period. Multiple times I had men tell me they wanted kids to lure me in then I'd find out they were fixed, or said sorry I have enough and I'm not willing to have any more. One tried to tell me I had to give my kid up and just raise his. I about hurt him bad. But that's in the past.

OH tells me often when I make a comment thank you for your help I know he isn't yours but...he stops me and says he is mine too. He plans on adopting him when we get married. I think he plans on buying a ring soon!!! He can't keep his mouth shut about anything. LOL!! He says when he gets his school money he plans on putting money down on something that is over due for a long time, something special, and something he's wanted to do for a bit but hasn't been able to.

I know what you mean about being able to relate!! Do you FB??

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

Omg!!!!!! That is soooooooooo great!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love when people talk about their SO and you can just tell from typing that they are soo happy!!!!

Why yes i fb! What 26 yr old wouldnt?! Lol i hare though that i cant really put up anythig on there about ttc etc....no one really knows we are " trying" yet!

Its [email protected].... Let me know if you find me!

 

[JJsmom]

I found you!! LOL! I FB but don't post anything either. It's easier to chat that way though. LOL! I have been so busy I have a hard time checking on there. Sent FR cindy linville

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

I got it!!!!!! The pic of you, ds, and so is super cute!!!!!!!! Omg!!!!!! Lol(sorry i fb stalk sometimes!)

You know whats sad? Dh (hes really my so but we have been together for a while and he tells everyone i am his wife!) wont list me as "in a relat" with.... He says its bc when we used to argue one of us would get mad and change it sometimes....(mind you i was in ny and he in georgia for almost a yr). But then when i moved to tx i thought ok he will change it- funny i was here for a month at the time and was in a (it didnt say who though) while his was private! He left up his fb back in june before this whole thing started and found msgs btwn him and a couple girls...one he even told to come and visit him in tx bc he wished things would of worked out btwn them..... This was obv one night after he had been drinking and we argued over something stupid.....ugh maybe bringing a little one into the world isnt the best idea right now :/

Sorry for going on and on...

 

[JJsmom]

No apologies!! I feel the same way when I'm typing a ton out though. LOL! I have new pics to post of vacation. We had a lot of fun. LOL! My entire family minus my brother went. We really are happy together and I'm so glad I decided to meet him even though he was younger. He's such a dork though!! LOL! But that's the best part because we all kind of are and we make each other laugh.

I see what you mean about your DH. He does look really young! If you choose to bring a LO into the world right now then it's your decision! When people fight, men tend to go the "stupid" route. They do and say things they shouldn't say, just like us women do! LOL! I'll be the first to admit it!

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

Oh and btw he wouldnt change it after i told him how hurt i was by it so i deleted him completely from mine.... Childish i know :/

 

[JJsmom]

OK, here is my OPK test I just took. I'm not sure exactly how to read them. Don't know if I O'd already or if I'm going to or if I'm getting ready to start....

 

[tccjonesbaby1]

I wish i could be of help.....sadly i have no clue...